About Love and Marriage 5, About Love and Marriage

For long-term consideration, I still hope that you can choose the one that both parents like, because love is not actually a matter of two people, and for the sake of "true love" regardless of the opposition of all parties will lay hidden dangers for the future, and sometimes true love will become wrong love because of some objective conditions and reasons.

If you're going to rely on the family, listen to the family. If you can call the shots, make your own decisions!

Choose the one you like, of course. Don't you like to have love?

Your current girlfriend, of course.

I believe that parents will not harm their children, and in these matters, parents have a better vision than children.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, and with the following 4 points of love, you can enter into marriage.

01, find a comfortable way to get along and love each other.

There are no two people in this world who are completely compatible, only two hearts that become more and more firm and tacit in the continuous running-in. After being together for a long time, in fact, each other will understand some of each other's small habits and emotions, and they are willing to understand each other and cherish each other under the premise of respect, which is a very balanced state of getting along. A good relationship is that one plus one is greater than two.

This kind of warmth will at least make you feel comfortable.

02, sufficient and stable emotional foundation, sincere and stable.

Thinking and empathizing.

In the rule that adults like to weigh the pros and cons when they encounter problems, love really can.

Dissolve a lot of bad things.

I'm talking about love, love,

Marriage is not just two people, there are two families behind it, for the future.

For a better life, the choice also needs to be cautious.

So, the emotional foundation is really important.

And the measure of this is actually very simple, your peace of mind, you.

The rest assured that your sense of security is the answer.

Only with a marriage based on love can it be possible to hold the hand of the son and grow old together.

03. Have a similar view of marriage and abide by the spirit of the contract.

Marriage itself is a spirit of contract, but each person is an individual.

body, have independent thoughts and feelings, the perception of the contract is different, and the bottom line of the contract is different.

If the standards of loyalty between two people are similar, at least there will not be much difference in the emotional outlook, but if one party expects the other party to be 100% loyal, and the other party only restricts himself by 30%, it is still difficult to be satisfied after all.

Respect each other, tolerate each other, and cultivate tacit understanding on this basis, so that love can be more comfortable.

04, with the point of continuing to attract each other, never get tired of it for a long time.

The momentary thrill of hormones is a process of subtraction, but it is constantly falling in love.

The other party needs time to witness this constant addition.

Process. Sometimes, it's better to think about you than whether the other person still loves you.

Have you been becoming a better version of yourself?

No matter who you choose to marry, you should never stop changing yourself in the first place.

Good. In addition, what we call freshness is not to change one person after another.

To repeat the same experience, but to experience and discover with the same person.

A different life.

People are constantly changing, but it is better to keep loving each other than to keep choosing.

Choose better, and hopefully you can always be attracted to each other. Good love is to put each other in your heart, you will quarrel, and you will be firm until you are old.

The difference between the two between being in love and getting married:

1.To put it simply, the biggest difference between love and marriage is that one needs to pay attention to responsibility, one does not need responsibility, love is a process of getting along with each other, if everyone feels that it is not suitable, they can break up at any time if they don't get along, and they don't have to be responsible or think about too many things and concerns!

2.And marriage means a kind of responsibility, but also a kind of adult game, many things will have a certain amount of restraint behavior, if you want to break up, you have to divorce, it is not as neat and chic as when you are in love, there are many things to consider, you must take into account your own fame and the eyes of relatives and friends, as well as the feelings of both parents, and some also involve financial balance imitation and child raising and so on, so getting married will no longer be as simple as when you are in love!

3.Love is a process of giving and pleasing each other, it is a process that needs to move each other with heart, and after getting married together, for some people, sometimes it will be a kind of mutual difficulty, mutual demands and accusations, etc., and it is also a time when you can expose your shortcomings more, of course, everything is different from person to person, according to each person's personality and temperament, etc.

In the end, in general, love and marriage are also love, but the real difference may be that one is to please each other, mainly to get along, and the other is to get along with each other after marriage.

Therefore, when you fall in love, you should learn more about each other and dig out some of the shortcomings and characteristics of the other party, to see if you are really suitable for yourself, so that after a clear discovery and understanding, getting married will also reduce a lot of contradictions, so that you can get along with each other better, and the relationship can be more intimate and happier!