Share, what moment did you feel hopeless?

When I saw the chat history between her and his ex-boyfriend, I wanted to die in despair, and my whole person was numb, and I couldn't believe what I was seeing.

My parents had a small quarrel for two days and a big quarrel for three days, and on the day of the final divorce, I was alone in the bar and felt hopeless for the whole family.

The person I like broke up for various reasons, and after the breakup, he told others that the reason for breaking up with me was because I was too attentive and transferred everything to me.

My best friend stabbed me in the back, and because of a little benefit, he didn't have any contact with me, and I really cried in despair for a day.

After graduating, I have been starting a business with my friends, and last year I went out on my own and invested all my savings, but I lost all of my money, and my desperate life began.

After working in the south for two years, the deposit in the bank card was only a few hundred yuan, and I returned to the room alone at night, feeling that there was no hope for the future at all.

kept him for half a year, neither promised me nor rejected me, and finally learned that he had been having an affair with a girl, and I was his spare tire.

After I became yang, he didn't care a word, so he said, "If you are yang, you will be yang".

When I found out that my girlfriend was taking advantage of me.

In daily life, when we like a girl, it is easy for those girls to be used as a spare tire, of course, in fact, some girls don't mean it, they just don't know.

Therefore, for this part of the girls, we should forgive them with a forgiving heart, after all, they didn't mean to, because they were just starting out in the emotional world, and they didn't know how to deal with these things.

However, in the world of feelings, in fact, there are still some girls who are deliberately taking advantage of the boy's kindness to her, for this, it is really unforgivable, so breaking up as soon as possible has become the only choice you can make in the end, and of course the best choice you can make in the end.

I once chased a girl for five whole years, and in the end it ended in vain.

In the five years that she chased her, she, like the girl you said, was also accepting your good unconditionally, and never wanted to give a little bit to you.

Every time she went out shopping, I accompanied her, and finally paid the bill, and I also paid. Every boy doesn't like to go shopping with girls, even with the girls he likes, not only because of spending money, but also because he is tired. So did I.

If it's my girlfriend, then it's okay to accompany her shopping or something, but she's not my girlfriend, she was often ambiguous with me at that time, and she couldn't tell me when she would scold me, let alone praise me one day, and I was very uncomfortable and reluctant to do so, which was natural.

But even so, I kept accommodating her until one time. That day, I came back to my rented house from work, so tired that I was going to eat casually, then take a shower and go to bed. And at this time, I saw a message from her on my phone from me:

It's almost my birthday, so remember to give me a birthday present!

Looking at this sentence, I can't help but have mixed feelings in my heart, to tell the truth, I really feel tired, I don't want to pay attention to her anymore, I don't want to send it anymore, and I don't want to continue chasing it.

How to say? Because for a few years, I was giving her gifts and caring about her, and she never cared about me and gave me birthday gifts, and maybe she didn't even know what my birthday was.

Hehe, that's a great irony for me.

The next moment, the contacts that had been stored in the phone for five years were still deleted by me, and I didn't regret it since.

When a girl takes advantage of you and only likes to accept your goodness, you should actually understand that the next moment is actually the time when you should leave.

Although it was my own decision to delete her, I still fell into despair at that moment. The person I loved seemed to be gone, never to be in touch again, and I even felt that I might never be in love again.

When I quit the teacher's team.

I joined the teaching team when I was a freshman, and our team mainly expands the knowledge of the current major and understands it in another way. The teacher is also a high-end professor, who has made certain achievements in the profession, and is the leader of our department, which can be said to be very powerful.

The original intention of joining was to experience the life of his laboratory and enrich his knowledge. Seeing that everyone else joined, I didn't think about it carefully and followed suit.

Our main task is to use computer software to make models and then calculate, regularly report our tasks in the form of ppt, and read a certain amount of literature every day, and it is all in English, which is quite challenging.

Later, no matter what the teacher said, I insisted on my attitude, and in the end the teacher compromised, my heart was really relieved, and the previous despair also disappeared, and I was a lot more happy, and I finally breathed a sigh of relief, and it was beautiful to see. It was so much fun!

Just a few days ago, I and one of our partners came to a trip that said go, we went to Tianjin after class, had lunch, immediately took the car to the train station, ready to go to Beijing, at that time I bought a station ticket, but the train drove quite fast, more than an hour to arrive, did not stand to the foot numb. After getting off the train, we encountered a new difficulty, that is, the direction and place, we easily turned, so we kept the map open, and always asked passers-by from time to time, thanks to their kind help, let us see one beautiful scenery after another.

In the middle of the night, we have nowhere to go, Internet cafes, because minors, can't get in, hotels, because of Beijing, the price is very high, can't afford to spend, so I have been riding around Beijing, passing through a lot of places, meeting a lot of people, seeing a lot of colorful buildings, every street pedestrians are in a hurry, every moment is a busy traffic, lovers on the side of the road holding hands, but we are two people walking forward alone, no one to talk and laugh, sleep on the overpass for half an hour, wake up, the whole body is cold, cold and hungry tired and bitter, Although I feel helpless and hopeless, I am still happy in my heart, and I feel the breath of freedom and an adventure in my life, another experience in my life.

Many times, loneliness is innate, missing people far away, reminiscing about the past, fantasizing about the future, although there will be despair, there will also be hope, the sunshine is just right every day, I hope that your life will see hope in despair, and see dreams in hope.

It was at the moment when I signed the divorce agreement that I was desperate for feelings and love!

When I confessed after preparing for the college entrance examination, I found that the person I liked had a partner, and I failed the college entrance examination.

I remember I once made a pact with my girlfriend that we would take the train to school together when school started, and she went with her classmates, and I was really desperate when I found out.

Hope turns into disappointment, disappointment turns into despair, and everyone may have experienced.

Yes, sometimes a small thing makes you feel like you can't love it.

For example, if you do everything possible to be nice to someone, and others just say thank you lightly, which is very perfunctory, you will definitely feel desperate at that moment.

There is also some small emotions in yourself, and you confide it to your best friend, but the friend has a disdainful expression, feeling that you are too hypocritical, and it is really desperate at that time.

Under normal circumstances, girls' minds are more delicate, and moments of despair like this will happen often, even without any reason.

Boys, on the other hand, are more neurologically dull and may experience fewer moments of despair, but as long as they are human, they will have a variety of emotions, and despair is also one of these emotions. Everyone will go through it.

Maybe as I grow older and more experienced, I have become more mature, maybe less!

Yes, everyone has their own times of sadness and despair! It's not all smooth sailing! So mindset is important! Some can convince themselves, and some become depressed!

Everyone has had this experience at some point.

It's over, and everything is uneventful.

It's normal, life has more experience and feelings, so it is not in vain to "visit here".

I bought 6 stinky fart bombs, and my classmates were very supportive, and the class exploded, so that our class and the next class did not go to class.

I had all the PE classes, and then the teacher said who did it, and the classmates sold me, and I called the parents and wrote a review.