What to do if your boyfriend hides from herself after a breakup

Such things divide people's personalities.

Some people can be friends after breaking up. Some just don't want to do it even to strangers.

Generally speaking, relationships after a breakup are difficult to deal with! Understandable!

If you don't want to do this, just communicate, he doesn't dare, you take the initiative! Best wishes!

I think it's normal, you should break up a little bit, hehe, you deliberately approached, but it seems that there is some intention, time will calm everything, I think your ex-boyfriend is mainly to avoid suspicion.

You may feel guilty, it's better to talk about it, it's not okay to talk about it in person, you can communicate online again, talk to him about getting together and splitting up, and you can be friends when you break up.

I see, it depends on whether you have courage or not.

Finding time to talk to him no matter what, that's the most fundamental way to do it.

Tell him your determination, your opinion, your opinion ......

Ask him what he thinks in his heart, too.

You can't be a stranger, you know, some of you have been hurt, some of you have hurt someone, and you don't think a prisoner will be friends with the victim.

Forget it, don't force it. It's better not to do it even with friends.

It's normal to avoid you.

He felt ashamed, did he break up because someone else had it???

It takes time for a guy to really let go of a relationship. The length of this time is determined by the depth of the boy's relationship. The possible reasons why a man deliberately avoids after a breakup are as follows:

1. I like you a little, but I don't really love you and don't want to develop too fast. A man deliberately avoids you after an affair with you, if he just treats you like this in front of others, he is afraid that others will see that he likes you. In general, this is because he himself is not mentally prepared and does not want to accept you completely.

2. I don't like you at all, I'm afraid of being responsible for you. At the beginning, he was just bored with you and wanted to tease you and leave, but after the ambiguity, he had already gotten what he wanted, so it was over. Women think too much about themselves, but in fact, men don't want to have anything to do with you anymore.

When his ex-girlfriend teased him again, he was indifferent. This is the easiest and most straightforward way to check if a guy is really letting go. After many boys break up, they say and let go.

But the ex **, or a greeting, went again. The ex shows a little cute or pitiful behavior, and the boy feels distressed. This is a clear illusion about the ex, hoping to start over with duplicity.

And the boy who really lets go will not easily accept the invitation of his ex, even if he agrees to meet, he has something to say, and he will leave immediately if he has nothing to do. When they meet again, they will keep their distance, and they will be "indifferent" to the various "sultry" behaviors of girls. The ex-girlfriend who has been put down is just a person he once knew in the boy's heart, nothing more.

Summary. Oh, broke up and broke up, I probably think he also felt like he really broke up, and then the kind that shouldn't be.

If that's the case, then he really doesn't care about you very much, which means he really doesn't like you.

I feel like you need to, you don't need to answer.

After breaking up with his boyfriend, he will hide when he touches his hands.

And then your question was received.,After breaking up with your boyfriend, you will touch your hands after Pei Lu, I think it's a normal reaction to touch your hand paintings.,Because you have changed from a boyfriend and girlfriend to an ordinary person, he affirms that he treats you as an ordinary person, so Yinlu said, why did you break up?

It was I who broke up with him.

Oh, then why did you break up with him? Is it really that the two of you are not suitable?

It's that I think he doesn't care enough about me to break up with Xi Ying for more than a month He has time to come and meet me often and sit together But once in a while, he dodges that kind of thing.

Now I want to reconcile with him again.

But he didn't seem to mean that anymore.

Oh, broke up and broke up, I may think that he also felt that he really broke up, but if this is the case, then he really doesn't care about you, that is to say, he really doesn't like you and I feel that you are necessary, and you don't need to answer it.

In fact, if Liang Chi lead behaves like this, although the matter is very small, if you touch his hand, he will not let you touch it, there must be a reason, it must be respectful, he really does not have Danye in his heart.

If he really likes you, you say that you want to break up, and he will definitely not agree to it.

He told me at the time that he would change.

He also came to see me often at my place of work during the month.

He said he changed it, but he didn't like it, but it's not right, you're afraid that this change can't be changed, you like it, you don't like it, you don't like it.

After a breakup, they will choose to hide because they want to save the relationship. It doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl. They all hope that they can redeem each other, so that not only do they feel comfortable, but they will also gain the trust of the other party.

But the girl's thoughts were: "I'm not emotionless, I don't need the other person's help, I think I'm fine." So I chose to run away from this fact.

The boy is more selfish and doesn't want the girl to pay too much for him. So he chose to hide alone.

1. What is hiding?

Hiding is not without time, but without an object. It's not easy for a boy who doesn't have a partner after a breakup. Without an object, he is a weakling. All he needed was the company of one person. So he wants to say goodbye to you.

Second, the boys' evasion.

The boy may feel that the relationship is still likely to be salvageable, and he does not want to affect the other party's opinion of him because of his own redemption. So I won't go to each other again. This is also a kind of compromise.

In fact, in the boy's subconscious, he thinks that his own approach will make the girl feel uncomfortable. So he will choose to leave the other party's affairs behind.

3. The difference in thinking between men and women.

The difference in thinking between men and women is also the main reason why they choose to hide. Men and women will often use the phrase "I like you" to prevaricate their feelings in love. Girls like to be coquettish and will coax you well, so that the other party can let down their guard and be with you.

Guys will say "I like you". Girls will use "I don't love you" as an excuse not to let themselves be sad and sad. Boys will use "Do you still love me?"

and so on to prevaricate their emotions. It's also more selfish than boys. Because they feel that saying such things will only make the girl feel that there is no need to care about her feelings.

After a complete breakup between couples, there will definitely be a period of sadness between each other. But some men behave very decisively, and some men avoid everything related to you after breaking up, in fact, dodging after a breakup represents a lot of meaning, but it also best shows that this relationship between you can not go back!

Unless the psychological quality is super good, and the person who treats feelings is particularly open, they can accept the conclusion that they are still friends after the breakup, under normal circumstances, men and women are familiar strangers after the breakup! Judging from the performance of men in the face of broken love, there is a phenomenon of avoidance! The main reasons are as follows:

1. On the surface, it means that I don't want to have anything to do with you. Some men have their own stance on relationships, and he won't want to see his or her ex when he broke up again, and it will only be sad to see him again. Moreover, the evasion in this case is actually related to the reason for the breakup, it is likely that the girl split her legs, and this relationship has come to an end!

Therefore, it is the person who really doesn't want to see betrayed feelings, so he wants to hide.

2. He still loves you but can't afford to toss. Generally in this case, it is the girl who takes the initiative to break up, and the man has kept the sedan chair many times, but the ending is regrettable, and this man in order not to let himself see his brother and the other party will remember his love for her, so he would rather hide, and will not have any contact with you, generally speaking, such a man is still relatively innocent, but he has not met the right fate!

3. He was hurt too badly and had nothing to do with any feelings. Some men are psychologically fragile, such a man may be suitable for a love that does not break up, and some men will not be able to walk out for a long time after being hurt by love, in order to hide their pain, he will pretend to be fine, but he doesn't know how many broken petals in his heart. If you don't meet, you won't remember sad things, so he hides from you after the breakup.

The reader group friend asked after the storm when the rainbow was broken: I had a relationship with a boy, and then I figured it out and broke up with him. But when we meet, we always avoid each other, and my classmates talk about the two of us, I don't want to affect my studies because of this, what should I do?

Temporary emotional consultant Wen Mo answered: First of all, I want to give you a thumbs up for "thinking clearly" and "breaking up with him"! Some people say that early love is a tree that does not bear fruit planted with youth and tears, and this is not unreasonable.

You avoid each other, which means that you haven't let go of this matter in your hearts, so you don't have to hide, just get along like other classmates generously. As for the discussion of classmates, this is the price you have to bear for this impulsive emotion, since you have "thought clearly", you don't have to care too much about other people's eyes, I believe that time can wash everything!

The reader can't wipe away the tears and asks: What should I do if my mind is not focused on studying? How can I develop an interest in learning?

Advocate happy learning Zero Zero Qi answer: It can be seen that you have obvious aversion to learning, and you must often feel that learning is a chore! In fact, one of the best ways to learn is without pressure or compulsion, and interest is the biggest motivation for learning!

So, let's find a reason to support the reunion! To create an interest in learning, you can try the following:

1.Don't reinforce the psychology of "disgust" and divert attention. Think more about what I "like" learning.

2.Start with the simplest learning content, and after mastering it, continue to encourage yourself to "I can do it".

3.It is necessary to keep up with the students who are interested in learning, take the initiative to discuss with them, and ask for advice if they don't understand.

5.Don't lose your hobbies, learn to continue the joy of extracurricular learning!

The cookie baked by a netizen said: The school actually let me move the desk to the playground for the midterm exam, and the different grades were also seated in a disordered order, oh my God! Is this a world from another dimension?

Stunned Xiaomu: The school leader's idea is a bit big, so innovative and promising'How did the withered child come out of his brain? Is it forced by the dishonest behavior of many friends?

Children's shoes: "Let's take the test well, at least think about the teachers who send the rolls and collect them, what a tangled heart they use to send the rolls down one by one and then put them away!

When the teacher asks someone a question in class, as soon as I hear my name called, my heart beats faster, my feet tremble, I can't speak, and my face turns red. What am I going to do?

Wen Mo, who also "blushed and heartbeat", replied: You are too nervous and lack of exercise, you have to muster up the courage to overcome yourself. Communicate more with others, speak more in public, and stand up more in class to ask questions, so as to exercise yourself.

Also, you have to work hard to build self-confidence that you will do better and better each time.

Personally, I also think that if you can't be a couple, then you can't be friends, which is also responsible for yourself and each other. As for why she keeps avoiding you, I think there are several reasons:

R1, is to break up, it may be that you brought it up, and now he still has you in his heart, if he is with you, he will always unconsciously think of the bits and pieces of your together, which will make it difficult for him to forget you.

2. Since you have broken up, you should divide it thoroughly, you should not break the thread, and you should not contact again, because this relationship is very unfair to the development of new feelings in the future.

What's the point of thinking about that? Remember a sentence, if two people break up, remember to cut off all contact, in reality, there is no good result in the end, and if you don't get it right, a criminal case will have to happen in the end, in short, you just remember that two people must be separated completely, and the last two people have no good results.