What is it like to be a beautiful poor woman?

As a beautiful poor woman, the experience is not particularly good, and many times there will be a special feeling of inferiority in my heart.

Although girls from poor families have the advantage of appearance, their appearance is only a skin bag after all, and it is not easy to get a good life through hard work.

It's just that compared to others, it's really a little more popular.

20 years old, junior.

I was born into a poor family in the mountains.

Since I was a child, I have been sleeping in a small room with my sister and two younger brothers.

Since I was a child, I have been wearing my sister's clothes, and my father loves to play cards and does not care about his family, so he relies on his grandfather and grandmother to support him.

There won't be much pocket money, and I don't know if it's beautiful or not.

The results of the college entrance examination are not satisfactory, and I can't afford to go to a public undergraduate.

At that time, I was still young, and I didn't dare to study when I saw the tuition fee of tens of thousands of dollars a year for private undergraduates.

Then I found out that the beautiful girls from poor families are very contradictory.

Boys with good conditions dare to pursue good-looking girls, but they dislike girls' family conditions.

Boys with commensurate conditions, but because they are poor, they dare not pursue good-looking girls.

In this era of looking at faces, for girls, presumptuous is of course a kind of capital, but due to the poverty of her family, her beauty presents a kind of simplicity, but at the same time, there are some embarrassments.

A beautiful girl born in a poor family is her own blessing, and it is also the resource and capital of the whole family.

The experience is not particularly good, and many times there will be that special feeling of inferiority in my heart, which is very bad for myself.

Girls are beautiful and poor is an opportunity to change their fate, and if a beautiful girl marries, she is basically married to a rich or powerful person, and ordinary people have very few opportunities to marry such a girl.

Yes, in this era of looking at faces, for girls, presumptuous is of course a kind of capital, but due to the poverty of her family, her beauty presents a kind of simplicity, but at the same time, there are some embarrassments, what you want to do, and due to the constraints of economic conditions, it depends on your point in **? I care about her appearance or the family behind her.

I myself am good-looking, because of genetics, plus I have been thinking about makeup since junior high school, although my makeup skills are not as exquisite as Internet celebrities in high school, but I am really better than my peers, and I have a good dressing aesthetic When I go out, I am often asked by many people to V that kind of thing, and I am often praised for my good looks, and I am pampered and held at school, I can't stand the grievances, and I am more dragged but I don't have any bad intentions, that is, if others mess with me, I will definitely go back to school in the city, and some small details of life are often exposed Just like there is a post above saying that I don't know how to open the door of a hot pot restaurant, I often have similar things when I go out with my friends, and I am very embarrassed and look very dirty.

What is the experience of the most beautiful poor woman? In fact, as a beautiful woman, born in a poor family, she will also feel a trace of pain in her heart, and she will think that her family is poor and sad.

There is nothing special about this experience, just like a normal person. This is a perception of others, and you may not be aware of it.

It would be nice to have that, too.

The bad experience made this child suffer a lot of grievances, and this child could only rely on his own efforts to get himself out of poverty.

I think it's a very sad experience, and girls with beautiful faces should have a better life.

It's a very aggrieved experience, but it's also very independent. Will become very empathetic.

I feel that I am particularly wronged, I am so beautiful, how can I be in such a home, especially embarrassed, I should be in a good family to stand up for myself.

Girls from poor families are more sensible and harder. Difference Between Poor Girl and Rich Girl:

1. Huge material advantages. Rich girls start with good snacks, good clothes, good use, and good fun. Girls from poor families have a deep sense of material deprivation since childhood, and are prone to form a strong inferiority complex.

2. Knowledgeable. Rich girls can learn **, learn painting, dance, fashion design, psychology, as long as they are interested, they can find excellent teachers to tutor, because there is no excessive learning pressure, but the progress is very fast. Girls from poor families, because their parents have limited funds at hand, must follow the principle of applying what they have learned.

3. The richness and colorfulness of spiritual life. Rich girls can buy the best location to enjoy operas, ballets, and ** meetings; If you want to travel, you can travel. And the children of poor families cannot be satisfied.

She will attract many people and many opportunities to do things because of her beauty. But due to the bad family background, there will be two extremes of personality. Either they have low self-esteem and feel that the people around them look down on them everywhere.

Either you have a strong personality and feel that you must be perfect in everything. But in their future lives, they will not let themselves live a poor life.

When I used to go to college, I didn't have money to buy beautiful clothes, I remember a girl from a good family said that people are fair, and they give you a beautiful face and a good body but no money to buy all kinds of beautiful clothes. If there are any activities that cost money, such as traveling, I won't go if I need more money.

At that time, there were many people chasing after me, but they didn't want to accept anyone because they knew they had no money. I never accept gifts from boys.,I try to buy cheap meals when I go to the cafeteria to eat on weekdays.。 But it's good after working, and now it's considered to be upper-middle-income, and my husband has a big house in the second line, a car of more than 500,000 yuan, no loans, no loans, and a son and a daughter.

Life is quite happy.

In fact, such a girl may lack a sense of security, but the sense of security is given to herself, if she has no money, she will make money, and if she has no ability to make money, she will work hard to improve her ability, and there are many channels for learning. In fact, there are many girls who are born poor, and what they can do is to work hard to live well. It's all about living a better version of yourself and trying to make your life more exciting.

I really think that the most terrible thing about poverty is not material, but spiritual, don't get used to poverty, you will become numb, you will hypnotize yourself to live it. Instead, we should rise up and work hard to change.

I think beauty and money are both external, but being beautiful is a kind of pleasing to the eye, such a girl gives people a feeling of brightness, but because of family reasons, it is easy to go astray and sacrifice yourself for money.

If the beautiful girl has a good education, a good job, the family conditions are not important, coupled with a good character, I believe that such girls are chased by a lot of people, and there are many people who hope to enter the palace of marriage with them.

However, beautiful girls, especially those whose family conditions are not particularly good, are easy to go astray, and there are many people who sell themselves because of money, so you need to give him enough security to fall in love with a beautiful poor girl.

Such a girl will be more independent, have a simple beauty, and look more excellent.

Your relatives in the countryside come over every year for the Chinese New Year and introduce their incompetent sons to you.

Although it is good-looking, it is still very inferior, and people who like it dare not pursue it.

It's a pity, but a person's life should be pursued by himself, at least the appearance has won at the starting line.

Although the clothes are ordinary and there is no makeup, it looks very tasteful.

Just like the ancient drama says, a little heart is higher than the sky and life is thinner than paper, and the self-esteem is very strong, and I am afraid of being hurt.

It doesn't matter, people are not exhausted, make some efforts to change the status quo of the family.

It doesn't matter if your family is poor, as long as you are motivated, you can still find a good job, and being good-looking is also an advantage.

It's about working harder to catch up with others!

Those ugly women have to buy hundreds of thousands of dollars of cosmetics every month, and they can look good without buying them.

You don't need much to dress up to really look good.

It's okay, just don't go hungry.

Isn't that what Yang Chaoyue is all about?

I don't know, I'm not a girl.

1.Even if you have the ability to make money, you will subconsciously avoid high-end places when you see them.

In fact, not all luxuriously decorated places have high consumption, but some children who have been told that their families are very poor since they were young will subconsciously feel that the luxuriously decorated places must be places they can't afford. Even if they grow up and have the ability to make a lot of money, they will still subconsciously avoid luxurious places, because they always feel in their hearts that such places should not be places they can afford, and this kind of avoidance will always accompany these children to grow up.

2.No matter how good you are, you can't restrain your inferiority complex.

Everyone has vanity and wants to be envied in a certain aspect, and children are no exception. But some parents, regardless of whether they have money at home or not, always like to say in front of their children that our family conditions are not good, there is no money to buy you beautiful stationery, and there is no money to buy you clothes, you must study hard and make money to buy for your family in the future. Regardless of the psychology of parents who say this, they should not always say such things to their children.

It is true that children should not go back to excessive comparison, but moderately satisfying children's vanity will be more beneficial to children's growth. On the contrary, if parents have always emphasized the fact that the child is very poor, then the seeds of inferiority complex will be planted in the child's heart, and even if the child grows up excellently in the future, he will still be inferior and cowardly in his heart.

3.When you meet someone who is better off than your own family, you can't help but feel a sense of distance.

Many children who have been instilled with a very poor family will involuntarily define themselves as poor people who must work hard, and they will subconsciously think that they are not all the way to those who have a good family, no matter how pleasant the initial relationship is, they will have a sense of distance in the following interactions. In fact, whether the two parties can become friends is not directly related to each other's family conditions, but the impact of this kind of original family makes them unable to see themselves correctly in front of people with good family backgrounds, especially some girls, who will define their relationship with people with good family backgrounds in six words.

4.When doing things, you lack the courage to move forward, and you often want to do it but don't dare to do it.

If you want to keep improving, then you must challenge yourself in the next journey of life to do more things that you have never challenged. Of course, it takes a certain amount of courage to step out of your current comfort zone and challenge something new that you have never been exposed to, but most children who are overly poor lack this courage. When they struggle to a certain extent, it is difficult to convince themselves to make changes, and even if they really want to challenge, they will only imagine the challenge scene in their hearts, and they are rarely able to do what they want to do bravely.

Are you a child who was overly poor by your parents?

Poor interpersonal skills.

Children who are poored are certainly not materially comparable to other children. Then, naturally, there will be a gap between him and the rest of the children. Today's children are more realistic, and when they see someone who is different from them, they will automatically reject others.

Then, they are rejected from an early age, and over time they will become inferior and do not know how to interact with others. They live in a very small circle and know relatively few people, and they are gradually reluctant to open up their inner world.

Poor taste. Children who grow up poor do not have the opportunity to pay attention to their appearance, and they are naturally not good at dressing. Because such a quiet girl has been used to living a hard life since childhood, she is reluctant to spend money on her own dressing, and she does not know how to dress herself, so she is simply accustomed to it.

But in the eyes of outsiders, when such a girl goes out into society and stands with the people around her, she will always look indecent, and she will easily be ridiculed and scorned by others.

Inner inferiority.

Poverty inevitably leads to material shortages, I don't have toys that others have, I don't have new clothes that others have, others can go here and there to play, but I can only help my parents at home. Over time, children will feel that they are inferior to others, and when they grow up, they will feel nervous when they go out on some high-end occasions, and they dare not express themselves in the face of the people they like, and they are very inferior in terms of personality and behavior.

I cry all day long and I am poor, and I value money very much.

Compared with the rest of the people around them, children who have grown up poor live very frugally, even very stingy. Anything that is tied to money will be put aside. After a long time, his friends around him would sneer at him, thinking that he was too stingy and took money too seriously.

You don't want to be friends with someone like that.

Therefore, there is still a difference between girls who are raised in poverty and girls who are raised in the rich. For the sake of their children's healthy character and their future knowledge and upbringing, parents may wish to enrich their children on the basis of family conditions. This disruption is of certain benefit to the child's future, so parents should not be careless.