I can t get used to looking at my classmates in the dormitory, and I can t get used to looking at my

I'm a junior girl, and I always think that boys don't have this kind of problem like girls. In fact, there are such people around me, as class cadres and dormitory heads, in principle, they should be persuaded, but the character, quality, the habits developed in the past ten years, can not be changed overnight, and the life of the university is really different from the past, it can be said that it is a platform to enter the society, and when you see more, you will find that this is just the "tip of the iceberg", it is not easy to be able to be alone, let alone help the world? I know you really want to play the role of class leader, in fact, we have all tried, but improving the atmosphere is a process that requires interaction, if he does not cooperate, no matter how much you persuade it, it will be in vain.

Personally, I think there's nothing wrong with what you're doing now, even though it's very modest. I have always believed that the influence of the environment on a person is far greater than one-sided preaching, I think what you can do now is to unite other roommates, maintain the atmosphere that is still normal, and try to create a better learning atmosphere, just imagine if everyone ignores his vulgarity, gradually he will feel bored, over time, this subtle effect will be reflected!

A friendly reminder, try to avoid head-on conflicts, even if there is a quarrel, try to be patient, don't do it, I know boys like to use force to solve problems, but they may be demerited!

Finally, I wish you all the best in your work and progress in your studies!

It was fate that brought the two of you to each other and become roommates. Everyone has their own shortcomings, try to influence him with your actions, communicate with him from the perspective of a friend, and also learn to adapt to him. Cherish your friendship and don't give up easily.

I think "Sweet Love Clumsy" is a good thing to say, and it has given me a lot of knowledge.

There's also a guy in our dorm that annoys me. He is also dirty, Ai, and he is also a fallen person at the end of the world.

There is no way to do this, there are many things in life that are not as good. It's good to try to keep things happening, and after a while, you'll change the dormitory!

Don't go on like this, you can avoid contact with him as much as possible, don't hide! ~

Hehe, I'm about the same age as you, and I'm also the class president!The situation you mentioned is also close to me. I don't think you need to pay too much attention to him, it will affect your mood!

The more you care about him, the more you can't get used to it, don't care about him so much, you just do your own thing, take the lead, and treat him with a very broad heart. If you treat him like any other friend, he will be very embarrassed and he will feel that he is doing something bad. It's going to be a little smoother, don't you think?

I wish you all the best !!Happy !

Use his shortcomings against him.

Don't be unaccustomed to something, it's a sign of your immaturity.

Hehe, you may also be biased against him, but you just didn't notice.

I don't think he's bad or bad, he just wants to get everyone's attention, so you can help him as much as possible, it will be good for your work, come on! I believe you may be able to do this job well.

Maybe you can't change it! You can only reason with him, if he doesn't listen, it means that this person has reached the point where there is no cure, and let other classmates pay less attention to him!

Use his methods against him.

Cherish everyone around you, no amount of hatred can withstand the emptiness of the moment when you leave!

Summary. In fact, there must be friction in a dormitory together, after all, everyone comes from all over the world, and they are all petted by the family, it is inevitable that there will be some different behavior habits, and there will be a phenomenon that you can't get used to me and I can't get used to you. I think as long as this situation is not too serious, you can still continue to get along, after all, interacting with people is to learn to be tolerant.

If you have a conflict with your roommate, you can solve it in the following two ways.

In the bedroom"I can't get used to it"Roommate.

In fact, there must be friction in a dormitory together, after all, everyone comes from all over the world, and they are all petted by the family, it is inevitable that there will be some different behavior habits, and there will be a phenomenon that you can't get used to me and I can't get used to you. I think as long as this situation is not too serious, you can still continue to get along, after all, interacting with people is to learn to be tolerant. If you have a conflict with your roommate, you can solve it in the following two ways.

1. Directly pick out, what to say I think the current students are still relatively qualified, although there are such and such problems, but overall human nature is still good. If you have an opinion or dissatisfaction with him, you can bring it up directly with him, after all, if you want to solve the problem, you need to communicate, and if you don't say it, others will never know. You can tell him that you don't like him**, if he has a good attitude, he will definitely change, and if he doesn't change, he will also restrain his behavior.

2. If you can't negotiate, you can change the dormitory This should be the best and most effective way, but in fact, he still has a lot of bad points. First of all, you have to adapt to the new environment, because if you suddenly have to change dorms, it will be difficult for the teacher to deal with it, and it will definitely take time to coordinate with you. It's likely that you'll be transferred to a dormitory you're not familiar with, so you'll have to spend more time adapting to your new roommate's habits, time, and so on.

Besides, if you are not used to that person and have a good relationship with other roommates, then your relationship will definitely be a little more distant as soon as you leave, and you will not be able to move together often, so it will be relatively lonely.

It is best to follow the requirements and recommendations of some professionals. 3.It is best to keep a distance of 2 meters from people in contact and conversation.

Don't spit casually, cover your sneeze with a tissue, etc. 4.To ensure a hygienic diet, it is best to eat hot food and get enough rest.

5.Don't get rainy, tired, and so on, and all these things that cause your immunity to drop.

As long as it doesn't affect your own life and learning, you can ignore it, otherwise you can treat others the way you do. Don't hold back by yourself, after all, people don't know how you feel.

Raise a hundred kinds of people in the same rice, everyone has their own small problems, and they are all imperfect, so it is inevitable that everyone living together will have things that others are not used to. It's completely okay to ignore them without affecting yourself. Just like when I was in school, I had a roommate, and after ten o'clock every day, no one else was allowed to talk, and no one was allowed to make a big move, otherwise he would reprimand others without giving face.

Although I don't like his behavior, it doesn't affect my life and study for me, so I can tolerate his behavior, but others are dissatisfied with his unfair treatment. Once another person in the dormitory chatted late, and laughed loudly, which caused his dissatisfaction and directly angered the other person, the two of them didn't let anyone, and the noise was quite big, many people came out to see, and other people in the dormitory and people who knew them began to persuade him, but maybe there were too many people who were dissatisfied with him, and everyone was obviously pulling the shelf, and in the end he suffered a lot of losses. However, this phenomenon has changed a lot since then, at least it is not so strict with others.

I also don't get used to seeing a person in the dormitory who always litters, even if you just finish sweeping the floor and the trash can is in front of you, he won't throw it in it. For this reason, I did the same when he was sweeping the floor, and he said that I would scold him, and slowly he stopped littering. Therefore, when you are not used to seeing a thing or a person, you should distinguish clearly before acting, and don't express your opinions at will.

When I first came to the university, I got along well at first, quite harmonious, but slowly after a long time, contradictions appeared, many people are slowly exposing their shortcomings and faults more or less, in our dormitory, sometimes there will be some contradictions, some people's habits, stinky problems are really unaccustomed, for example, some roommates always like to call people, at first they didn't care much, but after a long time, they will feel particularly annoying, everyone doesn't want to be called, I'm the same, so when I'm annoyed, I will directly say, I don't have arms or legs, I don't know how to do my own things, why do I always like to call people. That's it, just say it directly, people who like to be friends with you will not leave you because of your outspokenness.

Sometimes, some roommates always like to boast, do something the size of a sesame seed and think that they are amazing, and they can boast about themselves.

When you can put up with some small habits a little, it's better to endure a little, because after all, it's a dormitory roommate, and it's going to live together for four years.

This problem will be encountered by almost everyone who lives in the dormitory, which is a very normal phenomenon, because everyone comes from different families and cities, and there will be some differences in living habits and behavior, so what you can do is to be as tolerant as possible.

When you and your roommate disagree over a trivial matter in your life, if it's not too serious, you can take a step back and open the sky.

It is fate that everyone lives together, and it should be cherished. When I was a freshman, I had a very different way of doing things than one of my roommates.

We can be said to be completely opposite personalities, so there will always be disagreements when doing things together, and there have been a lot of unpleasantness, but the two of us are also people who don't hold grudges, and we don't care about it for a while.

Now that I'm in my senior year, I'm about to separate, and I've adapted to each other's lifestyles, but I'm reluctant to separate, I think you should end up like me, all the pleasant and unpleasant will become the best memories to be collected in your heart.

In retrospect, those little things are not worth mentioning at all, so try to be tolerant of others, not everything has to fight for right and wrong, everyone is happy is the most important thing.

Of course, this is for some roommates who are not bad, but some roommates really don't have a tutor and don't consider other people's feelings at all, so don't swallow your anger, because then she will think that you are a bully.

When it's time to be tough, you have to be tough. When she disturbs your normal life, for example, it is late and everyone is sleeping, but she makes a loud noise that affects your normal sleep, you can choose to talk to her and stop her from doing so.

If she refuses to repent, you can drive her away or leave on her own, in short, find a way to solve it, don't let it go, it will affect your quality of life for so long.

There are two options: first, change the dormitory or move out; Second, it is to endure.

If the conflict between you is really acute and you can't stand it at all or don't want to put up with it, then change your bed.

If your contradictions are not intense enough, and you are not used to him, you will also have your own faults. Then you can tolerate it and not take it to heart, then you don't need to embarrass the scene too much. Moreover, the relationship should not be too rigid, after all, in a dormitory, look down and don't look up, to put it more cordially, that person can be said to be the person who eats and lives with you, or don't look like you have seen the enemy.

And, it's all mutual. If you are tolerant of him, he will reciprocate the same. I also can't understand those students who kill people, after all, they also have a good future, and they don't feel worthless if they bury their brilliant future in the hands of someone they hate?

Like my roommate and I, we don't really like each other. However, none of us ever said we were going to move out, and we would go shopping and eat food a lot. Of course, you will also tear your face, but after tearing it, you will feel that your mood is okay and you will not be upset.

The anger at that time was gone, and although the problem was regular, we would solve it. Moreover, I don't ignore her even when I'm angry, and I look calm, after all, it's not good to tear it too many times!

When you look at others who are not pleasing to you, do you also have to think about yourself?

In fact, it is difficult to really play well with all the people in a dormitory, everyone's personality is not the same, see if you are not used to their certain behavior and really can't stand it, you can say it directly, but be a little tactful.

After all, in a dormitory, the relationship should be as good as possible. I don't think you're in the dormitory at all! You can try to communicate, you are embarrassed to say it, you can let him say it from the side.

I'm sure they won't be indifferent after hearing this, and if that's the case, you won't have to spend time dealing with your relationship. I also can't get used to one of my roommates, the most unbearable thing for me is that he is a big man of 1.8 meters, he is very stingy in spending money, and he has to be calculated clearly with you, if your family is in difficulty, I can also understand that his father is a civil servant and his mother works in a hotel. So... I'll just hehe, there's nothing to say.

But he's otherwise fine, all normal. Except for the fact that I don't have anything to do with him in terms of money, everything else is fine. Maybe that's how he came from a young age, and slowly the rest of us in the dormitory got used to it.

So in the dormitory, I had a good relationship with the other two people, and I was just ordinary friends with him.

One time I made a joke in front of the rest of the class, and I admitted that I was wrong, and I apologized to him, but he wouldn't forgive, and then I went cold. Actually, I thought I had done enough, he didn't do well in the final exam, I just debunked the he bragged about in front of others, and I apologized.

His strength was so small that there was no way, and then we returned to normal under the mediation of our head of the dormitory. Now we are still playing well, many things don't need to be said, everyone has their own principles of being a person, there are many things that you are not used to, there is no need to change others, just change yourself.