How to refuse a person and feel guilty, such as borrowing money.

Directly to him: "We just met, and we don't know each other yet!" I don't feel good about that! And the money is not a minority, I hope you can understand! ”

If there is really any difficulty, tell everyone about it, maybe we can give you some ideas!

Look at the other party's character, and if the character is not good, you will be worthy of it", I absolutely do not agree with this statement.

The character is one's own, and it has nothing to do with the conduct of cats and dogs.

You said that you have only known someone for 10 days, and you could have said to him with confidence: "I'm sorry, we don't know each other yet, I really don't know how to trust you." "

Protecting one's property from infringement is a matter of course and righteousness, and there is no shame in it.

Resolutely don't borrow, it's easy to lend money, but it's hard to get it back (that kind of taste is uncomfortable, I don't know how to ask for it back).

What's more, it's not an acquaintance.

Excuses, there is not so much money on his body, and it is difficult for the mud bodhisattva to cross the river himself.

Find some reason and refuse.

Small money can be borrowed.

Big money figure it out for yourself.

Karma, what you have to pay back, will always come.

If only I did.

I'll say. You borrowed money from me.

I'm going to borrow money from you.

I'm short of money for the lack of blood. Hehe.

Let's take money as an example.

1 I have a normal relationship with him, and I am not obligated to lend him money.

2 He borrowed money and did not pay it back, and I am not his piggy bank.

3 I really don't have any money, so I can't help him by selling my blood.

These are all with a clear conscience

There is really no big money, there is still small money, and there are still some treats to eat.

Only by being open in your heart can you be ashamed, generally you refuse other people's requests, your heart will definitely be unnatural, unless it is not within your ability, so as long as you can help others or try your best to help, people want to help each other, primary school students know!

Look at the other party's character, and if the character is not good, you will be worthy of it.

There is no need to feel guilty in any case, the money is your own, and you have the right to borrow it or not. It should be the person who borrowed the money, not the person who is embarrassed.

If you think the other person is unreliable, you make an excuse and say you don't have any money.

Push it! Tactfully refuse!

Let's just say that I've been a little tight lately. I won't be able to come up with the money for a while.

As long as it is rejected, others will not feel comfortable.

said that he only had living expenses and no spare money (if he had self-knowledge, he would have understood).

It's all friends who pay back some interest.

Handsome, I just wanted to borrow some from you.

If it's a small amount of money, lend it to her, and don't think about paying it back! If the amount is relatively large, my approach is to take out the wallet on my body, take out all the money in front of him, and give it to him, and only keep ten yuan for myself! And tell him, that's all, take it, you don't have to pay it back!

Of course, this is also because this person is close to you, so you do this! If the relationship is average, you can't see someone once a year, and your reputation is not very good, then just tell him that there is no money!

How old are you, have you started a family, if you don't have a family, you say that your salary is handed over to your parents, and if you get married, you say that your wife or husband don't care about this kind of thing. Or directly say that he is a moonlight family, and he has to pay off his credit card account every month or something.

I'm paying off my mortgage! Because many people are facing mortgage problems now, and it will only be decades since you pay it back, your friends will understand when you say this.

I'm sorry! Since it's a good friend, I told it directly. I can't borrow ...

Of course, it's just making excuses that money is tight!

Tell him honestly, you don't have any money, or that you have money in a hurry.

That's what I usually say, my money is also borrowed, and I'm still saving up to pay it back.

Ask him to borrow money before he speaks.

There is no money. lent it to someone else.

Do you think you should see if he can afford to return it? If you don't have the ability, you can't say how bad your character is, and if you feel hateful, you don't pay back the money, and this is the only way to be angry.

Netizen, what I want to ask is whether you already have a person's character. Please be clear about this question. There must be a reason why you don't pay back the money you borrowed. Of course, there are such people. If there is such a person in the future, you must pay attention to it.

Let's put it this way, you have to divide your friends into 3, 6, 9, etc., and you have to count the money you can in your heart.

zhi friends dao

Can borrow 1000 and have friends can borrow 3000 These are based on the character of their friends, of course, the most important thing is to borrow money from others after lending money without affecting the quality of their lives, ps: The money lent out, don't be ready to let him pay you back, just accumulate virtue and do good, otherwise how uncomfortable it is to worry about it every day.

I hate people who borrow money and don't pay it back.

If it's very bad, you shouldn't lend him money, and if you still have a dead face, don't pay attention to him anymore.

It's bad, he wants to spend time waiting for you to forget it and don't have to pay it back.

You can ask other friends to ask on the side, if you really don't pay it back on purpose, then don't make friends in the future.

If he really doesn't have any money, you don't have to blame him

Very bad, but it's possible that he forgot.

How old are you? How much money was borrowed? Could it be that he forgot?

As bad as you are, who asked you to lend him money.

A person always likes to borrow money, because of habits, someone often lends him money, he spends it, and then borrows it once or twice, repeats it, makes him become a snob, and slowly makes him become such a person, sometimes doing good deeds is not necessarily good, you have to distinguish things, and if you don't do it well, it will hurt people.

Oh, this kind of person doesn't treat you as a real friend at all.

I like to guess the psychology of others, pretend to be forced, and I am a step above others. Say beg, pretend to be pitiful and sympathetic. Just do it with him, don't take it seriously.

Now that you have some understanding, you don't need to pay attention to some of his unreasonable demands and intentions, say n0! It's also your right.

It's also called friends, so it seems that you have a lot of friends.

Why are you so depressed, choose early.

Why do you want to say no? Have you ever understood why he borrowed money? What was the purpose of his borrowing money?

The situation is not the same, the refusal is not the same, now many people are struggling to borrow money to borrow or not to borrow, if you borrow money to save your life, you have to borrow, and the rest are clean and neat and do not borrow, in my experience, borrowing is the enemy, not borrowing is also the enemy, from the beginning of him asking you to borrow money that the guest is the enemy.

Euphemistic way.

Let's say you're in business and don't have enough money. You need money for something. There is money but it was borrowed by another person, etc.

Tough way.

Damn, Lao Tzu has no money. Damn, there is no fatal thing to ask for money. I don't know you well and so on.

You could say that.

I don't have enough money! I can't ruin my life and my family and lend you money, can I?

Then he was recommended to go to the bank to apply for a small loan.

If a friend has the ability to repay, lend him to help each other, and if he is not able to repay, he will not borrow, lest he not even be able to make a friend in the future.

Let's just say that there is no waiting for the salary to be paid now.

It is said that it is stored on a regular basis, and it cannot be moved.

Don't lend money to others easily, because money will reveal the darkness of human nature.

If the landlord borrows a small amount of money, borrow it, if it exceeds your ability to bear, don't borrow, after all, it's not a familiar friend, offend it, want to open a point, sometimes survive in society, but also think about yourself, the landlord don't accompany the lady and fold the soldiers, and finally the two ends are empty, then it's even more troublesome. Good luck.

I don't have that much money on hand, and the money I have in the bank is dead and I can't withdraw it.

I'm short of money and I'm planning to borrow money.

Since you are not familiar with it, then just find a reason, the money was borrowed in a few days, and you didn't say it earlier!

It depends on how you understand the word independence.

If you can have independent thoughts, but if you don't have independent financial resources, then you are not independently subject to your parents so that you can't complete some ideas, and you can't be constrained without independence, and objective or subjective reasons are all excuses.

If you can't do what you say and keep your word, for example, borrowing money to repay money and not doing what you say, it doesn't mean that he is unreliable in doing other things, but it is much more unreliable.

If you really want to be psychologically independent, you have to see through the essence of things, understand the reasons and reasons why things will happen, which requires thinking, learning, honing, and increasing your own experience, just like feeling that you will live without experiencing life, which itself is a manifestation of physical and mental immaturity or dependence.

All of your actions are about your ability, which is independence! Let's talk about independence first, it is that you live alone in life, can take care of yourself, of course, you also need the ability to take care of yourself, you can take care of yourself, you have the ability to commit to others, and there are too many things you want to achieve, too many things you want, too much desire. Especially the fifth one, it is obvious that you have things you want very much, those are virtual substances, they are not important, you know how to take care of your own life, and when you have the ability, how can you achieve what you want to get without working now.

I just want to enjoy it, how can I have the opportunity to get what I want, what I want must be exchanged through my own efforts, so that when I get such things, I will also have a sense of accomplishment and will be very gratifying.