Ask for psychological counseling As soon as I saw my dad, I was in a bad mood

I have to say that he is doing this for your own good, you have to understand. Maybe he disciplines you more and praises and encourages you less, but no matter what way, the purpose is the same, worrying about your future. It is often said that the hearts of parents in the world are pitiful, and who will pity their parents, of course, is the child.

If you use resistance to him, you will both be in a worse and worse mood.

When he cares about you again, you can try to say, thank you for your support, I will definitely try my best to do well. If he has time, you can also report back to him on your revision plan and progress. In this way, his demands on you are rewarded, and after understanding your learning status, his mood will improve, his attitude towards you will improve, and your mood will improve.

He trusts you more and will take care of you less.

You talk to your dad and say, "I know how to revise well, I have my own measure, and you don't want me to read a book when I see me resting, and keep saying that I will cause my disgust, so you can look at it yourself and say that you are measured, and you will do well in this topic and talk to your dad."

The way to be happy is that you studied well and got into a good university, and you deserve to be happy

Same as I used to! When you grow up, you will understand the good intentions of your family! In fact, he doesn't want to nag you every day! In order not to let you study hard!

You go to communicate with your father on the stone table, the most important thing is to combine work and rest, and reading dead books may not have a good effect, but it will make people tired of learning and even more sad.

Me too, I'm in my second year of junior high school, we're about the same age, and your dad is also good for you, unlike me, no one pays attention to me. You learn to be interested in the textbook and everything is solved. Actually, learning is also fun, you know?

When I fell out of love, I studied hard, memorized the book page by page, and did the questions one by one, I could remember a lot and forget a lot. Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. As long as you don't let yourself be idle, it's good to get into the book, as for your dad, he shouldn't say anything about you, when he doesn't exist, just coax him away in a few words, and force yourself to read.

That's how learning is, let's boil.

Communication, exchange is necessary. You can explain to him why you need to take a break, and if your reason is reasonable, I don't think your dad will disagree. But if it's an unreasonable reason, it's your own reason.

In fact, parents are all good to us, and the phrase "pity the hearts of parents in the world" is not bad at all!

Psychoanalysis: Hello, subject.

Seeing your situation, I can feel your helplessness and collapse, and I can also feel your feelings and hug you.

Through your description, you may have some postpartum depression, maybe your husband did not meet your needs and care in time, which makes you very vulnerable, in fact, when we are full of joy and married to a person, in fact, life is just so marital dust, life is also a piece of chicken feathers, the key is that we must have the ability to make us all happy, if the subject is now seriously affected by negative emotions, it is recommended to go to a professional counselor to consult and explain their problems, Through the perspective of a psychological counselor, we can see what our hearts are like and what our inner children are, learn to be aware of our emotions, see our emotions, and meet our own needs.

So for the divorce thing, I think you can also choose the law to sue for divorce through legal channels, through the cooperation of the lawyer and yourself, this marriage can also be terminated, the key is that a person must also learn to love themselves, maintain independence, believe in themselves, don't care about other people's opinions, no one can understand the situation we are standing in, nor can we understand the suffering we have suffered, only be strong, only face these pains, bravely make their own choices, careful choices and judgments, believe in themselves, and can also get out of the sea of suffering.

Hope mine is helpful to you.