How to do a good job of interpersonal relationships in university dormitories?

The most important thing is to be honest, not narrow-minded, to be sincere, to learn to tolerate, to be modest and prudent, to be able to endure, not to be competitive, not greedy, not to care about gains and losses with others, to know how to care and considerate, etc., it is difficult to be a man, it is even more difficult to be a good person, but it is not difficult to do anything We must treat everything with a normal heart, there is a saying called contentment and happiness When you meet someone you can trust, you must get along with (her and him).When you meet a noble person, you must thank (her and him), when you meet someone who does not trust you, you must review yourself, (she and him) do not trust yourself, and you must work hard to correct it, because only in this way can you (she and him) know you and trust you again, and it is possible to become your friend When you meet someone you once hated, you must greet (her and him) with a smile; Because (she he) makes you stronger. If you promise others, you have to do it, don't agree if you can't do it, and be honest and honest.

Only honest people will be approved by everyone, only continuous efforts and innovation will have new harvests, do not be pessimistic, use your own mind and hands to change your destiny. You have to do what you want others to do to you. If you want to treat others as you would like to be treated, you have to treat them as you would like to be treated. Do this and you will find that everyone is a friend of you.

You will get real happiness, get real good friends Do these will have a better future, will make your future more exciting, We can't let difficulties and pain control ourselves, we have to be strong to face everything, grief and sorrow into strength, let's share the joy of happiness I hope everyone can be happy, and I hope to make righteous friends in the world.

Learn to listen, talk less and do more. Be warm, helpful, and thankless. Strive to improve your work ability, self-esteem and self-love, be a person with a wide range of knowledge and hobbies, and become a person with unique opinions on many topics.

College students have to live in the dormitory for four years, and the roommates will become the people we spend the most time with and are the closest to us, so building a good dormitory relationship is the beginning of a good university life.

Here are three things that I think you should keep in mind and master in your university dormitory.

Respect and understanding, seek common ground while reserving differences:

After going to college, everyone's family environment and life experience in the dormitory are different, and everyone's personality is also very different, but we can choose to respect each other, such as respecting others' dressing styles, respecting others' hobbies and interests, respecting others' work and rest habits, respecting others' values, as long as we don't touch our own bottom line, don't quarrel with roommates or cold wars unless necessary.

Empathy, self-discipline and forgiveness:

People with the ability to empathize, his heart is not just his own person, but a lot of people, when we can empathize with more people, in fact, it also means that we can fit more people in our hearts, the so-called prime minister can hold the boat in the belly is empathy to bring us more imagination and more possibilities, we will be more understanding of other people's behavior and thoughts, more able to get along with others well. Discipline oneself and forgiveness to others, treat oneself and others can not be double standard, but should be more strict with oneself, and learn to be considerate and understanding of others. This will give others the impression that we are tolerant rather than aggressive.

Help each other and treat others sincerely:

If your roommate is struggling and asks for your help, don't be stingy and go for your help. I think most people still have a good character, you help her once, she will remember your good, and the next time you are in trouble, they will also come to help you. Usually you have to care more about your roommates, use your heart to open their hearts, sincere people are always the most likeable.

These are the three things I think are the most important things to have good relationships in the dormitory.

I hope that all students who read this article can have good interpersonal relationships in college and have a good four years! Remember, if you bloom butterflies, you will come!

1.It is important to know how to respect each other in any relationship between people. There are 6-8 people in the dormitory together, and everyone's family conditions and living habits must be different, so it is more important to know how to respect.

Get along with each other as equals, learn and live together, and help each other. 2.Learn to be tolerant As the saying goes, no one is perfect, and everyone will have shortcomings.

With your roommate every day, you must be tolerant, look down on everything, and be generous. But we must also have our own principles, make our own position clear, and have a bottom line. 3.

If you don't pull a small team, there will be a few people in a dormitory who are more familiar, usually spend more time together, and have a better relationship, which is actually normal. But you must not isolate other roommates in a group, and don't scold and scold others in the dormitory, which is taboo. 4.

Know how to empathize and get along with the same dormitory, everyone has their own things to do. We must learn to empathize, and when others are resting, you try to do other things lightly. For example, the sound of hitting the keyboard is quieter, and the sound of hitting ** is smaller.

Secondly, learn to praise your roommate, genuinely compliment, for example, if your roommate buys a new dress for you to share, your answer should be "very good, it suits you", rather than sneering at your roommate. Think about what you would expect if you were sharing something with someone. So you must know how to empathize.

5.Know how to be grateful that everyone is in a dormitory, and many times they help each other. For example, help bring a meal, pick up a courier, and buy something.

But even if it's a dormitory, we can't take our roommates' help for granted, and we must know how to thank them. 6.Learning to share and sharing resources appropriately will make roommates get along more closely with each other, especially in girls' dorms, because there are many common topics.

For example, if you use a good skincare product, you can give it to your roommate. 7.Don't be greedy for small gains, try not to "rub" other people's things, cosmetics, snacks, daily necessities, etc.

This kind of behavior is very annoying to everyone. Using other people's things once or twice has no objection to others, but repeatedly "rubbing" other people's things will only make your roommates want to stay away from you more and more.

The university is a learning stage environment that pays more attention to collective life and social life, so the collective dormitory is especially obvious to the university environment life. Everyone has their own dormitory berth, dorm room for several people in one room such a university life to live. This kind of dormitory has become a difficult problem for every college student, because the dormitory is not only living alone, but also others, so you have to adapt and accept, and do a good job of getting along with these other students.

After all, it is inevitable that students in the same dormitory will need each other or need each other's understanding and help, so it is particularly important to improve the concept of mutual integration in individual collective life. We must know that we can be kind and get along with others, so that we can better integrate into the hearts and eyes of others, and live a better collective life. So remember to be yourself and be kind to others, so that you can gradually experience the joy of community life.