My husband scolded me for being a beggar, how should I reply

When your husband scolds you for being a beggar, you can try the following ways to respond:

1.Stay calm: Don't retort when you're emotional, this can exacerbate the conflict. Stay calm and try to understand his emotions and opinions.

2.Communication: In a calm state, communicate with him and express your feelings and opinions. Try to understand the reason behind his words, there may be certain circumstances or pressures that cause him to say so.

3.Seek solutions: Once you understand his emotions and perspectives, you can come up with solutions. For example, you can propose a division of household chores or suggest how you want him to support you.

4.Seek third-party help: If you feel like you can't cope with the situation, you can seek help from a professional such as family counsellor or psychologist.

Most importantly, avoid attacking and blaming each other, but instead try to understand each other and seek solutions to their problems.

Is it because you don't work?

The beggar doesn't have to do anything, just stretch out his hand. How can a beggar still have to do housework, take care of people, and sleep with him?! A housewife is not a beggar, not a nanny, but a year-round profession.

If you give me back, I'm a beggar, then you're the beggar's husband!!

If you have this time, you might as well think about how to find a job! Be big-hearted!! It's also an incentive for you!

Making good use of it is a turning point in your life!

Ignore him and fight a beggar.

A beggar is a beggar, and some beggars have not broken their hands and feet, and they still know how to pick up bottles and sell them, and this kind of beggar lives on the handouts of others, and they have hands and feet, and they still rob.

You're still fighting with him, is he worthy?

Ignore him directly, learn more things in all aspects (including doing things and being a person), and increase your professional capital and self-confidence.

If you ask that, it's better to beat him up than a beggar! It's not that you look down on him, it's because he insults you.

Tell that sharp brother that I will surpass you sooner or later. You said that I would have a rust-free steel rice bowl (that is, to be able to have a meal in **).

You just have to say that you're not even as good as trash.

College students... You just didn't get a job ... This pressure makes you magnify the words of the beggar n times in your heart ... In fact, the beggar's words are his description of himself.

Tell him, your money is in the broken bowl, and my money is in the head.

As a wife, you have to understand your husband, and men generally have a lot of pressure in society, so you have to understand and be considerate of your husband. Is it too stressful for him to be so irritable, as a wife, you must learn to care about and be considerate of your husband, a smart wife often will not make her husband unhappy at home, and can help her husband share his worries. From your question, I also found out that you are still a little immature, you must learn to be mature, as a wife, do not play with children's temper.

The above is my suggestion, maybe the tone is a little harder, I just hope you are happy!

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Giving you two options1. You start beating him, but you have to beat him to the death 2You scold him with your mouth, how ugly it is.

If you are a person who values feelings, I hope that the situation will improve in the future If there is a reason why you are with your husband and leave it, now there are still a lot of good men who wipe their eyes and look carefully, but they can't be limited to their side.

Scare him. Divorce him with him! If he doesn't have any nostalgia at all, it proves that your relationship is gone.

Let's see if there's anything wrong with him. Talk to him.

Married? If it's over, it's a little late......You can scare him a little.

Men are very face-saving, and mobile phone information doesn't mean anything, but it's a bit too much for him to scold you in front of your mother. Why don't you find a couple of lovers and let him take a look.

He's angry, don't take it seriously.

You can scold him back: Why do you tell me to die, and I will die? I don't, I want to live well.

Originally, my husband wanted to scold you like this, it was his mistake, and you can't punish yourself with his fault.

I feel that your husband is a bit overbearing, as if he often points fingers at you, because you are kind-hearted and often let him.

Women can't be too weak in marriage, they can't do everything by men, they must have an independent personality, and they must have their own opinions.

It seems like you're offline now.

When you go online again, you can continue to chat, I hope it can help you.

Otherwise, he will think you are a bully.

Some men just don't know what to do, you are gentle and kind to him, and he thinks you are weak and deceitful.

During this period of questioning, we quarreled as soon as we opened our mouths, sometimes I was long-winded, I thought my food was not delicious, he had ** disease for several years, we rarely lived a married life, and people who had ** disease should avoid eating food.

Is it not going well at work? If you are in a very bad mood, or there is something wrong with your body, you must observe him carefully.

There is nothing to ask questions, he plays with his mobile phone when he comes back from work, he is happy when he is not asked to work, and he is not happy when he is asked to work.

Ask me what to do in the future, I don't want to quarrel with him, and I don't want to ignore him.

Answer: If you don't want to quarrel with him, you should communicate with him and have a good talk with him. There is nothing that cannot be said between husband and wife, and if a man has a bad temper, he must be guided slowly, and his temper cannot be left to his part.

If you have any grievances against him, you must say it, and you can't go to the cold war, because the cold war will not solve any problems.

In addition, he can be educated and guided by his parents or siblings.

In short, communication and exchange are important means and ways to resolve conflicts between husband and wife.

It is necessary to establish a mechanism for consultation, so that there is something to discuss, and not to make noise whenever something happens. Not only will that not solve the problem, but it will also hurt the relationship between the husband and wife.

Question: In the eyes of others, he is an honest man.

Just like what is said on Douyin, honest people will you off as soon as they open their mouths.

When he really makes a mistake, go to the political department of his unit.

It's not right to scold, it's not good to scold....

Calm down, calm down, give each other some space, and maybe make your marriage happier! Don't try to control each other, learn to understand each other with tolerance is the most important thing, although the two are husband and wife, but if both of them can each other have a certain space, many things, even if you don't ask, the other party will tell you, because he feels that you trust him, so he is willing to give his heart to you, and will eventually confess to you, communicate with you about all the things encountered, because you are the other half, his life and work partner, is his eternal holder! Marriage is built by each other's hard work, so I hope you think about it carefully, don't ruin a happy relationship because of a momentary impulse, I hope you are happy.

The people in the army are the ones who like to swear the most, so they don't want to do it.

That's not it. Do you want to reconcile??

I think it can be said that I am your husband, don't you feel distressed when you scold me. Anyway, I am very distressed that someone scolds you.

I'm your husband, why am I scolding you, then you tell him that even if it's a husband, you can't scold me, you should have respect from both parties, it's not right to scold, no matter who you are, you can't scold anyone.

You can reply, even if I'm your husband, I can't scold anyone, and you should just take care of me, not to mention that I'm your husband.

Then you tell him that no matter who you are, you can't scold me, you have to respect me, even if it's a relative, you should respect me even more.

Hello, you can say, but just now I thought you were scolding me, so you can just ask.

If that's the case, you can reply to him directly, why are you scolding me? I also have self-esteem.

Only garbage will look down on others, will scold others, don't care about him, you will only waste your tongue if you go to scold him!

You say his house is a garbage disposal station.

How can you say that about yourself, you are so modest!

I am touched that some people are so concerned about the problem of garbage You must live a very green life and never litter.

I don't know what kind of situation your husband scolded you 250. Because this sentence must have a context, the meaning of this two hundred and five is different in different situations, if it is when you are joking, your husband says that you are 250, he may think that you have some ideas that are cute, naïve that is a bit like a silly big sister, so he said that you are two hundred and five, but if you are talking about some issues argumentatively, he feels that you can't understand his true meaning, and if you say that you are 250, he may really be scolding you. So it's different for you to reply to him in different situations.

If it really belongs to the time when you are scolded, you can answer him like this: We seem to be together, if I am 250, maybe you will not be better, then let's discuss how we should live our lives in the future. But fortunately, two 250s can form an integer, which is also a good number.

No wonder people say we're the right guys. I will be inseparable from you from now on. l

My husband scolded you for 250, I believe he said it out of anger for a while.

Husbands and wives get along with each other, they must give and understand each other, respect each other, and be considerate of each other.

There is no need to quarrel for the sake of momentary anger, which will hurt the feelings between husband and wife.

So you don't have to return the favor to him, you just endure it silently, and when he gets angry and knows that he is wrong, he will apologize to you.

You said I was 250, but you made it up for me.

Did you tell him to add him exactly 500?

It's the same, I really look down on you to scold, and I'm very polite to people outside, so I decided not to be so wronged by myself, the child takes it away by himself, and it's a dead end if he doesn't leave, and it's not good for the child to grow up in this environment, and the child will learn from his father who doesn't respect his mother, and let him not respect his wife when he grows up, it's really better to take it alone.

He looks down on you from the bottom of his heart, so he scolds, you see if the people who respect him will scold, live so dignified, the two choices can't live without him, don't care what he says, you can make your own money and spend it yourself, don't pay attention to him,

If it was my husband, I would divorce directly, I have parents and relatives, and if I die, my parents will be very sad, so I will choose to divorce him.

Bear it if you can! If you can't bear it, you don't have to die, it's not worth it!

Damn, how can a person even have the courage to die, then what dare not face it