Why do some people get more respected the older they get, while others get more annoying the older t

In the past month, my grandmother took my mother-in-law's turn to eat, because my father-in-law has several brothers, and the responsibility and obligation of raising the elderly need to be shared among the brothers, two or three times a year. No matter which house she goes to, her grandmother will be read by her daughters-in-law, all kinds of downfall and joy, cooking for her to eat, she doesn't like to eat, ask what she wants to eat, just don't say. Every day, after my mother-in-law delivered the meal, she had to complain in front of me, alas, it was really difficult to serve.

It makes people feel that when they are old, they still don't look for all kinds of trouble, all kinds of hypocrisy, and open their mouths when they want to eat, otherwise they will be annoying and not treated well!Although it was difficult to serve, it was my mother-in-law's turn, and my mother-in-law either changed her tricks to cook for my grandmother and sent it to her on time and time (my grandmother lived with my uncle's parents).

This matter, I want to recall a small ** that is circulated in the market "how the elderly live a leisurely and dignified life", it is especially worth thinking about, why some people are becoming more and more respected, and some people are becoming more and more unpopular?The important thing is that the mentality of the elderly and the younger people get along, and the coexistence psychology is adjusted, so that the elderly can live easily, self-satisfied and dignified. At the same time, the juniors still like it, after all, there is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure!

First of all, the elderly do not have to be disrespectful to the old, "respect for the old and love for the young" is the traditional Chinese virtue of the Chinese nation, others respect you, that is, people have literacy and education, but the elderly can not be disrespectful to the old, ignore others, and feel that everyone must be polite and understand him. Secondly, it is best for the elderly to take care of the juniors' meddling, because the family environment of each generation is different, the problem and its living habits will be very different, if he manages, there will definitely be an accident, it is better to manage yourself!

In the end, the elderly don't expect their children to let you benefit, don't always think about raising children with the help of children, in general, it is a simple thing to pay, and don't worry about going home with the approval of Ping, otherwise the psychological state will be out of balance, and it will also affect parent-child communication. Nowadays, the pressure on young people is too great, and it is already very good that they can take care of their small family, not cause you trouble, and not gnaw at the old. I have seen old people save money to buy a car and a house for their children, and they work hard to earn a bride price for their children to marry a wife, and everything is distributed to the children.

After getting married, they have a baby, and they need the old man to pay for the little grandson, and the load rate is to bring the grandchild, the old man can't count on the child at all, let alone with the help of the child. Therefore, the elderly must take advantage of their health to earn as much "pension service" money as possible, and it is better to rely on no one than on themselves. The husband has, and there is still a hand apart; children have, but also look at the other half of the children's face; Only if you are rich, this is the most reliable.

Because there are some people who are old, they will still do some very immoral behaviors, words and deeds are very annoying, but some people will be very kind and kind when they are old, and they will make people feel very kind.

Because some people are very careful, some people don't like to trouble others a lot, but some people rely on the old and sell the old and are unreasonable.

There are two reasons.

On the one hand, the reason is that all the things and characters related to his various ideas, cognitions, etc., are completely different from those of the elderly. This kind of difference makes people feel uncomfortable, and if you don't tolerate and accommodate, you will become more and more annoying.

On the other hand, the reason is that I have various qualities, a sense of responsibility, and the quality of tolerating others. And the other party is the kind of old man who is disrespectful. The older you get, the more confused you get.

Inconsiderate of future generations. Even using one's age as an excuse to always bargain and do whatever he wants, this kind of person will of course be annoying.

Because the world is developing rapidly, there are many changes with each passing day, and older people, although they are growing older, rarely change, whether it is their views or their approach to many things, so it may make people feel that it is not easy to accept him.