What should I do if my family doesn t accept a poor boyfriend? Urgent

The one who said "drag" said it well.

Pat and drag, of course it's okay to drag, you can drag it, and the object of the family's introduction will naturally make the family succumb.

In fact, in a materialistic society like today, it is not easy for you to choose someone you love very much instead of a very rich person. I believe that in the hearts of both of you, the weight of love has surpassed the meaning of wealth. I also believe that such people have reason to be happy.

Your love is not built on a material basis, but on a spiritual foundation, which is inherently solid. You should try your best to convince your family, if it is difficult, you can delay it for a while, of course, this is not a long-term solution, the main thing is to let the family see the excellent place of this boy, after all, he has great development potential, even if he has no money now, the future development path must be very broad, you can convince your parents to accept him from this level.

I believe that parents care about the happiness of their children, and you can definitely be together.

Tell you one word: drag. Test yourself and your family.

Your family is also good for you, so you'd better talk to your relatives and let your aunt and your parents say that it should be better...Bless you!

I used to think that as long as my boyfriend loved me, it didn't matter if I had money or not, but when it came to really using the money, I knew that my family was right, and now I am also very confused, what kind of person to find!

Let your boyfriend be a little self-motivated, if he really loves you, he should be aware of it.

I wish you happiness.

It doesn't matter if the boy is poor, the most important thing is to have ambition to make your boyfriend show to your family.

When we encounter a man from a poor family, we must look at his standards, and I think you may need to see if the man is sincere to you. The most important thing is to see if he is a person with ideals and backbone. In fact, if he has a lot of development potential to tap, coupled with this virtuous help, in fact, the difficulty is only temporary, and everyone's life will definitely not be bad after that.

The bigger expectation in life is not what your current standard is. The most important thing is to look at the future and see the potential.

Through your thinking and observation, this marriage is going to be concluded, this is actually a temporary difficulty, the wedding banquet may not be as luxurious as your classmate's or girlfriend's wedding, no matter him, don't care about other people's shallow eyes now. Through your hard work, after a few years, others will treat everyone with a different kind of envy. It's up to you to choose your own specifications.

It's okay to get married, you don't want to get married, and no one forces you. If you want to walk with him, you need to prepare well in advance.

Due to the poor family background, it is not a solution that can be solved in one sentence. That's a lot of work. The worse the family background, the more unsatisfactory the life.

Do you have the capacity to do this?Do you feel emotionally when your best friends are doing better than you?It's not a good taste.

There are also many families whose family is not good, but it will not be very good to you. In some families, even if his family is not good, he will feel very sorry for you. There are many situations where everyone is constantly faced with choices.

What kind of life did you choose?It's up to you. It's important to choose whether your life is good or not.

You know that his family is not good, but you don't have enough preparation in advance and the idea of enduring hardships and standing hard work. I advise you to be cautious. In today's social development, most people choose chemicals first.

It is not necessary to be purely to better reflect the meaning of oneself, and to make oneself tired and half-dead, after all, it is thankless. The boyfriend's family background is not good, this needs to depend on the emotions between everyone, if they all love each other, then what is the end of the marriage?If the family background is not good, the two of them can work diligently and retreat hand in hand, so that you can feel that if you feel that you want to find a better family background, you really have to live with money.

When encountering this situation, first of all, you should determine whether you are willing to be with the other party, if the other party's family is very poor, and there is no way to give yourself any support in terms of life, first of all, you should determine whether the boy is worth everything to be with the other party, if the other party is not worthy, it is recommended to break up with the other party as soon as possible, and do not let yourself fall into more harm.

You should choose to break up, although you don't care now, but after you get married, you will find that marriage is not as simple as you imagined, and you will find that everything needs money.

You should adjust your mentality, you are going to marry this man, not his family's money, and tell yourself that you can still live the life you want if you work hard after marriage.

Listen to your parents well, your parents will not harm you, you must know that falling in love and getting married are not the same, as a person who has come over, I can tell you very clearly that after getting married, every day is facing the problem of money, spending money every day. Before getting married, you can rely on your parents, but after getting married, you can only rely on yourself, what is there in this world, love can't support you and your future children, and you have to know that he loves you now, but after you get married, because of the quarrel over firewood, rice, oil and salt, with the accumulation of time, can you guarantee that this love will not become clear? Marriage is the union of two people, two families, but more than that, it is the union of two people.

The external conditions are good or bad, and whether the two people have a better ability to manage their marriage in the future is also a very important aspect.

The love of two people rising to marriage should be blessed, but if you can discern people best, you can let yourself be cared for and not hurt. Family conditions are limited to a person, but it will not limit him to be good to you, to make changes for you, if you really love you, you will do your best to give you the best. Parents want you to live a good life before accepting the bad, it is understandable that you do not agree, he must do better to have a good life in the future, it is necessary to work hard and progressively, but two people have to be equal, tolerate each other and love each other in order to live a good life.

Everything adults do and make choices should be thought through.

If you plan for the bad in advance, if you think you can accept anything, you can follow your own wishes and don't regret it. Most of the parents of marriage do not agree, not necessarily right, not necessarily wrong, after all, nothing is absolutely right or wrong, it depends on how you look at it, the conditions are not good, and the family is a poor couple, and there are two couples who work hard to live a good life. If he really loves you, please let him talk to you about the results of the change, and he is willing to change for you, and put it into practice, I think it is more credible, and it is for your own good that your parents do not agree, and the world will never leave us only family affection.

I will insist on being with my boyfriend because love needs to be fought for, and my boyfriend will be rich in the future.

I felt that I might be able to show my family directly that I had made the right choice by cohabiting with my boyfriend.

In such a situation, I will persuade my parents that if the other party is really worthy of my marriage, I will not hesitate to marry the other party.

Now this society has become realistic, and the good and the bad are divided into half. It depends on which aspect you value more. My advice is not to break up, but to spend some time with him and recall the good things about him.

My personal point of view is that in fact, to be honest, whether his family is poor or not, what does it have to do with you whether you break up or not, you are with him to consider whether he can give him the happiness he wants, whether he can take responsibility, whether he can take care of your family, and what does it have to do with his parents? If there is a big disparity between the financial situation of the two of you, you can also consider breaking up.

After all, your parents don't want their daughter to live happily, in fact, the most important thing is your boyfriend, whether he is a potential stock, if you choose love, it is possible that you will be very hard with this man in the future, of course. Maybe this guy or the two of you work hard, and life will get better.

But there is a period of time that is bound to be very hard, and there will be a period of friction with your parents, but you will gain your sincere feelings, and you need to measure whether this relationship can fill your hard life. From another point of view, if you choose to be realistic and lose a bit of sincere feelings, you will be sad for a while or you will not be able to forget it at all.

But your life may be better, or you may have another relationship in the future, or maybe not, because this thing is unattainable. My advice is to stick to your feelings and work together to live a good life, but of course this is a difficult decision for girls.

Finally, I advise you to think carefully, there are many things involved after marriage, family life, parents on both sides, raising children, life is very realistic and cruel, and you must consider it.

Then break up with him, in fact, marriage is not just a matter of two people, family factors should also be taken into account, your concerns are right, if you are not satisfied with his family, it is best to break up quickly.

If you can't accept it, then break up, the family dislikes your boyfriend because of his family's financial situation, and I think being together will only increase your pain.

Then you let him make more money, and when he makes more money, then consider accepting his affairs, and marrying him, the core of these things is money.

In fact, I can't accept it, I'm a person who doesn't want to live a hard life, my parents didn't let me live a hard life, why do you make me willing to live with you?

If your boyfriend's family conditions are really bad, and you feel disgusted, you can stop with him and look for someone with a good family.

If you can't accept it, break up, if you can't accept it, don't be with him again, there is no other way, after all, the premise of love is bread, and there is no material and unrealistic, right?

Break up with him directly, if you don't break up, you will be very hard with him, you will be very tired, and you will have a lot of conflicts over money in the future.

Then you can only break up, that's his family's business, and it doesn't mean that he is a person, but you can't accept it, so what's the point of you being together, it's better to break up early.

Just because your boyfriend's family is poor doesn't mean your boyfriend is poor. It mainly depends on your boyfriend's ability, as well as whether the people in their family get along well and have no contradictions.

Then break up, there is no future marriage, no matter how much love will eventually be defeated by reality, it is better to break it off early, so as not to suffer in the future.

On the road of feelings, the boyfriend I talked about before had bad family conditions, his parents were very opposed, their way was very extreme, and they stopped me by crying, making trouble and hanging myself, and finally I compromised, they may feel guilty, and then I didn't object when I met my current husband (his family conditions were not good) and then got married, and life after marriage was not smooth.

I don't value money very much, I value the relationship between the two more seriously. However, it's really hard to say about feelings, and it may be different along a series of life changes, and it depends on people. However, life is like that, and without such problems there will be such problems.

Therefore, if you and your boyfriend are married, whether you are happy or not requires the two of you to work together, it is useless for anyone, everyone understands the reality, but it will never feel profound if it does not happen to you. At the same time, we don't just experience all the time, grow, break through, who is an exception, birth determines your choice, and the choice needs you to bear the result, the future is unknown, you only know when you go, or go according to your own wishes.

If you don't go, you're not reconciled. Gone, even if you regret it, it is still your life's lesson. You just need to know that you want to work hard to live a good life, we can't put all the risks in front, and the gods can't.

Choose to be together, just two people work hard, parents will bless you when they see your efforts, except for parents who especially want to control you, your parents' cognition has been ahead of most parents. You don't need to say it when you choose to break up, you actually have a choice to ask questions, what you really want to ask is how to convince your parents to let you be together, you already have the answer in your heart, you just need more people to give you confidence.

Then you should talk to your family more about how good your boyfriend is to you, so that they don't just feel that the family is not good and can't accept him, so that your parents can feel your boyfriend's love for you.

I think you should communicate more with your family and let them know that you and your boyfriend are truly in love, and you need to work hard in the future, rather than just looking at the present, and children from poor families will work harder.

Communicate with your parents slowly, do a good job of your parents' ideological work first, and let your parents feel that although your boyfriend's family background is not good, he is self-motivated and treats you very well.

I will communicate with my parents and let them know about him, family background is not all the factors that determine a person, I just want them to know that he is good to me, and we can earn money slowly.