Is it true that men are closest to their children and wives after they get married, and they are not

Updated on society 2024-07-31
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Is it true that men will be very close to their children and wives after they get married, and they are not as close to their parents as they used to be?

    In fact, there are such things, but they are not absolute, generally speaking, only between husband and wife is the longest, and even parents do not have a deep relationship between husband and wife, because husband and wife are two people, generally speaking, they have to go together, or even go through a lifetime.

    You said that the relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between children and parents are different, and each relationship has its own characteristics, so the relationship between parents should be grateful, so the relationship between husband and wife is completely different.

    And generally speaking, it is a mood of practicing filial piety to parents.

    And husband and wife have to live together every day.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Are men closest to their children and wives after they get married? I've never been so close to my parents anymore, is it true? I think it's really like this, because wives and children accompany men.

    In the second half of his life, but his parents are also the closest people to men, but they don't often live together. Feelings will. bar.

    This affection is transferred to the children and the wife.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I don't think that's the case, some men. It's not that you only have children and a wife in your eyes when you get married. Parents also need it. Caring and loving. The one who only recognizes his wife and does not recognize his parents shows that this man is a man. There is no favor at all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Most of the time, if the wife is the object of his heart, he is his sweetheart, and his understanding of love is a man who is single-minded until the sea is dry. Most of the love for their wives and children is incomparably greater, and they must be more intimate than their parents, because their parents themselves have no choice, and their wives are the beloved ones they choose. The love for them must be different, it will already replace the love for parents, and after leaving their parents, they will become less close.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's normal to be close to your wife after getting married, but it's just that being close to your wife is a kind of love, and being close to your parents is family affection, and the relationship between the two is different, in fact, they are the closest people.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think this is more different from person to person, there are many people who have a very good relationship with their parents after getting married, but living with children and wives most of the time must have some impact, and as a pillar of the family, men must think more about things at home, so we will feel this way.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think so, yes. After all, your wife and children are the ones who will accompany you for a lifetime. It's not that I'm not close to my parents anymore, it's just that I don't have so much time to spend with my parents after I get married

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After a man gets married, he kisses his wife and children. It's not the same thing as being close to your parents. Affection for wife and children. It is a man who stands up to the sky to maintain his home. To the parents of the pro. is one. The son's care and love for his parents. So it's two kinds of family affection.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no such thing as this, the same standard. Relative to most people, after a man gets married, he has his own small family, and he must be posthumously repaired, and it is estimated that he will have a small family in his heart. Because I have lived with my parents since I was a child, there is something I can't do, and my parents can understand it, but the time I spend with my children and wives is very short, what if there is a little?

    If you can't do it, you will leave a little regret for more than ten years and decades in your future life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After getting married, men spend more time with their children and wives, and less time with their parents, they are all very close relatives, but the time they spend together has changed!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This depends on the individual, some are filial, some are not filial, and there is a saying that slips "the little grasshopper tail is long, and the daughter-in-law forgets the mother".

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If this man is a real man, he will be as close to his parents, wife and children as he is, because they are all relatives. But if he forgets his parents when he has a wife and children, he can only say that this person has a problem with his character.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think that's the case, for parents and relatives, it's definitely still the same.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You say that it is normal for a man to be close to his wife and children after marriage, but he will also treat his parents to himself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, because these are the people who are going to spend your whole life with you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think it's like this, the parents are the ones who gave birth to him and raised him, how can it not be light?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People with rich feelings are close to their families, and people who are indifferent and selfish don't love anyone, only love themselves, and people are different.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you fall in love with someone, you can never be together. Please don't be upset, don't pester him, don't hurt him. No matter how much you miss it, how reluctant you are.

    You see, to love someone is not to possess him, but to fulfill him. There will always be someone who will come to you across thousands of mountains and rivers to make you believe in love again.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not that there are other reasons, the untiring knots and the lost feelings, as well as the father who has left.

    1. Because your family has opposed your marriage, and you are divorced and reconciled, your family will feel sorry for you and think that you are still blaming them for their opposition. Therefore they are like you as if they were leaving.

    2. Without a biological father, of course, this family has become very deserted. If you want to talk to your mother, you're afraid that your stepfather will hear it. No matter how good you and your stepfather are, that kind of affection will not be there.

    Only your mother is in this family, and she is your biggest concern. Plus you're too far away from home and rarely go home, so the relationship will be lighter.

    3. It seems that you love your wife very much. Being able to marry and remarry despite opposition, I hope you cherish this love. The pursuit of life is nothing outside the house:

    Family affection and love. What is the purpose of earning some money, isn't it just for my mother to live a good life, and I and my wife and children can live a better life.

    Therefore, no matter how far away you are, you should always go home, and if you have the opportunity to go home, do not fail to go back. And often call ** to my mother, shush the cold and ask for warmth, even a few words of greeting is better than not fighting. At the same time, you have to make an effort.

    Try to integrate with your parents, find opportunities to show your children to your parents, cook a good meal, and buy some good clothes and delicious food for your parents, which are all ways to enhance the relationship.

    It doesn't matter if the father and father-in-law don't get along, the key is to reduce the chances of seeing each other between them later and reducing the chances of them quarrelling. You have to be silent when it counts.

    The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait.

    Dragon dust.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The landlord shouldn't be an only child, right? Otherwise, if you want to have a weak relationship, your parents won't want to!

    If there are brothers and sisters, it is slightly understandable.

    Whether you are an only child or not, I think you should strengthen your bond with your parents, how difficult it is for them. Sometimes you feel that the relationship is weak, but in their hearts, it may not be light, and the mother of the child is worried. Even if they don't contact you and don't call you, it doesn't mean that they don't love you, it can only be said that they are not good at communication and communication, because their love is deep and does not need to be spoken.

    At this time, as a child, you should take the initiative to contact them, since you think the relationship is weak, then you should make the relationship "dense" a little, call more, greet more, and try to take the whole family back to see them.

    Even if the distance is far, there are still so many long vacations and small long vacations a year.

    The landlord thinks too much about things and thinks about complicated things. Whoever doesn't get along with whom, you can put it aside, just because your adoptive father raised you, it's worth your filial piety, if he didn't raise you, then rely on him to accompany your biological mother, even if it's a neighbor is a passerby, you should be grateful to him. Besides, the mother is a real mother.

    What you think is cold is just your feeling, because you already have a "preconceived" heart, and you go home with a "cold" heart, and you feel cold. But if you go back with gratitude, and you repay your birth mother and adoptive father, they feel warm, and you will feel warm.

    Love and respect are mutual, and as much as you give them, they will give you, and in the case of parents, double it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    More contact, no parent will weaken the affection for their children, it is you who do not have constant contact!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I often go home to see my parents, you also have children, and you know what it feels like to be a parent, no matter how old you are, your parents have an inexhaustible heart for you, and you should understand these truths... Also, cherish family affection, don't wait until you lose it to know how to cherish, it's really really late, some things may be experienced to understand, I don't know if it inspires you...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Get along more and think more about how your parents brought you up over the years.

    What if it's not biological, after all, it pulls you so big Then your mother is more bitter and tired More communication with your mother** Communicate more with your father about your ideals in life and future ambitions, and communicate more with your wife Deal with the relationship between your father and father-in-law in this way.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The main reason for the weak relationship is distance, and then your wife plays a key role, often contact and often go home, go to the old man's side to get together for a drink and talk about your heart, and your wife buys some gifts that women like, coax and coax more things that your father did to you when you were a child, try to change her side, and slowly the daughter affects her father, and your father-in-law's side will be solved, and the whole family will be harmonious.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, I feel the same way, my parents are still biological.

    I don't know if it's the reason for the long-term separation, the distance is far away, there is less contact and meeting, and after a long time, the relationship will naturally fade. Especially with marriage and children, parents don't think they need to worry about us anymore; In fact, worry is also a kind of missing, less missing = less feelings. Plus people are old, and the expression of feelings is not so enthusiastic, in addition.

    It feels cold when I get home, it's not kind at all, it's very sad. I sometimes really want to forget it, don't bother to travel home long distances in the future, thankless, alas!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hehe, you can often go home for dinner!!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The joys, sorrows, and sorrows in their lives can't be known to their parents, they can only carry them themselves, and they know that they can't help anything, and their parents live their own little days, and they feel that they shouldn't disturb the world of the two of them. So there is a layer of separation, at least when you are happy and happy, tell them to share with them, or travel together, in order to really close the family distance.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I've also encountered this situation, and I do feel that I will be a lot more estranged, and I usually need to see my parents when I need to see my children, go out to play during the holidays, and I don't notify my parents when I go out, and I have to carry it out. It felt as if my parents had to go along. Every time my mom made something delicious, she had to bring it to them.

    I told my mom to beat the ** and let them get it themselves, don't get used to them. I don't listen every time. In the eyes of parents, whether they are married or not, they are children, and in the eyes of children, parents are already a burden, and the farther away they want, the better.

    I don't feel as good as a colleague and a friend.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Ninety percent of people will be estranged from their families, work pressure and their own small family needs to be managed, and it takes time to manage the relationship between colleagues, classmates and friends, and it is difficult for men.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Part of it will, because the heart is so big, he can't fit her under it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Parents are affection, husbands are love, children are moods, love is equal, the plots are different, parents are always a haven for children!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't know, because I don't know this feeling until I have experienced it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The truth should be known, but it doesn't necessarily feel like it!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    People who have never been married naturally don't know, they don't know the price of money and rice if they don't have a family, and they don't know the kindness of their parents if they don't raise children.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It must be kissed by your wife, because although your sister and you have a constant flesh and blood relationship, your sister will always get married, and the person who really accompanies you throughout your life and you grow old is your wife, and the person who takes care of you serving you tea and pouring water for you is also a wife, so of course she kisses her wife.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    After a man gets married, he must have a family relationship with his wife and sister, and his wife is the person who wants to accompany him for a lifetime, so after marriage, he must be the closest to his wife.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Is it kissed by my wife, sister and brother-in-law kissed by their children, and kissed by you? , so don't get me wrong, a man gets married, doesn't kiss his wife, but gets closer to his sister, this is basically a stupid man, an ignorant man, a vulgar man, a sister has someone her sister should kiss, her own husband, your own children, you also have someone you should kiss, your own wife, your own children, your own parents, don't get it wrong, don't make it upside down, and don't affect your sister's life (

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After a man gets married, he must be close to his wife, because he wants to be with his wife all his life, so he must be the closest to his wife.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It is normal for a man to kiss his wife after marriage, and to kiss his sister after marriage, which can only mean that the relationship between husband and wife is not good.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    When a man gets married, does he kiss his sister or his wife? Of course I kissed your wife. The wife has to live for the rest of her life. Give you children. Muscles.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    My wife and sister are all members of the family, and they are all my own relatives. It should be closer to my wife, but if something really happens, I may still be closer to my sister, after all, the blood relationship is here!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    My sister is half a mother, and my wife is your person, if your wife is considerate and respectful to you, she supports your career and family. Of course, I kissed my wife. To my sister is gratitude and help.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This has to be looked at in two ways. Affection between sisters. It is a kind of care that comes from the bone marrow that has been accompanied since childhood, family affection and family affection between husband and wife, although there is no blood relationship, but it has to grow old together.

    I can walk to. The speed is like rain and foam with each other. It is a sublimation of love and affection.

    Specifically, there is no comparison between you and your siblings and your wife after marriage. The common characteristic is that they are all relatives, and they are all relatives. Affection.

    What about lovers? There is both family affection and love. And the affection between sisters is just affection.

    And there is no love. Here it is. Important differences.

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