Why do some people not want to get married the longer they are in love? What do they think?

Getting married means that you have to have children, it means that you have to provide for the elderly, you have a lot of troubles, you have to take care of the children on the one hand, you have to take care of the elderly on the other, and you have to work on the other, so many people just want to fall in love, so that two people who love each other live together forever, do not want to get married, do not want to have family constraints.

Because the longer you are in love, the more bland thoughts will arise. Because these people have been in love for a very long time, they are used to this state, and then they don't want to get married.

We know each other too well and are too transparent. Talking about love is simpler and pureer, and it does not involve housework and firewood, rice, oil and salt. Life after marriage is more tedious and reluctant to change roles.

Men and women in love are a sweet feeling, they don't have to worry about the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, and after getting married, in the face of trivial things in life, there will not be so many sweet words, so they are reluctant to get married.

That's because time tells! In the time of love, I found the negative problems of the other party, plus there will be similar emotional problems between friends, and after a long time, I feel that it is better to worry about it alone.

Some people have been in love for a long time, but they know each other too well, so they don't want to get married, and they don't have the urge to get married. Therefore, it is not advisable to fall in love for too long, and it is still necessary to try to get married as much as possible.

Some are afraid of marriage because of the shadow of marriage; Some of them feel like they haven't had enough; some have no choice but to give up because of too much pressure to get married; There are also some who love and love and find that they don't love anymore.

Some people don't want to get married for a long time, is there a problem with such people? Enjoy the taste of love can't extricate yourself, I think it is still caused by the lack of feelings, if the feelings are deep, rely on each other, no one can do without whom, this situation will inevitably enter the marriage hall.

I don't understand this kind of thinking, but I think that after being in love for a long time, it may be more insipid, and it should be more towards the purpose of marriage.

Because they are very afraid of life after marriage. They feel that their life is good now, and they don't want to change this lifestyle.

Because the longer you are in love, the more you understand both parties, and there is no freshness, you can basically imagine what your life will be like in the future, which feels particularly dull and terrible; I feel this way because I feel comfortable living alone.

Because the two people have been together for a long time, they gradually lose their freshness, their feelings for each other are getting weaker and weaker, and they feel that the life of the two people after marriage is also relatively dull, and the pressure and burden after marriage are relatively large. No.

This is because the longer the relationship lasts, the lack of freshness of these two people, and then it will also lead to some contradictions or estrangements between the two people in the process of getting along, so the longer they are in love, the more they don't want to get married. I don't have that in mind.

Because they know each other too well, know each other's shortcomings, and know that the other party has no way to correct them, they have no desire to get married, and most people have such thoughts.

There is a feeling this way. And Chang Ying is getting older and older with age, and this feeling is becoming more and more obvious. I am afraid of life after marriage, and I like the feeling of being in love even more.

I also have this orange feeling, because the branch has been in love for a long time, the two of them are very familiar, and the lifestyle of the two people feels no different from marriage, so they don't want to get married.

I don't feel this way, but I feel that after being in love for a long time, I want to get married even more, because this will be more bland and happy.

Yes, because they have been in love for too long, they will know each other very well, and you can imagine what life will be like after marriage.

It varies from person to person, some people get tired of it after 2 or 3 years, and some people don't have this idea until 7 or 8 years.

To put it bluntly, if you talk about Zheng Hu being in love for a long time and not getting married, isn't it that you don't accept the other party as your family in your heart, isn't it that you still want to play for a long time, isn't it that you don't love each other anymore, what else can there be.

If you really love each other, you will only want to live with him for the rest of your life, and she will not drag it out.

Yes, when I was in love for two or three years, I especially wanted to get married, and then it got longer and longer, and I felt that I didn't want to get married, and I was disappointed too much, and the longer I got along, the more I didn't feel it, and I didn't even know if I was still in love, but I just felt that everything was a habit.

This feeling is not normal, the normal feeling should be that when the relationship reaches a certain level, the two parties rely on each other, and no one can do without each other. At this time, you are bound to enter the marriage hall, but you don't want to get married more and more, so what do you want to do? It's still not in place.

The longer you are in love, the more you don't want to get married, and if you don't have this feeling, if you're in a sweet relationship, how can you not want to get married?

After talking about feelings for a long time, many people may feel that the food is tasteless, it is a pity to abandon it, they can't find the feeling of heartbeat, and they don't have much peace of mind, they seem to be perfunctory to each other, and they seem to make do with each other.

Many people will feel that the longer they are in love, the less they have the urge to get married. Learn to be moved when you are in love, be more grateful when you get along, no feelings can always be fresh, heartbeat turns into peace of mind, romance becomes dull, love sublimates some family affection, maybe two people can go further.

In a long-term relationship, it is quite common for feelings to go through ups and downs and become less romantic and vibrant. However, this does not mean that love has lost its meaning. It may represent a thorough understanding and a deep sense of intimacy, where mature love is no longer about pursuing Lolita-like ups and downs, but rather becoming calm and habitual, but still inseparable from each other.

The most beautiful love is probably to be able to walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand after a long-distance love run. From the throbbing of the first encounter, to the determination of falling in love later. Maybe there have been grievances, there have been crises, maybe there have been hesitations, and I have thought about letting go.

Maybe you will get tired after the novelty, maybe you will be tired after the quarrel, or maybe you will meet someone with compassion. After all, the right person is the last person.

When you love, you don't hesitate, and your heart thinks about the earth for a long time. Love is vigorous and reckless of the consequences.

But in the end, love will become dull, love will become a habit, it will become family affection, and of course it will become a stranger. I hope that all the seriousness will not be disappointed, and all the determination can be exchanged for never giving up.

The rest of your life is long, and I hope that the person you love will also make you feel at ease.

1.If you are in love for a long time, the two of you will inevitably lose their freshness. Maybe it's very simple to choose to leave someone, but in the end, you will find that some people are always experiencing old things with new people, but they don't know that the best way to keep love fresh is to experience new things with old people.

2.The person you're chasing is unlikely to fall in love with you. If you chase a girl for a long time and try your best to get a response from her, you can basically give up.

3.A truly mature and reliable person has either experienced a very collapsed moment, with no one to help him, and he is reborn from the fire. Either they have read a lot of books and become otherworldly, such people often know what they want, and in love, the person who can find what they want is the most free.