The career relationship is very confused, please advise? What am I going to do?

Friend, there is a great man who once said that only death cannot be changed, and everything else can be changed. I understand your predicament right now, but you have to learn to be strong. You should leave that woman decisively now, since she is good with you and at the same time with that man, it shows that she is not faithful to you, and such a woman must give up in heartache.

Because she has betrayed the most basic rules of love. There is a good saying, no matter how hard and tired you are, you must be strong.

As you said, a man must have a career, no woman will want to live a hard life with you, so you must learn a skill, when you have a small achievement in your career, a good woman will naturally come back, and when you are busy with your career, your pain will be reduced!!

Give up decisively, want to open up, grasp your own career, such a person is not worthy of your love.

Such a woman can't want to be both of you men now ... You can find a better one.

You still want such a woman, let him go, tell him directly. What the hell?

If she's like that, it's not worth it, think about it.

Brother Ren, I think a man should still focus on his career, since she has given up on you, you should also reflect on it, is she worth paying too much for you? If it's worth it, you shouldn't hesitate, and if it's not, you should let it go.

Men should focus on their careers, and their youth should not be delayed.

Career first and then feelings, if feelings are involved first, the career will fail.

Now that you have given up, and now you are emotionally hurt, I personally think that you should start your new life and new job now, time will decide many things, to be exact, time will help you choose!

Have you ever thought about it, does she really love you? If she loves you, why should she be with someone else? Even if her family doesn't agree with you being together, I'm sure the elders will agree through the joint efforts of the two!

Actually, career and relationship are the same (I think)! If we take good care of them, what is given back to us must be the best.

If the earth is missing, everyone will turn

Let's work hard first, if you have a good job, you will naturally meet good girls in the future.

I've been like this for a while. It's best to relax and rest for a while, organize your thoughts, what you really want, and what you can do. Try to get in touch with new things, and you'll get used to it.

The most important thing is the mentality. You can communicate more with friends and relatives.

Don't do much, at least know what direction it is, catering? Clothing? Internet?

Determine the direction, experience or something can't wait, try one day later, you will experience one day later, have a direction and a goal to do it directly, calm down the analysis, try it first, learn while doing! Time waits for no one, work harder, try more! Share!

Personally, if you feel lost and have no direction, it is recommended not to do the project by yourself first, after all, it is not clear what you want to do. I am a person who failed twice in entrepreneurship, resigned and wanted to do my own business, I know more clearly that I know what I want to do before I do it, but I don't have enough experience, the idea is too simple, and the impulsive one starts, and the result ends in failure! So, figure out what you want to do, how to do it, and then do it!

You can go to the stall at night and experience it first! In many cases, only after trying it yourself, can you have an experience, toss for a year or two, in these years, you can not make money, but you must accumulate experience and network resources, whether you are going to work or starting a business in the later stage, it will be very helpful to you! Besides, maybe you'll succeed in a long time!

Brother, I'm from here! I would say first diligence; Second Learning;Third thought.

People can get lost at any time! But you have to know what you want? Make a long-term plan for yourself!

As long as you make a little progress every day, God rewards you for your diligence, and you will find yourself very good!

Then no matter how calm and calm you are, you have to start a business without thinking about what to do, isn't that a fantasy? When you are still confused, do your work steadfastly, do something practical, and enrich your experience. Always be ready to start a business, constantly explore the direction of entrepreneurship, and accumulate the necessary resources (money and people) for entrepreneurship, one day you will really embark on the road of entrepreneurship, and the probability of entrepreneurial success will also increase.

Think about it first, what are you confused about? Most people's confusion comes from the unclear goal, uncertainty about the future, and lack of certainty, so what is your confusion, if you don't find your own problems, and don't solve your problems, then it is likely that even if you start a business, you are still confused. Because you also have no purpose.

If you already have a project you want to do, but you have no experience, it is best to put down your intention to start a business first, work or study in a related field first, in order to learn some relevant knowledge, and then start a business after you are fully familiar with the way.

After all, sharpening knives is not a mistake for woodcutters, and it is much more difficult to start a business than to chop wood. Sometimes your ideas are too simplistic, but once you actually put it into practice, you will know how difficult it is.

From quitting your job and choosing to sell, you're halfway to success because you've chosen the path closest to success.

1. I didn't make any money in the first 7 years of my job after graduating from college, including being an executive of the company. But in the eighth year, in one year, I earned the sum of all the previous ones.

2. Later, I understood that this is a geometric development.

That is, when your accumulation is reached, your ability is reached, and the money is naturally earned. The so-called age, education, major, resources, opportunities, personality, etc., are all auxiliary factors, not the key to decision.

3. Introverted and extroverted, there is no half-dime relationship with sales, everyone is suitable for sales, but few people tap their own methods and potential, so there are not many people who feel suitable.

4. Continue to do sales, that is the closest road to wealth. However, you need to study a lot to improve your professional skills; b. Take a lot of action and find the method that suits you in the process; c. Act fast to accelerate opportunities; dSelf-reflection, which is the fastest way to improve you; e Enjoy it all.

When you work hard, everything will come naturally, believe in this saying. Because, I verified it.

Confused Definition:

Under the pressure of growth and development, individuals or organizations lack information and cognition of themselves and the outside world due to the objective "being in it", and eventually produce phenomena such as disorientation, disordered thinking, negative attitude, and weakened ability.

Overview of confusion: The external causes of personal confusion are generally the acceleration of social rhythm, increased survival pressure, career changes, changes in the family, and the influence of others.

The internal causes of personal confusion are generally immature and non-independent personal ideological system, vague values, personality weaknesses, lack or weakness of ability, insufficient scope and depth of cognition, etc.;

The biggest cost of personal confusion is time, which will cause negative development of personality, easy imbalance of mentality, easy differentiation of emotions, and unstable ability in the state of confusion;

Personal confusion will definitely affect work results, life experience, family relationships, physical and mental health, etc., and even deviate from the correct direction of life, and then lose oneself;

If you rely on yourself to get out of the confusion, the time is uncertain, the material expenses are uncontrollable, and the mental pressure is unbearable.

When you feel uncertain about your career future, please do this, and the future will be smoother and smoother!

Different partners, at different stages of career development, will encounter different confusion.

When you are confused, follow the following steps, and you may have unexpected gains:

1. Adjust your frequency status;

When people are happy, they act completely differently than when they are unhappy. Moreover, it will also affect the people around you).

2. After adjusting the frequency state, choose the next action plan from a positive perspective and take action;

3. To give yourself the result of your actions, you must let go of the obsession that the result must happen in the way you expect;

The reason why we recommend the above method is that some things happen randomly.

Therefore, you just need to work hard with enthusiasm, accept all possibilities with gratitude, and interpret the outcome of the event with a positive attitude and perspective.

Here are a few examples.

a When looking for a job, sometimes, even if you meet all the recruitment needs of the target position, but there is no opportunity for an interview, does that mean that you are not good?

Of course not, the timing has not yet arrived.

b When you meet your favorite person, no matter how active you are, others will ignore you, does it mean that you are not good enough?

Of course not, the timing has not yet arrived.

c When you do what you like, sometimes even if you try hard, you can't achieve the results you expect, does it mean that you are not good enough?

Of course not, the timing has not yet arrived. Moreover, the opportunities and goals you set will also become your limits to some extent.

Through the above examples, it is not difficult to find that no matter what we do, practice is the most important thing. Because, preconceived ideas are useless, and what is summed up through one's own practice is the most suitable for oneself.

As a result, it is also far away from the crowd and going with the flow.

Finally, a paragraph to summarize today's content.

Adjust yourself to overcome preconceived anxieties and fears. Follow your own enthusiasm to practice, even if you summarize and adjust your career development direction in practice (if you don't need to adjust, continue to stick to it).

Accept all possibilities with gratitude and interpret the outcome of things with a positive and positive attitude. 」

Reading some useless books, doing some useless things, and spending some useless time are all in order to reserve a chance to surpass yourself beyond everything you know. Some of the most remarkable changes in life come from these moments.

Don't look back at the past in anger or look to the future in fear, but savor the present in a clear mind.

If you really want to do something, you'll do whatever it takes, even if it's a hindrance. But if you don't really want to accomplish something, then you will do whatever it takes to stop yourself, even if the road ahead is smooth.

Human life cannot be measured by the length of time, when the heart is full of love, the moment is eternal.

When you are confused in your career, you should first calm your mind, and then think back on the process you have gone through in your career, and find out the root cause of your own confusion, whether it is your own problem or external factors? Knowing the reason, the next thing is to try to put yourself in the right frame of mind and change your previous work mentality, because changing your mindset can help you change your current state. If a person has a good attitude, he can make you advance and retreat freely and leisurely.

What kind of mentality a person has, what kind of outlook on life and values, and what kind of lifestyle he will have. The key to a person's success in his career also lies in his mentality, which controls a person's actions and the logic of his thinking. The difference between success and failure also lies in the mentality, the successful person always controls the steering wheel of their life with a positive attitude, optimistic spirit and unremitting efforts, and a good attitude helps them create the glory and achievements of their career.

Therefore, no matter what a person does, he needs to have a good attitude, which is a prerequisite for success, people with a good attitude are calm, have a positive attitude, and start to do things steadily and confidently, and confident and stable people are of course easier to succeed. Because mentality is the ...... of our own true masters

If you want to do sales, age is not a problem, and I used to do that.

Having your own place to set up your own stall is the biggest advantage.

Let me tell you a special one: 1. Go to the major stores to see if there is any possibility that you can buy cheaper goods for them, then you can talk about business at that time.

2.Think more about what you want to do in terms of sales, what level you want to achieve, and what are the specific standards for that level? What should you have in order to meet those standards? How can you have it? What should you do at the moment?

Have you ever heard of the subconscious**? It will be of great help to find some subconscious thoughts about success on the Internet and listen to them every day. And go find some success stories borrowed from the subconscious. Also, be a down-to-earth person.

When you are confused in your career, you should calm down and think about it, set a position for yourself, and set a goal.

I believe that each of us will have times when we are lost, and there will be different confusion at different stages of life. Often the goal is the brightest when you are confused.