When a friend s dad died suddenly while he was in college, what would happen when he came back?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-13
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    My roommate, when I was a sophomore, my father's car accident suddenly disappeared, and when I heard the news, we just returned to the dormitory after playing basketball, and he picked up the family's **, and collapsed on the spot.

    When he came home from the funeral, he was depressed at a speed visible to the naked eye, often in a daze, rarely laughing, and did not participate in the activities he usually likes to play, and occasionally walked around the school at night, and he could be seen wandering aimlessly alone.

    The classmates secretly discussed for a long time, and their brains were almost dry, and they thought of a half-rancid idea, and asked him out under the pretext of falling in love to find him bold, and took him to drink when it was time for dinner, and did not dare to blatantly pour him wine, and he was drunk with a table of people who took him drunk, and cried after drinking, and it was almost evening when he cried, and he could still move, so he took him to sing and continue to drink. After tossing and turning like this for several weeks, the living expenses were almost over, and we couldn't hold on anymore, when he suddenly asked us to sing, and we knew it was done.

    It took almost another year for him to fully return to normal, but he was obviously a little quieter than before, especially much more careful than ordinary classmates.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When you encounter such an unfortunate thing, you will definitely be sad and sad, and you will realize that you have grown up, shouldered the heavy responsibility of supporting your family, and become more mature.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The changes are very big, and the natural role change will also be great, it can be said that it is depressed and depressed overnight, or it can be said that it matures overnight!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's going to mature and grow up in that moment, and it's a last resort, and it's going to be sad and sad.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This situation should make him seek help from a psychiatrist.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you feel that the relationship is good, then go, you don't need to take things, you can find a friend you all know to go with, we are all going to give money after we go, and the specific amount is according to the relationship, generally one to two hundred, or discuss it with your friends who have a good relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's time to go, just send two or three hundred yuan.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tell you that he regards you as a good friend from the bottom of his heart, and if you think he is your good friend, of course, he will be disappointed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't go.

    If you want to show it, transfer him 200 yuan.

    There are too many students to take it out.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should go, he told you that you should still treat you as a friend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To cut, after all, it is a good friend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People go to heaven! You can't keep up!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's okay to express and ask, students don't have money, don't learn to follow suit.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're just a, will you go to college at 18?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Borrow some money to find him at a critical moment. If only I had been like this.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let's take the time to see her, she needs you right now.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    From now on, I will take care of you as much as you love your father.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I will protect you, take care of you, and hope that I will bring you warmth.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Either way, you go over for a moment.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't think too much, you are his child is fate, he is destined to be gone, God closes a window for you will definitely open another window for you, everyone will have too many regrets, even if you don't see his last face, he will often see you in a dream, life is short, life is a blessing, cherish the people in front of you, good words, this year's service is too much life is gone, as long as we talk about it, we have to live well, this should also be your father's last wish and hope, I wish you happiness!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Life is like this, going farther and farther, and only when you lose it will you know how to regret and cherish the people in front of you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As the saying goes, the sudden death of the new person will leave us with too much regret and pain, but we still need to mourn, we also need to face the reality, and the most important thing is that the living person should live better, which is the best memory of the deceased. Let's mourn and change!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    So cherish the people around you who love you, your relatives, move around more, visit, and the years don't treat others. Do your filial piety in time, and no matter how busy you are, you have to find time to see your family.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    God thinks he's worked hard enough in his life to take him to Elysium, and one day you'll see each other again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The sudden death of a loved one will bring us a lot of regrets and regrets, take care of your relatives now and care more about them, so that you will not be so regretful in the future. Fulfilling your father's wish while he was alive is the best way to repay him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Mourn. We must believe in the old saying, the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You just have to think of your father all the time, and one day you will dream of him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The world is impermanent! No one can predict human life, old age, sickness and death! Let's mourn and change!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I can understand you, my dad also passed away this year, he had a sudden cerebral infarction, he stayed in the intensive care unit for two days after going to the hospital, and when he got better, he was transferred to the general ward, my husband and my brother took turns to take care of it, because it snowed for a few days, and the hospital didn't let too many people accompany me because of the epidemic, so I went to see my dad on the second day of my dad's hospitalization, and I didn't stay long before I went home. Listening to them say that it is much better, I am quite happy, I want to wait for my father to be discharged from the hospital, and then go home to accompany my father, and talk to him well, but I didn't expect that on the morning of the third day of transfer to the general ward, I was still with a hanging needle, and I had a sudden situation, I had difficulty breathing, and I was not rescued.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    See if he loves you or not! He doesn't like you, you can't ... If you really like him, go after me, I'm just three years older than you, don't miss it and regret it, oh, yes, go after it, maybe she's waiting for you to confess! Chase! There is a sister's first love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's going to college, but not elementary school, how can you have character flaws.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    My dad passed away, just this morning. He lasted through the fifteenth, even though he was in so much pain. I think about him so much, no one's cemetery, will he be afraid of the dark and lonely alone, is there cold and hot on the West Heaven Road?

    Dad, let me dream, tell me, you are not happy on the West Heaven Road, so that I can see you again. I miss you so much.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Everyone has the pain of parting with their loved ones People can't be resurrected after death You're still so young If your dad sees you like this, will he feel better? Don't keep too much sadness and self-blame to yourself, I know that feeling is not something that can be gotten rid of in a moment, but wipe away your tears and be strong!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Classmate, I have a similar experience with you, it is very painful to part with your loved ones, I once thought about something similar to you, I even hugged the corpse and cried for a long time, but we have to learn to be strong, the pain of parting with relatives is only temporary, people, destined to die, if you believe in the ghosts and gods, then you will feel that your father is not far from you, come on, instead of going down like this, it is better to live a wonderful life and let your father rest in peace.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I can understand you very well, and the deceased relatives should be placed in a place in the heart. He will be remembered in due course. However, our lives have to look forward.

    Look ahead. If your husband's business is true. Then it also depends on what he says, what he thinks.

    Then you make a decision. Careful decisions are also needed. Once you've decided, don't think about the past.

    Everything still has to look forward.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    He didn't leave without saying a word - because of the medicine - he was confused - he left without saying anything - I knew he couldn't let go of his mother - he couldn't let go of me -

    I wish he could hear it-

    Little sisters - we all pray - there is no pain in heaven - may they be happy in the next life.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Everyone is going to die, and when you can reunite with your father in the future, then there is no regret, so you have to live well while you live!!

    Your husband is better like this, see early and get rid early, man, everyone knows it in their hearts, it's all the same, it's a child, family affairs are difficult, no matter how difficult it is, you have to deal with it yourself, at this time the mentality is the most important, it determines the second half of your life.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    How do I feel that my situation is the same as yours, my dad died a month ago, I was still sleeping at the time, he told me to go to the countryside to play, for the Chinese New Year, I was too lazy to go and slept late, sleepy to death, who knows. These were his and my last words. Then when he was playing cards in the country, he died of a cerebral hemorrhage halfway through, and it was gone, and I didn't do anything.

    But people will eventually die, and I know that one day everyone around me will leave, and I don't know how long I can live. I just want to say.

    Stay alive.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Landlord I have the same experience as you My father died of a heart attack for a month This month is better than death I didn't even see my father for the last time I cried and slept with my father's photo every day Since my father left, there was no laughter at home I hope we can all get through the difficulties as soon as possible After all, there is still a mother waiting for us to support We still have to be strong.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Come on! You have to fulfill your father's wish and get into a good university. My dad died when I was 4 years old, it was a heart attack, he collapsed in front of me, he stopped breathing in front of me, I could only watch and could do nothing.

    Looking at my grandmother's and father's body sitting on the ground and crying, my father still hugged me in the morning to buy delicious and fun food! I can't forget the surprised expression on my mother's face when she rushed home from work, and it was the first time I shed tears for my loved ones, hiding in my room and crying silently. Therefore, my brother should also work hard, and with his father's efforts, he will be admitted to a good university, come on 0

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Call ** or text to give comfort, and then say what you want to see him think, depending on the situation. I believe that your sincerity will give him comfort, as long as it is not a specific day, such as the day of the seventh issue, there are generally no taboos. Or you can ask what day it is in June or July, and you can bring a paper candle to show your condolences.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It would be nice if you contacted us in advance.

    There are no taboos, but the mood has to be considered.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Go and comfort it, how can there be so many taboos.

    Didn't you attend the funeral?

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