I can t get my girlfriend back when I fall out of love, I love her very much, how can I let go?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Brother, I'm in a similar situation to you, which feeling I have also suffered, I didn't sleep well and eat well in March, life is better than death! Right? No matter what others said, it was more comfortable to listen to at the time, but it was sluggish soon after!

    I can also see that you are worthy of this love, you have redeemed it, no regrets, no big deal! If you haven't given up yet, try to get your mutual friend to use a little trick to ask her out, and you can talk to her sensibly, and if it doesn't work, give up! Go back to your own life trajectory, feelings are feelings, don't affect your life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I simmer it slowly, and I continue to show favor without being impatient!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you don't have a chance, why torture yourself. When you're in pain, have you ever wondered what she's doing?

    You're really cowardly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Find another one, and then there's why is that one with you? I don't like you, I'm dizzy, I don't like you, how did we get together in the first place? Brother, learn a lesson.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Brother: I'm going through the same thing as you.

    But the truth tells me that this is a tragic result, and if you invest all your good years in women, you will become nothing!

    So, people are not grass and trees, who can be ruthless, and I can understand this state.

    But at the same time, you have to remember that men are not only in this world, love is just an episode in life.

    After you've worked hard to make a career, what kind of woman doesn't?

    Also, there is no such thing as a real life in this world, don't take women too seriously.

    Remember Brother's words.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My current situation also makes me depressed, because I don't trust her to leave, I don't know what to think, ** is also turned off, and I have to have a chance to redeem it during the New Year, and I dare not think about the opportunity....If you can't let go of your affairs, you can try harder, and if it doesn't work, you can find another one. I won't anyway, I'll keep waiting, because I only love her as a woman....

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I was also facing this question, and I was asking for an answer, but she suddenly ignored me and told me what Prozac is. Is there any pain?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Brother: Let's let it go, let it pass in the past, memories are also hurtful in the United States, this is just the beginning for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Once the mouth of the breakup is spoken, there is no way to get it back. It's true.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe! Study hard! Maybe something happened to her!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Brother can feel it, now I want to die, forget it! It's true.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Uh, it's a little long, hehe, but I really hope you're okay.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    They are all like-minded people. The two of us are in a similar situation, and it's useless for me to be at my lover's house now. People don't love you, there's no way to have unrequited love. Since she doesn't love you, there's nothing she can do. If you persist, work hard.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I understand your feelings, it's hard to fall in love with someone and it's even harder to give up someone, I know that many times, you want to forget her, but you find that she occupies too important a place in your heart, right? How do you start your next relationship? Try to forget her and wish you happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The beginning of the next relationship is the end of your relationship. Try to forget.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Brother, your current state is not called love, it is called a crush, such a person can't be recovered, let it go as soon as possible.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In a word, start a new relationship. Listen to me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Fake breakup:

    1.When they broke up, the other party was emotionally intense and complained about a lot of unpleasantness in the past.

    2.After the breakup, you see traces of yourself in the other person's social networks.

    3.After the breakup, the messages you sent were still replied to in a timely manner.

    4.After the breakup, the other person's friends still maintain a good relationship with you.

    Really broke up:

    1.When breaking up, the other party is emotionally stable and no longer dwells on the past.

    2.After the breakup, there is no circle to block you, but you can no longer see each other's circle of friends.

    3.After the breakup, all the messages you send have not been read back.

    4.Blocked all contact information.

    5.The other person's friend is very cold to you.

    How to deal with a "fake breakup".

    1.Reinvent yourself: Try to overcome your shortcomings, e.g. if you are too dependent, then try to arrange a trip for yourself.

    2.Inner Cultivation: When you can't control your desire to connect, call a good friend, cultivate your interests, and try to experience life without each other.

    3.Attract again: When you appear in front of the opponent's reputation, let the other party see your own growth, and let the other party have a different opinion of you.

    How to deal with a "real breakup".

    1.Break off contact: The other party is extremely disappointed in you, the more you contact the other party, the more disgusted you are, you want to leave even a little good impression, and disappearing completely is the best choice.

    2.Control your emotions: Record all your negative emotions and learn to educate yourself.

    3.Don't bother: Don't look at the other party's dynamics, your reluctance will make the other party more despised.

    4.Live yourself: Love life without each other, and return to the happy life before you met each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find a way to sincerely redeem it, if the other party does not agree, it proves that he doesn't love you, he can only choose to let go, the face family slips on the cruel reality, it is normal to fall in love and fall out of love, and you have to learn to bear it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Should you redeem or let go, it's up to you to take a tour, you should listen to your inner voice, whether you still love each other, if it's due to impulsiveness or anger, and decide to break up, then it's not advisable, stupid pickpocketing is a short life, and it's not easy to meet someone you like.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's up to you! Follow your heart and make the right choice! If you think it's worth redeeming, you can try it, and don't let yourself leave too many regrets.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If I still can't let go of my heart and still likes it, I'll try to keep it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1. Increase the sense of mystery A woman breaks up, indicating that you are no longer attractive to him. At this time, we should immediately stop pestering each other. At the same time, you have to pull out of it, disappear into her world, and make it feel like she has come to naught.

    In this way, contact them after a period of time, this feeling of imminence will make them feel that you are full of mystery, and their interest in you will gradually increase, as long as you master the rhythm, it is not difficult to redeem them from online dating. 2. The best time to try to be friends with the other person again is generally 21 days. You have been disconnected for more than a month, you can go to the reunion, if you don't keep in touch, the other party's feelings for you will be weaker.

    And it's easy to be taken advantage of by others. Don't be afraid of being rejected, the Avengers are actually very simple, just find another reason to let them let you go, you can't even find a reason for the Avengers, so how can you get them back?3. Restore contact When your ** value returns, you will have enough strength and capital to pull you back to the same level.

    Then, at this stage, you can get in touch with them or create an encounter that allows them to feel the change in you and feel your charm. When it comes to contact here, it is better to establish a chance encounter, because women actually like the feeling of swimming and love the word fate. If they feel your charm by chance, then they probably believe that it is providence that has brought you back together.

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