Our Marriage Jiang Jing lives on her husband, what do you think of such a life of reaching out for

In fact, I think everyone should have a plan for their life. Know what you should be doing in the next few decades. You can't lose yourself because of what you want.

Because wouldn't the life of such a person be very sad? We always hear that some people will gradually lose themselves for money or power, and become vassals of money and power. As long as they have these rights and money, they can do anything.

Some girls are like that. They have lost the consciousness of defending themselves. Sometimes, of course, it may be a necessity.

But our lives are only so long, and we have to devote our limited time to meaningful things.

Why does there be a life where girls and men reach out to ask for money, in fact, I think it should be looked at in two situations. One of the situations is that the girl is living a relatively easy life. Because of the huge social pressure now, whether it is employment or entrepreneurship, it is more difficult for a girl.

So some girls will live this kind of life in order to be able to earn money easily. Rely on the money given to you by others to live a life of drunkenness. This state of life is very pathological, it's not positive, so I don't think we can live like this.

First of all, I think this kind of life is really very humble. And in life, it is also a feeling of no confidence. At the same time, I believe that in a marriage, we should be equal and be able to respect each other. Be independent.

I don't think this kind of life is good for asking for money, and women should learn to be independent, and they shouldn't reach out for money.

It's not good, I don't have any money in my hands, and when I spend money, I have to reach out to the other party to ask for money, and live like a beggar.

Women still have to be self-reliant and have their own work, which is better.

Women still have to be independent, and if they don't work, they have to hold financial power.

I think this kind of pure vertical practice is very bad and pants size, because this practice will lead to a big gap between the feelings of two people, and it will affect the marriage of two people.

Her approach will only make her husband gain an inch, which is not correct, but will provoke some problems in the marriage.

In my opinion,There is no need for a marriage where only one party is working hard to go any further. Even love needs to go both ways, let alone marriage. Moreover, in marriage, if only one party is trying, it will make the other party feel very tired.

Moreover, this kind of marriage is not happy. So, there is no need to continue to maintain it. <>

1. Maintaining a marriage is a matter for two people

In a marriage, if you want to make the marriage happy, you can't rely on the efforts of one person alone. Moreover, a marriage that only one person works will break down sooner or later. Marriage is originally a matter of two people, and it is very stressful to maintain it alone.

If the other party ignores this marriage, it will really make this marriage very difficult. Because one's efforts are very limited, both mentally and otherwise. <>

Therefore, we must be clear about it. A two-way marriage will be happy, and it is useless to have only one person's efforts.

2. How to maintain a marriage?

If you want to maintain a marriage, you need two people to work together. After getting married, the two people live together in Qingsha, and they will quarrel over things in life. However, if you want to maintain a marriage, it is best to avoid quarrels as much as possible.

Because of frequent quarrels, it is also easy to affect the relationship between husband and wife. Moreover, there is nothing else to do in the life of two people except quarrels, and this kind of marriage is meaningless. Also, two people should trust each other.

Trust is very important between couples. <>

If two people are always suspicious of each other and don't trust each other. This kind of marriage is easy to answer the current questions of the state. Also, know how to communicate.

Many times, marriages break down because the couple doesn't know how to communicate with each other. Communication is the best way to solve the problem, no matter what kind of problem is encountered, as long as two people are willing to calm down and communicate well, the problem can be solved. It's best to set a time to communicate.

In a marriage, the most important thing for two people to maintain their relationship is that they should value each other's efforts and know how to give back to each other positively.

In many cases, it is not how much money a man earns back that will necessarily bring happiness to a woman. Money is naturally important, but love and companionship are even more important.

If there is a lack of companionship between husband and wife, sooner or later there will be problems and uncertainties in the marriage.

In my opinion, the secret to keeping your marriage fresh and permanent is: attentive companionship and quality of getting along. A marriage that only one person works hard to manage will never reach the destination of happiness.

Therefore, it is really difficult to be happy in a unilateral marriage, because in this unequal husband and wife relationship, in exchange for the lover's disappointment and frustration again and again.

After all, a marriage in which you are working alone, but the other party does not give back in the slightest, will only make you exhausted, and you will have to choose to give up in the end.

In our lives, there are always many women who find out that they have married the wrong person after getting married, the reason is that before getting married, they don't know much about the meaning of marriage, and they don't know what kind of talent is most suitable for them.

It is precisely because he thinks about marriage too simply and does not know how to manage his marriage that he later made a mistake in his married life, and even fell out with his lover to the point of divorce.

Therefore, if you want to have a good marriage, you must first have enough understanding of marriage.

I don't think it's necessary to maintain it, it will only make both people miserable, and it's better to divorce as soon as possible to make yourself happy.

No. The stability of a marriage requires the joint efforts of two people, and it is necessary to think from the other person's point of view.

I don't think it's at all necessary, because it will only be torture for this marriage to continue.

Because he has been out of touch with society, he has not gone out to work for 6 years, and then Li Hong went out to find a job again, which is very difficult, and he also has to take care of the family, if he goes out to work, there is no one to take care of the family, which is why he does not choose to go out to work.

Because she hasn't been working for a long time, she has always been a full-time wife, and it is difficult to compete with others due to her lack of work experience. And after getting married, she returned to the workplace, and her treatment and salary were all down, and she didn't have the heart to fight.

The TV series "Our Marriage Book" is about the problems that stay-at-home mothers encounter when balancing family and work. Jiang Jing was also a strongman in the workplace before, and the reason why she didn't go out to work was for the sake of her children.

Because she can't accept the gap in her heart. After giving birth to a child, when she returned to the workplace, she felt a sense of disparity with before, and she couldn't bear it, so she chose to go home and be a full-time wife.

Because he has been a full-time wife for too long, he has been out of touch with society. It's hard to find a job when he goes out, and he has to take the world to rent a child, so he doesn't go out to work.

It may be that there is a psychological problem, and you can't work well, so you can't work.

No, I think that after getting married, two people can love each other, help each other, and be able to think about each other for each other, which is particularly important, even if there is money, if two people can't get along well, they won't be happy.

No illusions. Everyone lives differently, meets different people, and lives differently in the future, not necessarily finding a rich person will lead to happiness.

No, I think rich people are more sensible, they think about more things, and it is better to rely on them than on themselves.

In real life, you must pay attention to the fact that the man who often says the sweet words of Kuanqiling must be a scumbag, and the man who talks to you a lot of money in life is also sleepy, stay away from cautious relatives, and refuse any kindness from the other party.

When getting along with such a man, you must be vigilant, don't easily believe a man's words, and learn to observe the man's character quality, so that you can stay away.

I think in reality, you should get along more with a man, don't marry a man who is too stingy or calculating, otherwise you will inevitably be calculated in the future.

Our Marriage is on the air, the show uses the married life of three different couples as the starting point to tell the growth of each person in marriage. Jiang Jing is a rich wife who lives a worry-free life on the surface, but in fact, only she knows what kind of life she lives.

"Our Marriage" Jiang Jing was cleaned out of the house

Jiang Jing is a full-time mother with a son who is six years old, and her husband Lu Weibin is on a business trip all year round, and occasionally comes home. Jiang Jing's family lives in the largest apartment in the community, which can be learned from her son's mouth, but also from the child's words, in the family's values, being able to make money is superior to others.

Jiang Jing met the independent Shen Comet, in the period when Shen Comet didn't want to be a full-time mother and wanted to return to the workplace, looking for a job and running into walls everywhere, Jiang Lead Najing said: Serving your husband at home is not better than being angry with others outside, I don't think there's anything wrong with serving your husband as a boss. But when Jiang Jing wanted to fulfill her filial piety, she deliberately broke her leg to deceive her husband and organize a trip abroad for her parents.

Jiang Jing heard that Lu Weibin was calling her sister-in-law when she was socializing with a daughter outside, but she was still just chatting with Shen Comet, and she had no other plans. Later, Lu Weibin went to Xiamen on a business trip, Jiang Jing found that he was with a woman, and the two often traveled alone, this time they were two people together, and the two had no business contacts this time.

This time, Jiang Jing finally couldn't hold back the idea of divorce. Shen Huixing introduced her divorce lawyer at that time to her, but after consulting the lawyer, she found that her husband had already calculated everything from before marriage. Jiang Jing showed her prenuptial agreement to the lawyer, and after reading it, the lawyer asked who provided the prenuptial agreement.

Jiang Jing told the lawyer that her husband said that her friend had a standard template, and she only needed to sign it directly. The lawyer told Jiang Jing that this is not a standard template, but a very professional contract, and it is tailor-made for Lu Weibin (her husband), as long as he files for divorce, he will be cleaned out of the house and will not get a penny.

For those who are focused on love and marriage, this is wisdom, because Lu Wuyou is the interaction of family relationships, and for Zao Huaiyu's personal independence, it is stupid, because he has lost a self.

It is wisdom, because if girls do this, they can make boys feel worshipped, and then they can do what they can in the family, which can help girls share the heavy responsibilities of the family, and such girls have a particularly high emotional intelligence. Jiang Jing is played by Cao Xiwen.

Stupidity, such an approach may make the other person feel that he is profiteering, and he is doing this for the sake of making money. affects the feelings of two people.