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Many people are thinking about divorce when they get divorced, what to do with their children? So should you remarry your children? I think the premise of remarriage is whether the problems you encountered in the previous divorce have been solved or have a relatively good way to deal with them, which is the premise of remarriage.
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If it were me, I would quietly think about what kind of life makes me want. Is it that he struggles together to make himself happy? If it's pain, can you accept it?
Can remarriage give the child happiness or more pain? Based on what you know about your ex-husband, will he change? Is that his nature or a moment of confusion, (as the saying goes, the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change.)
If he doesn't change, can you accept it? If you know all of the above questions, maybe this decision will not be so difficult.
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You can test his thoughts and believe that there is no child who wants his parents to spend the quarrel and wants his parents to be happy. He may be because he owes so much debt, thinking that only you can rely on, he will come back to you, don't accept him, do you accept him, see him will not think of his betrayal of you, will not be heartbroken, he will have a second time if he has the first time!
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Good horses don't eat back grass. Don't be that kind of man, don't wronged yourself, find a man of your own, the man who loves you will definitely love your children. Women should consider themselves noble, don't let men think that he doesn't want you if he doesn't want you, and you will definitely come back when he wants you.
There are more men in the world, and I don't believe that I can't find a person who really loves me, you say yes.
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If the child is happy by your side, don't go back and let him get hurt again.
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I always think that children are the most important thing.
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People always live for themselves, and children will understand when they are older.
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If I had children, I would consider remarrying for the sake of them. In my opinion, marriage is the foundation of family relations. Every child has the right to the care and love of both parents.
Therefore, remarriage helps to ensure that the children have an effective family relationship, which in turn contributes to their development. In addition, I believe that after remarriage, both parents can spend more time taking care of their children, so as to give more care and love to their children, which will help them grow up healthily.
In addition, repetition of spring marriage can also help children to obtain more resources. When parents have a good family relationship, parents can work together to provide their children with more filial piety resources, such as learning resources, opportunities for social participation, etc. These resources help children develop better and are able to prepare them for the future.
Therefore, for the sake of the needs of the child, I would consider remarrying for the sake of the child. I believe that when there is a good family relationship between parents, children will receive more love and resources for better development.
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If it was really for the sake of the children, I would not have divorced in the first place, in fact, it was for the sake of "reality".
Let's talk about my good sisters, she is indeed thinking about whether to remarry for the sake of the child, but in fact, the man's family is not remarried for the sake of the child, but for the sake of "reality". Because, the real problem is that the man doesn't care about the child and can't take care of the child, and the old man can't take care of the child when he is old, so he wants to find someone to take care of the child, but he doesn't want to give the child to the mother, so he can only beg the woman to remarry.
In real life, there are a lot of such things. In fact, if it was really for the sake of the children, I would not have divorced in the first place. When a couple divorces, the first thing to consider is their own feelings, followed by the growth and education of the children, so the divorce can be successful.
Later, the two parties found that after the divorce, it was too difficult for one party to live with the children of Nian Sakura, and they would eventually remarry.
I didn't know the blessing in the blessing before, and after the divorce, I found that the "original match" was the best.
In fact, in marriage, many people are in the midst of happiness and do not know the blessings, otherwise how can there be men and women who always think that other people's wives and husbands are good? However, after a real divorce, you will find that other people's good is "on the surface", because they are not familiar with each other, and no one wants to expose the bad side to outsiders. Therefore, those who look for it after the divorce will find that the "original match" is the best in the end, and then they will remarry.
Of course, we can't say that we don't think about the children of both sides at all. You must know that in a restructured family, although the new spouse is not evil, if we want them to treat their children with sincerity, then we have to pay a lot ourselves. Moreover, after all, there is no blood relationship, no matter how good a newcomer is, it is not as good as the child's biological parents to sing the children's songs.
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If it were possible, I think the vast majority of parents would choose to remarry for the sake of their children. This may not be such a real experience when you don't have children, but once you become a father or a mother, you will feel that all your energy, all your time, and even all your expectations are on your children, and you feel that it is worth it to give up everything for the sake of your children.
First of all, children are the crystallization of the love of two people, and they are also a kind of inheritance of life. Children are the hearts and minds of their parents, and they are the bond between two people. As long as they can make their children good, they will not care whether they are happy or not.
This is also the reason why many couples do not divorce for the sake of their children. They are sacrificing their own happiness to fulfill their children, so that children can enjoy complete fatherly and maternal love, and give children a complete home.
Secondly, children are the common goal of both husband and wife. Although there will be many differences between the two people, for the sake of their children, they will also abandon all grievances and estrangements. Guarding his children wholeheartedly.
Because the family with divorced parents will indeed bring some harm to the children, and some will even affect the children's lives. If the child is living well, the parents will feel better and bless the child's bad life, then the parents will have a sense of guilt and feel sorry for their child. Because of this, they live together again for the sake of the children.
Third, sometimes two people remarry, precisely because the children are matched. Because children definitely want their parents to be happy to live with them. So when the parents divorce, the children are not used to this kind of life.
He tried his best to persuade his parents to be filial piety, express his wishes, and tell them that he wanted to live with his parents. Therefore, in order to realize this wish of the child, they chose to remarry and accompany the child to grow up together.
However, I think that if two people really can't get together, there is no need to choose to remarry for the sake of children. As long as two people are really good to their children, they can choose their own lives, life is very short, and while thinking about their children, they should also think about their own happy life.
Hello, if it is for the sake of the child, of course, it is better to remarry and let the child have a complete family. If it is for personal happiness, it is recommended not to remarry, as you said, now that you have a new boyfriend and a new life, of course, it is not the same as before.
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