My husband is gone. Why does it feel like this, my husband is gone, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-27
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    That's because you, like me, have never tasted a broken love. If you go through it a few more times, you can be immune. It's all like this, and after a while it will be fine, find more friends to get together, and do something that will make you happy.

    Think about whether there are more important things that you have overlooked, and think about the things that you once gave up for your husband, and now you can pick them up again, enrich yourself, and make your life more exciting. Find yourself sooner.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's all the same, my wife is also home and doesn't want to do anything, is there anything wrong with relying on my husband? Prove that you love him dearly. Let your husband know how much you miss him. Come back and let him make it up to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Is he on a business trip or are you divorced?

    I think two people will form a habit after living together for a long time, and after he leaves, you just can't change the original habit for a while. It takes time to form habits, and it certainly takes time to change habits. So give yourself some time, there's nothing more magical than time, hehe.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You must believe in yourself, you will live well without him, and there will be a new life waiting for you. Be strong! Prove to him that I am better off without you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Gone, where have you gone? Walking alone? Or did you go with another woman? If you go with another woman, then just leave. If you go alone, you may go out for a walk, and you will come back in a few days, rest assured.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you know what it's like to forget someone?

    It's like appreciating a brutal beauty.

    And then in a very small voice.

    Tell yourself to be strong and face it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When faced with the departure of your husband, you must first allow yourself to feel and express emotions, including sadness, loss, and anger. Then, you need to gradually adjust your mindset and take a positive attitude towards your new life.

    Seek support: Communicating with family, friends, or a counsellor is important at this time. They can provide emotional support and advice to help you get through it.

    Stay healthy: It's important to take care of your physical and mental health. Proper exercise, a balanced diet and a good night's sleep can all help reduce emotional stress.

    Reorient your life: Find a new direction in life that suits you, try to learn new skills, participate in social activities, pursue personal hobbies, etc., and enrich your life. Accompaniment.

    Embracing change: While parting is painful, it is also an inevitable part of life. Learn to embrace change and look for new opportunities and possibilities.

    Stay optimistic: No matter what kind of adversity you face, it's important to stay optimistic. Believe in your ability to get through the storm and actively seek solutions to your problems.

    Most importantly, don't isolate yourself, be brave enough to face reality, ask for help and support, and believe that a better life awaits you in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. Give yourself a reprieve period.

    Stay-at-home mothers, as the name suggests, rely on their husbands as the economy, so losing their husbands is equivalent to losing their pillars.

    And if you are defenseless, then there will be two situations:

    The first type, a full-time wife, usually learns some skills at home, has a certain amount of work experience, and has the ability to earn money, but she is relatively backward because she is a full-time wife who is ruined for being a full-time wife.

    However, because of the accumulation of work experience, after the death of her husband, she will return to work relatively quickly. For example, Gree's Dong Mingzhu, the founder of Lao Gan Ma, is more rational and has a strong heart.

    The second type, which is more terrifying, becomes a full-time wife just after graduation, does not pay attention to industry trends, does not learn to communicate, takes the initiative to close herself, and devotes all her energy to the diet and daily life of her children and husband.

    And without the experience and consciousness to earn money, the sudden death of her husband will definitely hurt herself, both mentally and materially.

    Such stay-at-home wives are used to staying in their comfort zone and have a hard time adjusting to life without their husbands. Therefore, they will need a period of reprie, but it will also be difficult to get out of it.

    Step 2. Mindset building, accept the facts.

    We will all be grieved by the loss of our loved ones.

    But everything in the world has a new life and death at every moment.

    A person is lonely in the face of the world, and a couple with a good relationship, one is gone, and the other will end up depressed.

    But if there is a child, the woman will generally be a mother and a mother, and live for the child.

    Everyone is an individual, and there is no need for us to force it to stay.

    Just like our children, one day they will break free from our arms and run towards his ideal blue sky.

    This world is not transferred by human will, many things are actually not controlled by us, we can only cherish everything we have now, and we will not regret it in the future.

    If you think about it, in addition to my husband, there are many relatives and friends around us who silently support us, and we are not alone.

    Step 3. Overcome adversity and be born again.

    Your husband is gone, but your life is going on.

    You will bring his will and thoughts to teach your child the truth, life and death are only forms of human existence, the important thing is that he has brought you beauty and influence that you have never encountered.

    So, when we've cried enough, we should go for a walk, walk around, and communicate with different people.

    You will grow up little by little, and the growth of people is accompanied by loss.

    Bravely coming out of the predicament is the first step to rebirth.

    Then, whether you are looking for a job or life, don't close yourself, and get in touch with kind people, and you will experience a better world.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Give your husband a little time to digest the unhappiness in your heartWhen your husband has been forced by you to run away from home to resist; Then you should give him a little time to digest all the unhappiness in his heart; Only when he figures it out, you can win back his heart, and he will give you a chance to swim badly.

    2. Send WeChat to your husband, admit your mistakes and apologize in front of him, and admit your mistakes; And to him you will not do this to him again in the days to come; Otherwise, Li Pin's socks will definitely be farther and farther away from you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you should cheer up, don't be depressed because of your husband's openness and frankness, and take on the responsibility of the whole family, if you really can't afford to take on the responsibility of this exciting hand, then find someone to remarry, which will make your potato pressure a lot less.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your husband is gone. You can apologize to him and ask him to come back quickly. Your husband's body He Mo ran away from home. It's also temporary, and it's good to feast when the gas is gone. When husband and wife quarrel, there is always one who has to bow his head first.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm sorry to hear your news, if your husband is gone, you must learn to be strong, because even if your husband is gone, you have to continue to live, there are still a lot of expectations in the world, so you can't be decadent, as long as you work hard to live, the days will slowly get better and brighter, I believe your husband doesn't want you to be decadent.

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