What do you think of those who choose a city for the sake of one person?

The person who will choose a city because of one person must be an extremely dedicated person, who is willing to give up some of their immediate interests for the other party, and pays silently just in the hope that they can accompany each other. A roommate in college, his girlfriend is a high school classmate, and his girlfriend's grades are much worse than him after the college entrance examination results come out, but because the roommate wants to come to this university to study, his girlfriend also chose a university here, although the two are not in the same school, the relationship is really good.

I think that choosing a city or leaving the city where you live for a person is worthy of our admiration, and we give up what we have now to pursue that emotion for love, which is a great love and a great behavior, and we should encourage such a person and support him to find his own love.

People who choose a city for the sake of a person in their hearts are more because of love. I feel that as long as I am with him, I am happy. He is willing to give up everything for him, but the ending is not necessarily good.

As the saying goes, parents are not far away, maybe these people are still more ruthless to their parents.

Choosing a person in a city for a person shows that this person is very important to him, he is also a person who values love and righteousness, and feels that such a person is worth dating and being a friend, because he will choose what he wants to choose decisively, have his own opinions and what he wants to do, even if the consequences are not what he thinks, but he can bear it.

I especially admire such people, and their courage in pursuing love is particularly admirable.

In the TV series "I Only Like You", Qiao Yi gave up a comfortable and decent job in her hometown for Yanmo and came to the huge Beijing, where she was wronged and let the landlord kick her out, I admire her very much.

I think as long as you can be with the person you like, then this is the most important thing, so the reason why a person has a sense of belonging is because in this city, he has a person he likes, and he chooses a city for a person, I think such people are very famous, and they are also slaves of feelings.

It's normal for us to leave our parents' homes and find our own homes when we grow up. It is normal to choose a city as your future home, some because of one person, some because of a job.

These people are generally more emotional, people who can choose a city for a person really love each other to the level of ashes, and being able to choose a city for him proves that they can give up everything for him, so these people are very emotional, but in the end, it is often the people who are scarred by the heavy feelings.

Yes! In reality, many people go to his city for a person, they all say that love is blind, love is crazy, how many people cut off their relationship with their parents for love, and how many people go on the road of crime for love, as long as there is such a person who makes you crazy, you will be desperate.

I think this kind of person is great! Haha, because I'm like this, if we don't go to school and go out to work, we must go to the city where our parents are, and then we were in school and fell in love, after school, he went to Suzhou, Jiangsu, I went to Wenzhou, Zhejiang, so I talked about a long-distance relationship for a year, that year felt extraordinarily long, but fortunately there were relatives around, every day was happy, I asked him if he wanted to consider going to my city, he said he liked Suzhou very much, will not go to Wenzhou, So I thought about it for many nights and decided to come to Suzhou with him the next year, I have been in Suzhou for three and a half years, and I feel that it is also a good city, there are people I like, there are beautiful scenery, and it is a little closer to our hometown, it is really beautiful, but when I first came here, I felt very lonely, I often think of my former friends, and I feel that it is really difficult to meet in the future.

I admire them. I think this kind of love story is very great, for the sake of someone to give up her old job and go to another city, just to be able to go further with her, I think this kind of relationship is very good, I hope they can get a good future.

In a commemorative article written by Shutian's wife at the memorial service of his fifth uncle, he said: "A huge Tsinghua Garden has made the family feel more cordial because of the presence of your fifth uncle. A huge city of Beijing, because of the presence of your five uncles and let us feel warm''!

My wife is a middle school teacher who is not good at words, and I can empathize with these two words of hers. Yes, the existence of a city because of one person often makes us feel deeply affectionate and loving to the city!

More than 20 years ago, because my favorite friend lived and worked in Dawukou, a small city in the far west, I felt a cordial and warm yearning for this small town in the northwest. At that time, there were no modern web search tools, and in order to understand this remote sleeping town, I read all the high school geography textbooks and college geography tutorials. Even in his diary, he recorded the climate, products, customs, ethnic population and many other conditions of the town!

Think about it, for the sake of one person, you will like the whole city. Although in the end, they worked hard and flew away, and that feeling ended without a problem, now, when talking about that small town, there is still a different kind of warmth in my heart, which shows how emotional people are!

Now that people are middle-aged, their hearts are like dead wood, and they are as still as water, and they will not be easily moved. However, people sometimes can't help themselves, last year went to Shanghai for business, passed by Kaifeng at night who had studied and lived for several years, how many times before passed by and did not have any special feeling, that night passed, because of the existence of a person, I feel that Kaifeng is so kind, so fascinating, even the dim street lamps near and far from the station, all seem to be familiar, feel very warm and peaceful! In fact, I also know that it is not the current Kaifeng City that has become more beautiful and better, but because of the attention to one person, I have added a lot of beautiful colors to this ancient city in my heart!

This is a text written the year before last, recording the mental journey at that time, reading this text again, there is a feeling of being in a different world, at that time the heart was full of feelings, and now it has become yesterday's yellow flower, but in the occasional thought, it is still as heavy as a fog, can not let go of it!

Yes, because of my ex-boyfriend.

At that time, our university was separated, and we couldn't see each other, in fact, I complained that he didn't discuss it with me when he applied for the volunteer, but that's for later.

His city is in Tangshan, which is the place where the economy is growing rapidly. My impression of Tangshan is the same as that of many people, I only stay in Tangshan, and I don't know anything else.

I remember one time, Tangshan was ** again, but the magnitude of the earthquake was very small, nothing serious, and I was also very worried, and I called ** to confirm his safety as soon as possible. I became scared and unsure.

That time, my roommate's classmates asked her to play, also from Tangshan, I asked more, and found that she and my boyfriend were in the same school, I was very energetic, asked her which major she was, and inquired about their school, I especially hoped that she and my boyfriend would know each other, and I knew a lot about him in school that I didn't know.

However, now that the two of us are separated, I don't regret paying attention to him at that time, I think true love is like this, thinking about someone all the time, although my heart is worried, but it is always warm.

I'm such a person, when my husband and I are still in a long-distance relationship, as long as he is in a certain city, I will pay special attention to that city, always thinking about what street he will walk on, what the weather is like on his side, and what fun places he has over there.

I prefer to understand that paying attention to a city because of a person is the same thing as falling in love with a city because of a person. He was an intern in Hengyang at the time, and that city was only a place I passed by once, but when I told me that he had to take a few hours by car from Changsha to the construction site there for an internship, I began to pay attention to how far away the city was from me.

How many kilometers is the distance between him and me, how much time I have to spend to find him, how much money it will cost, and what kind of transportation I will take. I go to him, can I go to ** play with him and relax? What's so good about that city?

I would unconsciously pay special attention to everything in that city.

Later, he went to Nanning to work officially, and I was still living in my hometown. He said that he had rhinitis, and I could guess that the weather in Nanning had changed, and told him to pay attention to adding clothes; He said that he is eating noodles every day now, and I began to pay attention to what delicious noodles are in this city, so that he is so lingering that he wants to eat them every day?

If you fall in love with someone, you will fall in love with a city, this sentence actually makes sense. Because I have been paying attention to a small city for three years, a chance encounter, fate, so that I can never forget that city where you are, Nanxun, Huzhou, Zhejiang, is a very leisurely ancient town.

Recalling memories related to this city, I still remember that Nicholas Tse and Ma Su and other stars went to Nanxun Ancient Town to shoot "Twelve Sharp Flavors", I squeezed with you to see the stars, but was stopped outside by a heavy protective wall, and I didn't even see a figure, the two of us left with anger and powerlessness to complain, sure enough, chasing stars is still a stupid thing done by rich people, the two of us stupidly walked around the ancient town slowly, bought a lot of sweets to comfort and comfort each other, and took a very beautiful sunset photo, The sunset in the southern town has a unique taste, leisurely and romantic.

There is a city, I have followed its weather for three years, I pay attention to any news about it, just because you are in which city, I just want to care and pay attention to some things related to you, after the separation, all I can miss is the bits and pieces of our past in that city, I don't want to forget the last trace of your breath related to you, I want to try to keep the last bit of missing, so, this city, for me is not just a simple city, it has my whole youth.

Because I love you, I am reluctant to let go of everything related to you, I am in my city silently looking at you in the south, with my endless thoughts and helpless regrets.

I feel very happy and satisfied, although I am only alone in a strange city, although I am far away from the care of my parents, but the school has the care of teachers, the help of classmates, and sometimes I can make three or two close friends.

Maybe it's because I haven't really been in society yet, and I can't feel helplessness and powerlessness in an environment where the people around me are relatively kind.

On the contrary, I think that a person's life outside is better than at home, because there is only one person in school, and everything is based on himself, and he doesn't need to worry about some family chores, if he doesn't call his parents, he doesn't need to know when it's raining and when to harvest rice.

I just need to do my part and learn professional knowledge, and it feels relatively easy.

Living alone in the city, I feel particularly helpless and lost, especially when I encounter difficulties and want to find someone to talk to, I can't find it! I will feel at a loss, and even doubt my ability, but when I think about the goal I am striving for, I will still choose to grit my teeth and persevere, the hardships of life cannot be the reason for me to give up on myself, pressure is my motivation!

Sometimes I feel like I'm lonely in the city alone. Often in the evening or during the holidays, I think of my parents and my family.

Sometimes I think that I must work hard earlier to earn the freedom to live and work, so that I can better let my parents live a good life.

At the end of '17 and the first half of '18, I lived alone in Hangzhou for a period of time, and I went to the company on time at half past nine every day to report, and the time of getting off work was not fixed, generally after nine o'clock, and it may be until the early hours of the morning.

At first, I thought that work was very interesting, but then I slowly realized that I seemed to have no life at all, often eating takeout, and entering the company from dawn to dawn, I didn't know when it was dark.

It seems like a fulfilling life, but I don't know what I'm so busy every day, it's really bad.

Being alone in the city, I have a very hard time, because there are no friends and no lovers in this city, so sometimes I am really miserable, especially after getting off work, cooking alone, washing dishes alone, I feel that life is really boring.

I live very lonely in the city alone, just like there is a saying, no one stands at dusk with me, no one asks me for porridge and warmth, I think this sentence can especially reflect our feelings, because many times you are alone with you, I am very lonely, so I especially like to hang out with my friends.