Why were you born into that kind of family

Your birth means an increase in the cost of living for your family, an increase in the cost of time, and an increase in the majority of your mind for your upbringing. Families with children are filled with more laughter. A world for twoAlthough it is more relaxed, everything basically revolves around two people, which can easily lead to contradictions and conflicts, and quarrels are common.

With a child, the focus of the two premature withering individuals will basically shift to the child, which plays a good role in neutralizing. In the past, the other party may have their own ideas and directions, but now everyone has a common purpose: to bring the child well!

With a common goal, most of the problems are solved.

The competition for the future of children may not only be the competition of the family, but the competition of the whole family. The child is the hope of the family, don't put too much pressure on him, but at least let him understand this minimum responsibility.

The environment of the Zaoting is not an option. Looks are the most beautiful God has given you, be confident.

If you want to escape from this circle, you have to work hard to stand out, through your own struggle, through your own study and habits, out of the family environment that you can accept. If you are in the countryside and you don't like to be in the countryside, then you have to study hard and get out of the mountains, because the only way to get out of the mountains is to study hard. Learn more knowledge, get admitted to a better university, and then take care of the group, and then let yourself create more value for the society.

Presumably everyone knows who the boss of Jingdong is, he is the child in the mountains, her college tuition is made up by the whole village for him, he finally became the chairman through his own efforts, and now everyone in their village has given him a house, which is called knowledge can change fate.

36 lines of line out of the champion, I can pass the other why do I have to pass the study? In fact, if you feel that you are good enough and have adapted to your current environment and life, then you can step into your comfort zone, but there are still many children who don't want to live like this, and she wants to go one step further. Learning is not the only master, but learning is the easiest way out, you only need to work hard, you only need to save more, learning will not disappoint yourself, and your grades will prove to yourself.

You can change your name and appearance, but you can't choose to start with. The current science and technology and medical technology are very smart, and you can go to plastic surgery, including the need for a lot of money, and there are also risks, so you also need to work hard by yourself, and you can only have money! Your name is because at first you couldn't speak.

I don't have the ability to think, so I can only ask my parents to name them. If you don't like your name, you can change it, it's not so complicated to change your name now, the sooner you change your name, the easier it is, if you're 20 years old, then you change your name, it's more troublesome, because everything that involves your name, you have to change it.

In the end, no matter how much you don't like him from your background, there are people around you who love you. It doesn't matter what you look like, your name, how much you don't like it, but there are still people who will remember him. I won't forget him, I won't forget what you look like, I won't forget your name.

Because your birth is determined by your parents, what kind of family environment your parents are, what family you live in, you are in the absence of the ability to choose when you naturally enter the family to live and grow, birth, appearance and name, are completed by the guardian parents, this is the responsibility and obligation of the law to the parents. We should be grateful for the nurturing grace of our parents.

Can Min Huai be able to do this, is this the meaning of struggle?

What does it mean to be alive"?

The sentence on the Internet is useless and hurts the body, and the world is unfair.

Strive to build a bridge from scratch to the bridge....

When you have it, most of your life will pass.

Youth burns out.

Hahahahaha.

Laugh and forget it.

Only the gods can choose everything for themselves!

Because you are not a god, you can't choose。。

Your birth means adding people to your family and continuing the incense.

In the traditional concept of Chinese culture, the import of people has always been regarded as a blessing to continue the incense. Therefore, basically every family will have different degrees of joy and excitement after having a precious child. Therefore, according to the problem description, the birth of a person means that the birth of a person is an additional person for his family, and the incense continues.

Detailed explanation. In ancient times, incense also referred to the burning of incense and fire to worship ancestors by younger generations, so the cut off of incense refers to having no heirs. In ancient times, there was a saying that there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is greater; That is, there is no descendant to inherit incense, which is the greatest unfilial piety. Therefore, the continuation of offspring is also called the continuation of incense.

This is the concept of the older generation, but in modern society, some young people do not want children even if they get married; Some are forced to have children due to the pressure of their parents, and some prefer children, according to the old saying, it is the continuation of incense.

Really, when I was a child, I was very helpless to see my parents quarreling, and even my father acted roughly, I don't know what's wrong, and I will have indescribable sadness and sadness. What's going on? I was born to face these things.

Why are there dirty corners in the home.

Why are the same scholars so clean and comfortable.

Why do we have discordant voices in our house.

Why do you want to see dad do it and mom resist.

Why is I nervous and afraid of conflict at any time?

Woo woo woo ......

At that time, I was young, helpless, and lonely.

Why didn't anyone teach me how to behave when I grew up?

Why can't I feel my father's love and praise?

Why is it so blue, my sky is a little gray.

Why are fathers often so silent and negative.

Why is the mother unhappy, busy, and crying?

Why don't I have someone else's life, my parents are harmonious and loving, husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are gold, which is the icing on the cake for me.

Why did I choose such parents and playbooks?

That inexplicable unhappiness and depression loomed.

Only ask my heart, ask myself.

My heart, if you are alive, I want you to tell me.

Because you're good, you don't want them to be upset.

You don't know how to help them.

You're small, you're very frustrated.

You have to face your inner insecurity and tension.

Question your own thoughts and don't limit yourself.

The original family will not completely cover the rest of our lives, that is actually an illusion. Hidden orange reputation.

So, let's take some of this awareness and create a new journey.

In 640 AD, he was born into a family that was too ordinary to be ordinary.

In 645 A.D., when he was 5 years old, his father gave him high hopes that he could shine on the lintel and get rid of the kind of life of official oppression of the people, he sucked his finger and nodded ignorantly.

In 650 AD, Tang Gaozong Li Zhi ascended the throne, the year name Yonghui, he was 10 years old, because he skipped school to play and was beaten by his father's board, with tears on his back "At the beginning of man, the nature is good......”

In 656 AD, he was 16 years old, did not like to study, often sat alone on the threshold of his own restaurant and looked at the rouge shop opposite, the owner of the shop was a snobbish fat woman, he was always bored alone, why such an ugly fat woman could give birth to such a beautiful girl?

In 659 A.D., he was 19 years old when his father was seriously ill.

In the same year, he went to participate in the imperial examination with his fellow villagers, but he did not win, he shook his head and smiled, and saw that his fellow villagers had jumped up shouting, and he saw that his fellow villagers had won, so he walked over, put his arms around his shoulders, and said a few words of congratulations, and the townsmen also dealt with him, but he found that there was a trace of disdain in the eyes of his fellow villagers.

When he returned to his hometown, his father died, and he took over the family tavern. Soon, the imperial court sent someone to pick up the townspeople to Beijing, the streets were crowded with people, the townspeople rode horses and walked in the middle, and there were countless officials and officials around him, he looked so inconspicuous in the crowds. He laughed again.

In 660 A.D., he was 20 years old, married a wife, married a girl from the rouge shop opposite, and took a lot of effort to say that the fat woman thought he was poor and was very reluctant to suffer. He was always helpless to sit on the threshold of his house with a pot of wine and look at the street in a daze, and in the inner hall, his daughter-in-law was silent, still staring out the window with blank eyes.

In the same year, he went out and came back to hear from the young man that the east wall of his house had been demolished by the people of the Yamen. He ran to the yamen again, and the county magistrate said that he would let him pay eight hangs per square meter to convert it with him, but he didn't do it, not that he didn't sell it, but that he couldn't sell it, and the county magistrate was furious and ordered the official to break one of his legs, and he limped back and fell seriously ill. When he woke up, he found that the tavern had been demolished, and his wife was sitting next to him and hiding her face and crying.

On a snowy night, he limped to the capital with his bags on his back, and a few days later, he finally found the fellow villager who was an official in the capital, but was turned away. He laughed again.

After he returned to his hometown with difficulty, he found that his valuable things had been robbed by the guys, and his daughter-in-law had also run away, so he sat in the inner hall and laughed.

He was never seen again.

A few years later, Tang Gaozong Li Zhi ordered the occupied people's fields and houses to be returned to the people. When the officials found him, it was already many days later, and he was already crazy, shouting "The world is difficult, and people's hearts are in turmoil."