Does your mother in law treat you as a family, which few little things can be seen at a glance?

It can be seen from the small things of doing things and eating, if your uncle doesn't call you every time it's time to eat, it means that he is very dissatisfied with you. And always let you do the family affairs, and use you as a nanny.

Will they leave you a hot dish, will they wait for you to come home and eat together, will they ask your taste when cooking, will they help you buy gifts for her son when they buy gifts, will they praise you in front of others?

In fact, it is a very aggrieved experience, because there are many contradictions in living with each other, and I can't live very comfortably, so many people now don't choose to live with their mother-in-law.

It is a very bad experience, and the mother-in-law will also make herself feel very stressed, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be very embarrassing.

There is a mother-in-law in charge of the house, which is a kind of . I am very worry-free, it should be a natural and logical thing, after all, my mother-in-law used to be the head of the family at home, hope.

What is it like to be in charge of a mother-in-law? The mother-in-law in charge of the family is a thrifty experience in everything, because the mother-in-law is old after all, and she has come from a difficult life, so she is not willing to spend any money.

It's a very bad experience, and it's very strict with its own management, and it's a lot of money to spend money.

"Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" has always been a headache for many families, after all, the quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law directly affects the quality of the couple's marriage. A few days ago, I wrote an article about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and one of the articles wrote that if you want to have a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, families with conditions should live separately as much as possible, because living separately can minimize the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Many fans in the background have opposing opinions, saying that living separately is not filial to their parents.

In fact, if you think about it carefully, in those families that have the conditions to live separately, are there many fewer conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Don't admit that not only does there be a lot of benefit to keeping a proper distance between husband and wife, but there is also a saying between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that "distance produces beauty", and there is no conflict between living separately and being filial to your parents.

For many women, no matter how many years they have been married, they always feel that their mother-in-law does not regard her as a family, in fact, they want to know if their mother-in-law regards themselves as a family, and see if she has done these three things for you!

1. When cooking, have you considered your taste?

It is very important whether the family can eat together, after all, three meals a day is something that everyone has to face every day. The daughter-in-law who has just entered the door will inevitably be a little shy and restrained in the face of the man's family who is still a little strange, and dare not take the initiative to make requests, but the mother-in-law who treats you as a family will carefully ask you if you have anything you want to eat or taboo before cooking, and she will try her best to satisfy you, instead of just doing what her son likes to eat and leaving you aside.

2. When you are confined, do you take the initiative to take care of you?

Mother-in-law, as a person who has come over, must know that it is not easy for a woman to give birth in October, so she should do her best to take care of you during the confinement period, cook you some nutritious meals, and take the initiative to help you take care of the child when you are too busy, so the mother-in-law really treats you as her own daughter.

In October of pregnancy, the baby was finally born, and the mother's vitality was greatly damaged and must be repaired by confinement. If you don't have a confinement period, you will have confinement disease later, which will endanger your physical and mental health in the second half of your life. You can tell how your mother-in-law treats you by the way she takes care of you.

After giving birth, a woman's mood swings are relatively large, and the human body is very fragile and needs more care, if the mother-in-law can bring you to take care of you and guide you carefully, she will treat you as a family. Mother-in-law is also a girl, she can understand your suffering, take good care of you, and must also treat you as a family member, as a daughter-in-law, of course, she can see her good to you through this matter, and this kind of good pair can't be pretended.

After getting married, it is not the same as when you are in love. If the husband and wife have to live together, quarrels may be inevitable. When there is a conflict between couples, many mothers-in-law always like to take care of it.

There are some mothers-in-law out of love and urgency, whether the child is wrong or not, only the child is applied to the child, and the incorrectness is all pushed down on the daughter-in-law. Originally, the daughter-in-law had no family in her mother-in-law's house, no one to help, and there was no way to complain, of course she would feel very aggrieved. If the mother-in-law is sensible, she will fully consider your emotions, and it is not easy to blindly cover up the child, but she really wants to deal with the conflict and let you get along with her child, just for the sake of the husband and wife.

This kind of mother-in-law must also treat you as her own and want to get along with you.

The husband and wife live a difficult life, and sometimes they need help when they inevitably encounter difficulties in economic development. If the relatives are indifferent to the problems of the husband and wife, it will not only aggravate the contradictions between the husband and wife, but also aggravate the contradictions of the big family. When the couple encounters difficulties, if your mother-in-law can lend a helping hand, she will definitely treat you as family.

Even if it is lent to you, it shows that he has this heart to help you. Therefore, this kind of mother-in-law treats you sincerely, otherwise she would not be so generous. Having such a mother-in-law will of course reduce conflicts in the family and be beneficial to family harmony.

is very good to you, will ask your opinion no matter what, respect you very much, if there are these points, it means that your mother-in-law has treated you as a family.

If your mother-in-law treats you as a family, she must have a very good attitude towards you, often tell you some truthful words, and will not hide anything from you.

It can be seen from the mother-in-law's attitude towards you, after giving birth, see if the mother-in-law can take care of you carefully and patiently enlighten you.

It can be seen from the mother-in-law's usual words and deeds, from the mother-in-law's descriptions to others, from some of her circle of friends, and from her husband. It should be judged from these aspects in order to have a good effect.

It can be seen from the mother-in-law's attitude towards herself, the way she uses money, whether she is willing to help her take care of the children, what is the relationship between her mother-in-law and her husband, and whether the mother-in-law is willing to live with her.

You can judge by the attitude of the other party's click, whether the other party is willing to spend money for you, whether they can care about you, whether they can take care of your children, and whether they can serve you when you are confined.

It can be said that his attitude towards you, in his behavior, in his language, and in terms of spending money, and whether there is any difference between you and his son, can all be seen.

The first is whether you will let yourself speak and give yourself respect, the second is whether you will interfere in your husband and wife relationship, and the third is whether you will listen to your own opinions in life.

When the other party encounters more things about their greed, will they let themselves express some of their own opinions, and finally whether they will say bad things about themselves, and whether they will destroy the married life of two people.

See if they think of you when they do things, see if they will help you when you quarrel with your husband, and whether they will often chat with you