Emotional experts enter, how to refuse girls gracefully

You first test her feelings for you, and if she feels average about you, then you can say it directly, or it is better to be friends, so that I think it is not a big deal for both parties; If she likes you a little, you can be silly, you tell her, in fact, I have a lot of shortcomings, be sincere, and then by the way, in fact, I am still too young, and it was my friend who introduced you to me, I still hope to work hard first, and then start a family, I hope to respect my choice, thank you.

People are emotionally attached to you, and if you want to reject them, you will hurt others, so maybe it will hurt all of a sudden, and it will be fine in a few days......Try to avoid contacting her, it will be fine in no time!

Good luck!

Did you kill "feel good"? Maybe she's the missing rib in you? One miss is a lifetime.

However, if the family's opinion is important, plus I feel that it makes sense. So let's put it directly, she is only twenty-three, and she can't get married. Tell her directly that the family is against it. And directly say that you also don't think it's very suitable.

Even if you are kind, if it were me, I would rather you confess directly like this, and my heart would be better.

Or the one that can make the other person give up the most, saying that you already have a girl you like, this is a lie, not recommended.

If you really don't know how to be polite, then I suggest you order it directly. Otherwise, if people misunderstand, it is better to cut the mess directly.

1。"Let's be good friends, although I like you very much, but it's only limited to the relationship between friends, I don't feel that way."

2。"You're a good girl, but I don't think we're a good fit, so let's be good friends."

Just tell her that if you get married, you may not be able to take good care of her, saying that you are still young! I think it's more appropriate to be friends.

It's not easy to talk to an introducer.

Let's just say that your parents are against it.

Straight to the point ...

I haven't brushed my teeth yet...

Alas, buddy, just say I'm sorry, it's okay!

In love, in addition to learning to love others, there is also a very important thing: we must learn to reject people we don't like, and we don't want to be brave enough to refuse in the face of people we don't like, so how do you refuse to show favor to people you don't love? What should we do to reject it tactfully?

Let me share a little bit of my experience with you.

Reject the confession of someone you don't love.

First of all, we have to fully respect him and listen to him.

When he expresses his feelings to me, I listen carefully and then explain my inner thoughts to him, which on the one hand plays a role in respecting others, and on the other hand, it also allows him to see the gap between me and him from a few words, especially in terms of gifts, if you are not going to accept that person at first, you can directly refuse or return it to him with the same item, to deal with the gift he gave, do not give others the illusion.

Secondly, subtly let him perceive the gap between us, refuse to accept each other's gifts, and tell him that we have different three views, for many sisters, men's sugar-coated cannonballs are undoubtedly powerful, but while we accept sugar-coated cannonballs, we must also pay attention to our own reality, and we must not fall down because of some relatively simple items, which is not only irresponsible for our own feelings, but also contempt for our own value, so whether it is facing a rich family or a poor family, As long as we feel that both parties may not be suitable, we can solve it in some tactful way.

Finally, of course, the most important point is to deliberately keep a certain distance from him, if you already have someone you like very much in your heart, boldly tell him that the best way is to use hints, take pictures of yourself and your boyfriend from time to time, or ask him what this boy will like, so that you can tell him that you can't actually tolerate a second person in your heart, you already have someone you want to be with, and he will naturally give up.

If you don't like each other, you can say that the personalities of the two people are incompatible, or you can say that the original families of the two people are different, just refuse it, in fact, there is no need to be special tactful, if you are particularly tactful, you will give the other party hope, and the other party will always pester you.

The way of refusal is just to make people psychologically acceptable.

To put it mildly, it's about finding the right reasons that the other person might accept.

So, just find an excuse and keep your distance!

In the relationship, if you don't like it or don't feel it, you should say it generously, which is the best for each other, let people know, and save each other's time.

Tactful refusal is a science, and you can't let the other party get hurt, so you should grasp the key points well.

In fact, if it is really not suitable in the relationship, you should decisively refuse. Don't be afraid, and don't worry about embarrassment.

We don't know how to refuse because we can't satisfy ourselves, we cater to others and need to be recognized by others, and there is no danger in the outside world, in fact, because our ego is not strong enough. How to make it powerful? I asked people with pandering tendencies.

If you don't need to be with your husband or parents, you don't have to take your children and you don't have to go to work. What kind of job would you choose to make yourself happy? In the end they were all me, and I didn't think about the problem.

Because our energy is spent on the needs of others, the answer is to be expected. There's not much time in a day for yourself, and there's not much time for yourself.

Artists are such self-empowered people who spend a lot of time on their own needs. Treat your hobby as a career, indulge in it, and don't feel the passage of time. They don't have to be any authority or populace, but cater to their own hearts.

So take the time to focus on your own needs. Be good to yourself, look at what you need, think about what you want in advance, do more things that you approve, and give yourself a sense of achievement. When we learn to believe in ourselves and be satisfied with ourselves, what are the negative evaluations and what are the external conflicts?

How can a woman learn to say no in the world of teasing feelings02 and make our dedication weighty?

The giver helps others and speaks imbeciles. It's nothing to me. I can do it.

It's a person who studies law, and her boyfriend always shows her the contract, and she says it's okay, I can. But from the perspective of professional corners, only a careful study of the contract can find the problem, but in the eyes of the boyfriend, he thinks it is very professional and cannot be delayed for a few minutes. I refused my boyfriend's request because I was busy with work, and my boyfriend reprimanded him loudly, and he felt aggrieved.

So when we do things for others, we should actively express the difficulty of the work. If you say that it really takes a long time to look at the contract. I had a hard job when I was in peace, but you're my boyfriend.

I can show you this time, but when you have to buy me something delicious and then refuse, my boyfriend doesn't think her raising hand is helpful, so he won't be angry. Make the other person think that you are giving weight. At this time, when the other person embarrasses you or thanks you for crossing the border, they will not look for you.

Rejecting a man's blind buying of short orders, refusing his intimate behavior, not having ambiguous fortunes with others, and making reasonable refusals in the three things of the town will make the other party feel that you are a very good woman and will respect you, which is very helpful to the relationship.

First of all, don't hurt the other person's self-esteem, and be clear when refusing, don't give the other person a little hope.

If you don't want Huihong to do something quickly, you should immediately reject the other party, so that you can let the other party know what you don't like, and you should directly express the past.

In a relationship, don't have an affair with someone, in a relationship, both men and women should ensure their loyalty to each other. When you choose a guy to fall in love, you must be responsible for your relationship, and you can't have an affair with a man who is not your boyfriend, let alone step on two boats or even more, which can easily cause the relationship between the two to break down.

There are some things that must be decisively refused, so that you can write more noblely, don't blindly accommodate others, appropriate rejection can enhance your charm.

If you don't like each other, you must explain to the other party in a timely manner, express your attitude and position, so that you can learn to refuse.