As a guy, what is it like to have a female friend?

My boyfriend has a lot of female friends, and I really want to ask you, do you really want to be ordinary friends with my boyfriend. You guys are careful, I can see through it, and it's troublesome to stay away from my boyfriend.

As a boy, I have a lot of female friends, and maybe I am a very thoughtful person in the eyes of others, but what is this for me? Can't girls and boys be friends? Isn't that a strange thing?

As a boy, it is a very lucky thing to have a female friend, because sometimes friends are blessed regardless of gender, and if a girl is willing to be friends with you, then it is also a recognition of you.

As a girl, in my opinion, no girl just wants to be friends with a guy, most of them come to be friends with you because I want to be your girlfriend.

As a boy, having a female friend should be a different experience, because from childhood to adulthood, maybe you have some male friends around you, and women will be more delicate and gentle, which should be a very complementary one.

Sometimes when you have a female friend and a girlfriend at the same time, you will feel very annoyed, the female friend may just want to be a brother with you, but in the eyes of the girlfriend, the female friend does not simply want to be friends with you.

It feels like having an extra brother, because most of the girls nowadays are more manly, maybe tougher than the boys, maybe more ** than the girls. There is a feeling that everyone is brothers.

I don't really like to be friends with boys, they're too rough, and they don't understand some of the girls' thoughts, and no matter how righteous you are, they'll treat you as a brother.

First of all, if Lu Wei minds the other party's friends of the opposite sex, it also shows that he may have more energy invested in this relationship. Love is not food, water, air, but cannot be shared with other people, and the more people who mind, the more they value the relationship. Friends should have a sense of proportion in getting along with each other, and within a safe range, friends of the opposite sex can also have real friendships.

can't tell your own identity, and after having a significant other, you still have the same sense of boundaries with friends of the opposite sex as before, which is what you should mind the most.

But friends of the opposite sex are not beasts, and they don't need to treat each other as imaginary enemies. Occasional chats between other parties, or giving each other some help and advice when encountering difficulties, are normal friendships. What I am most afraid of is that the other party's friend is in the name of a friend, but in fact, he is doing something to occupy the other party's time and energy, and the middle is ambiguous.

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In this case, there will be a little ambiguous feelings in the hearts of the two people, but for some reason it has not been explicitly stated.

If you really mind that the other party has a friend of the opposite sex, you can clearly tell the other party that you must not hold back your heart and compete with yourself. If the other person still has the same sense of proportion as before, you can also consider whether the relationship is worth continuing. Otherwise, let go of your mind.

Boys have a lot of female friends who are just a little bit distracted, and they are not sincere to anyone, just to show their ability.

Personally, for me. If you are treated as an ordinary friend, it will be very distant, for example, if we hang out together, then I must AA with you, because I don't want to cause you any misunderstanding. But the boyfriend is different, he won't be so clear, although he will return it in the end by giving him a small gift or something, but at least at that time he won't ask for AA or something, it seems too raw.

Also, if it's an ordinary friend, when I talk to you, I will also joke, but it is limited to the content that can't be created by any ambiguity, for example, I will talk to you about the content of the common circle, and I won't call you some ambiguous names. But my boyfriend's words are that I want to share everything with him, and I want to tell him about any trivial things, even if we have different circles, I want to tell him those fun things. If he's stupid, I'll probably call him a fool, a little fool, a piggy.

But they will never call you a fool, at best they will call you a sand sculpture, and if the relationship is closer, they will ask you if you are not good.

I will try to avoid physical contact with you, and at most I will kick you and punch you when I am playing (note, it's a serious hammer, not the kind of petite little hammer that is shy. And his boyfriend, who would like to stick to him, will do his hands and feet to him, and all kinds of small actions will tease him.

I won't be looking for you often, but I won't be born either. The circle of friends generally praises and evaluates each other, but if one day the comment area bumps into each other, and a certain point suddenly collides together, it will also turn to the chat box to chat for more than half an hour, forty minutes. Other than that, there won't be any chat opportunities (except offline) If you have a boyfriend, please refer to the above content, but if there is a little bit of trouble, you want to share it with him.

But as far as I am concerned, with ordinary friends, I talk until I go to bed at night, and I don't say goodnight to him. I'll say I'm going to sleep, and I'll talk about it when I have time. Because I think good night is somewhat ambiguous.

But with your boyfriend, there are more tricks and all kinds of fancy goodnights. When I'm in a good mood, I'll say good morning to him the next day. Hahahahaha (covering his face) Anyway, the girl who keeps having good morning and good night with you every day definitely doesn't just want to be an ordinary friend with you.

But I think other girls treat you as an ordinary friend or develop into a boyfriend, you should be able to feel it yourself. If you think that girl is like a female friend and a girlfriend, then most likely she is having an affair with you, or is pursuing you, or is a sister of Aquaman. Anyway, I'm a regular male friend.

Like male character, you can be a friend for the development!

First of all, I don't have such good friends of the opposite sex, and secondly, I think it should be a good thing to have a good friend of the opposite sex! He can stand in his perspective and give you some views on the problem that are different from same-sex friends, he can give you some help that same-sex friends can't give, he can make you have a different friendship feeling from same-sex friends, in short, it should be a good feeling!

It is dependence, calmness, and the preciousness that is on the lips and hidden in the heart. Like Yang Zi and Zhang Yishan, before the person who guards you appears, I will protect you, and it is all me who will harm you and coax you to take care of you, but you are free, and you are my heart that I am reluctant to reveal. Like Ren Quan and Li Bingbing, the friendship that has passed the test of time is more precious than the instantaneous heart-warming love, I have seen all of your appearances, and I am willing to see you marry.

I have a female friend, we are in the same class in high school and college, and we have been in a relationship for more than ten years, I have always liked her, and she knows it, but she is not together by mistake, and now we are both parents, and we are still very good friends, and we both know each other's other half. It is undeniable that I have a good impression of her, and it is indeed an important reason why I have been able to keep in touch for more than ten years, but as time goes by, with the growth of age and experience, we are now not relatives but relatives. Of course, there have been various contradictions in the middle, and not long ago he threatened to block me...Ha ha.

We will tell each other about anything, persuade each other, and help each other when there are difficulties. Moreover, many things are different from the perspective of the opposite sex, which will also increase the way to solve problems.

Very good, I confessed to my boyfriend that I have a male girlfriend, he is the outlet for my relationship problems, we tell each other about things in life, we talk about problems and we solve each other, and some things boys will have different perspectives. Although everyone dislikes each other, they are genderless friends who can't break up.

There are still a lot of feelings, but it's hard to describe what it is. My friend and I were high school classmates, and we talked a lot when we were at school, and she would often talk to me after class, asking me to buy something to eat, and then go to the cafeteria to eat after school and send her back to the dormitory. Because she is so kind, she says it's pitiful when she sees anything bad, and then she looks compassionate, which always makes people want to protect her, plus she was born in a wealthy family and has an extraordinary temperament, so there was really a time when I really fascinated her and liked her.

But this feeling came to an abrupt end when she knew that she had a boyfriend who was a soldier, after all, someone has a master. Ever since she knew that she had a boyfriend who was in the army, she often mentioned him to me, wow, I don't know how I felt at the time, often listening to one opposite sex praising another opposite sex in front of you, thinking about it makes me feel like my brain is going to short circuit. But it seems like I'm enjoying it, because that's all she says to me.

Time flies and we are all working, but our contact has not been broken, although not as frequent as before, but every time we meet and chat, we are as familiar and relaxed as ever. We still have nothing to talk about, and often nothing to say, but we don't feel embarrassed. In fact, I also envy her and his boyfriend, the trust between them is really, let me see, it turns out that this is what love should look like, the friendship between me and her She didn't hide from her boyfriend, as if she didn't hide it from me that she has a boyfriend.

Maybe you won't believe that there is such a pure friendship, but only when you have it will you believe that some impossible things are still real.

I met her in my freshman year, and I thought about chasing her, but then I learned that I wasn't the type she liked, and then I somehow became the best friend of the opposite sex, and we are still in touch until now that we graduate and work. Sometimes we discuss emotional issues with each other, and both of us are as familiar as raisins.

There was a friend who had been friends for four years and finally broke up. He still doesn't know the reason for the breakup, and I never spoke to him again. It's because he suddenly got along with another friend of the opposite sex, and the two of them are inseparable, playing games and eating together.

And then I don't believe in pure friendship anymore, it's all a lie.

I have a tall friend of the opposite sex who is 1.85 meters, and I am only 1.6 meters, and walking together is like a pair of chopsticks with one broken. The height terrier is always there. He is very good at science, I am a mess in science, I can always hear his taunts every time, but I can also hear him give me lectures.

I said to him that my male god is super handsome when he plays basketball, and he said that his goddess is very beautiful. Spit all the way, laugh all the way. You can talk to him about all kinds of gossip, and you can also encourage each other and feed each other chicken soup.

You will feel that you are safe even if you are drunk by drinking with him. There is no messy affection, and there is no mutual ambiguity in the story, just simple like-mindedness. What I want most is to buy a bag of melon seeds, find a place, and have an awkward chat for a day; In a boring self-study class, I passed notes across thousands of mountains and rivers; Breakfast together in the corridor in the morning....There are too many stories and too many true, I can only say, it's nice to meet you.

So in general, the rest of my life is full of joy with you.

It's nice to meet you, it's happy to see you, you won't quarrel, you won't be jealous, you will make trouble together, play together, you won't be afraid of anything if you have him, he is my boyfriend, we are friends forever. He is tall, thin and handsome, there are many girls chasing him, but he has always been single, we are high school classmates, when we first met, we didn't expect that the relationship would be so close, we are not lovers, but we can accompany each other for a longer time than lovers.

Most of my friends are friends of the opposite sex. Because I am more outgoing and willing to socialize with boys, this has caused a phenomenon that the girls around me have gradually become estranged from envy to me.

Actually, I don't deliberately play with boys, it's always an indescribable feeling that I can slowly mingle with them, maybe Scorpio is attracted to the opposite sex. In the words of playing games, the tolerance rate of getting along with boys will be higher. Boys are more tolerant of girls, which is related to the education they received from childhood.

They will tolerate some of your little mistakes, plus they will have some beautiful fantasies about the opposite sex, so they are very comfortable to get along.

Even the best girlfriends between girls will inevitably have some small frictions, because they are all the same kind of creatures and know each other too well. And girls will be more or less selfish in their bones, and there will often be cold wars or small groups in the dormitory, because of a little trivial thing to start quarreling, and they will feel a little tired after getting along for a long time, not as chic and comfortable as boys.

Just like our high school because it is a liberal arts class, the boys belong to a rare species like giant pandas, three women in one play, and a group of women is a fierce battle. Your words can become the fuse of a war of words, and with the nature of holding grudges, your plastic friendship is basically over. Once, because she was different from the star that my roommate liked, she felt that the two of us were not all the way, so she rarely spoke.

However, if you play well with boys, you have to be prepared to be scolded behind your back, because many people will think that you are too frivolous, in fact, it is just a manifestation of not being able to eat grapes and saying that grapes are sour.