I annoy my stepdad and annoy my stepdad s son even more

Living in such an environment, I really wronged the landlord. I want to have a warm home, I want to be cared for and loved by my family, but what the landlord gets is the opposite of hope, the real environment is cruel to the landlord, and I believe it will be difficult to bear such pain if you are someone else. But for such a problem, I think the landlord should find an elder or friend who can be trusted to talk to him, maybe they can give you good advice.

Or you can go to a counselor for a consultation, or you can be a school counselor. Posting this kind of question on the Internet, it can be seen that the landlord wants to get rid of this trouble, but I personally think that the effect may not be very large, because this is a problem involving personal privacy, so that everyone knows that it is not very good, so it is recommended that the landlord find a person who can be trusted to talk in depth, this person must be able to help you, at least to help you keep it confidential.

Brother endure a little later, after graduation, come out and break through on your own, just avoid them, he will treat you like this, you will have a future Let them see.

Don't care too much about what they think, just work on your own.

It's annoying, but you have to firmly believe that one day you will leave them, you have nothing to do with them, you just have to think about yourself. Don't sacrifice yourself too much and stand out of this circle.

Hehe, actually, the human heart is made of meat.

If you have to pay, you will definitely be rewarded, for your mother, try to accept them, they will see your changes, and they will naturally get along with you.

Not what you want? Then you must pay, and there is no return if you don't pay.

Learn to adapt to the environment, study hard to lay a good foundation for your future, look at people, and you can't divide the good and bad by grades and fights, the key is to see if the heart is bad or not, be more tolerant, and be more happy.

Adjust the mentality, if it's really bad then k him.

Your mom found a hooligan to come back and be your stepfather, too

Sometimes you can't help yourself, if you really hate him, try to get yourself out of this house, so that you have the ability to be independent, so that you can be out of sight.

At that time, your parents were not in marriage, so they would divorce, and later, your mother found you a stepfather, and the stepfather would definitely not treat you as well as his biological father, so you especially hated being with your stepfather. Because he is always very fierce to you, and he will beat you with his hands, which is a deep hurt to you, don't you want to be beaten like this, because you have grown up and are also a dignified person, not to mention that he is still your stepfather, and he is not qualified to beat you and scold you at all, so you will feel very wronged, and then you hate him very much, although you hate him, but you are powerless to resist, so now you can only swallow your anger. The more he hates him, the more he gets worse, and in the end it's you who suffers.

Don't rest on your laurels, because you understand that even if you complain to your mother, she will argue like your mother and bite you back, which is not advisable at all. If you want to not be with your annoying stepfather, you have to work hard to make yourself money, and when you make enough money, you can move out. Just come back once in a while to see your mother, and if you try hard enough, you can definitely live separately from them, because you don't want to see your annoying stepfather again.

If you didn't have him, your childhood life wouldn't have been so shadowy, and if you didn't have him, you wouldn't be afraid of domestic violence and being scolded. Because he is so fierce to you, they all say that a strict father is a filial son, but he is not your own father, and he always loses his temper with you and beats you for no reason, which is particularly bitter and miserable for you, so if you want to break free, if you have his world, let yourself get out of this home as soon as possible.

So if you really hate your stepfather, you must try to keep yourself away from his world.

Everyone wants their family to be complete, but nowadays, the divorce rate in society is too high, and many people will want to divorce, especially young people, even if they have children. Divorce is because it is not suitable and wants to find new happiness, so many people will remarry. However, many children whose parents are divorced will hate their parents for remarrying the other half, because they will feel that it is because of that person that their parents will divorce, and they all think that they are "juniors".

So, it's understandable that you hate your stepdad so much, because maybe you can't accept him yet. But don't beat him to death with a stick in the first place, thinking that he is definitely not a good father, and he will definitely not be really good to you. You haven't really touched him yet, so how do you know his sincerity?

Maybe your stepfather loves you more than your own father, and that's not surprising. After all, he can accept that you and your mother are married, so he is also mentally prepared and wants to treat you well. So, I think you can suppress your hatred of your stepdad and get closer to him.

If he is genuinely good to you, then why can't you accept it? Isn't it good that there is one more person who loves you like this?

And it's not because of your stepfather that your parents will get divorced, even if it's because of your stepfather, then it's because your parents are not suitable for each other, so they will divorce, and you can't let your mother never marry again for the rest of your life, it's too unfair for your mother. You don't like having a stepfather, but won't your dad remarry? Won't you find a stepmom?

So, try to accept your stepfather.

If your stepdad is nice to you, and he is also a very good person, then you should try to accept him, talk to him more, and find out the shining points in him.

Then you have to think quietly about why you hate him. Is it because of him as a person that you don't like? Or do you dislike him because of his identity as a "stepfather"?

If it's the former, you don't need to get close to him, just keep your distance from him. If it's the latter, you have to take care of your mother's feelings and try your best to accept him.

If he is still very good to you, you should slowly adjust your mentality and accept this new life.

Directly lost my own dad, especially annoying. My mother thinks I'm targeting him all day long, but she is blind and doesn't see anything bad about him. Untrustworthy, uncertain, temperamental, lazy and not working, inconsiderate of her, knowing that I don't like things and deliberately disgusting me, has been forcibly teasing my children, talking behind my back, blowing pillows, and hurting me...

Originally, the stepmother didn't do it so well. If you really can't get by, it's not impossible to leave. If you still want to go on, you have to change your attitude a little, communicate more with your husband, and don't always use such a single method of scolding when children do wrong things.

Let's go!

The stepmother is not good, and the two sides are not human. As long as you can support yourself, why rely on men!

If you want to find a good person, just watch it, or post an opinion to listen to what your current and current son say, after all, you are a stepmother, you can leave if you want, don't force yourself, make a miasma, and don't treat yourself well.

May I ask what kind of wrong thing does it mean to do something wrong, and besides, what does it have to do with his father when you two quarrel, hey, I feel that his father is not reasonable, and your father should educate his son when you quarrel, let alone do it right.

That's not it, there is always a reason for the beginning of a relationship! Let's be considerate of each other! It's normal for a dad to give to his son, what if no one asks you to let his son, do you have to let him accommodate the adult?

You don't have any big problems, care more about your son, and solve it when you raise your own son!

Turning a blind eye to it, it doesn't matter to you that you don't care about it.

First of all, correct your mentality, "have a family meeting" and then watch them make a statement! Trivia at home. It's really annoying, and my family often has conflicts! Don't make decisions when you're angry, you should be calm!

Two paths: 1 to leave 2 to change yourself. Take your pick!

Change the way you get along and deal with things differently, it will be fine, and you shouldn't leave.

It's time to leave, and it will be more and more uncomfortable in the future.

How old are you? If you're worried about it, you're a person who cares about the consequences. It's better to walk away and let each other have a calm space. After dissipating the anger, communicate well, and agree with each other to treat the problem calmly in the future, to think about others, and not to make it difficult for adults.

Ignore him and concentrate on your own business.

Keep yourself this way and let him know that you're good and not something to mess with.