Personality flaws desperate for help .

There is a famous saying:

Go your own way and let others say go.

And now it has been changed by some people to:

Go your own way and let others take the hit.

Do you see the difference between these two sentences and can you understand them? Don't pay too much attention to what others think of you, do your own thing, what do you say? As long as you like it. As long as it is what you think you should do, do it.

People really should make more friends, make more friends, be able to have fun together, and even live. It can relieve a lot of stress. Multiple friends, multiple paths. And a friend is someone who will reach out to help you when you are troubled and when you have a problem.

Who in this world doesn't have embarrassing times, and it's not a big deal. Maybe people don't feel embarrassed, but you think too much about it. You're only 18 years old, and you're in the prime of your youth.

Please be brave. Life is good.

Don't think about unrealistic, unrealistic questions. If there is a problem, there is always a solution. Fantasy is a bad behavior, try to get rid of it.

Establish ambitious life goals and clarify the focus of life.

Tomorrow will be better!

I was 18 years old and suffering from depression.

The situation is worse than yours, and I fantasize about suicide every day at that time.

Learn to laugh at yourself.

If you do something embarrassing, laugh at yourself before others laugh.

Be humorous, be thick-skinned, and don't push yourself to be a perfect person just because of moral standards.

No one is perfect.

Don't be afraid to make mistakes.

It's nothing. We all make mistakes.

When you're in a bad mood.

It's hard to use your brains.

Absolute. I want to study hard.

Just adjust your state first.

It seems that the car has to be filled with gas.

to run. Listen** Do exercise.

In short, focus on the same things you like.

Reduce cranky time.

Reduce the number of thoughts.

The number of times is reduced. You will praise yourself in your heart.

Don't be afraid to say the wrong thing.

Be bold and show your unique character.

Mindfulness isn't necessarily a bad thing.

People who think a lot are often people who love to think and think deeply.

Self-confidence requires self-effort.

1. Selfishness, self-interest, harming others and benefiting oneself; 2. Self-righteousness, self-righteousness; 3. Arrogance, empty eyes; 4. Strong vanity and love vanity; 5. Be timid and afraid of things, and escape from reality; 6. Self-contempt, lack of self-confidence; 7. Withdrawn and widowed, difficult to get along with others; 8. Conceited and arrogant, no one in sight; 9. Selfish, indifferent, and unapproachable;

Character flaws are not one.

62616964757a686964616fe59b9ee7ad9431333431346362 disease, there is no disease called character defects, it just means that some part of your character is not sound... Individual situations are also different and have different character flaws. I won't go into the common ones. Of course, you can do some test questions** your own character is flawed in those places, here's one:

In our lives, we will always face various exams, large and small, in addition to the substantive entrance exams, qualification exams, and ordinary people.

The interaction is also one assessment and trial after another, judging each other's scores in their hearts. Imagine you're going to be there tomorrow.

With an additional exam, what situation are you most afraid of? a.There is a type of question that I have never seen before.

b.In case of unforeseen circumstances, you will not be able to take the test.

c.Inexplicably suspected of cheating.

d.The answer is obviously memorized, but I can't remember that this quiz can reveal your character flaws, which can become your fatal wound when facing challenges. Results:

a.There are types of questions that you have never seen before, you have low self-confidence in yourself, and you always need others to affirm your ideas before you can be sure that your opinions are feasible. So often when you encounter something, you haven't calmly analyzed it clearly, so you are anxious to ask for other people's opinions, too many people intervene to complicate the problem, and make you sway like a wall grass, and if the other party is not easy and kind, you may be framed.

b.When you can't go to the test in an unexpected situation, you are easy to fall into blind spots when thinking about things, and you will always get into the horns of the bull, rather than measuring the problem with a full macro vision. When faced with a choice, you are often at a loss and hesitant because you are so afraid of the taste of failure that you are tied to your hands.

c.Inexplicably suspected of cheating Carefully analyze your character, you are a rather pessimistic person, even a little unfounded. You always feel that your chances of success are not very good before you start the action, and because you are always worried about something that has a low probability of happening, you will limit yourself at the beginning, so your development will be limited.

d.The answer is obviously very familiar, but I can't remember that you often have some unpleasant and failed experiences in the past, which leads to deviations in your judgment and decision-making. Although other people's opinions can provide you with reference, you are also easily confused by too many voices and lose your own persistence and ideas.

It is recommended that you don't take the previous gains and losses too seriously, because every time is a new beginning, and if you fall short because of some unchangeable facts, the gains outweigh the losses. Your personality is prone to tension and you don't know how to interact well with a group.

No one is perfect, and every copy has a flaw.

bai, so the character will not be perfect! That is, to achieve perfection! DAO can only show that the defect is hidden.

Psychologically immature, often self-centered. The feelings are rich but not deep. There is more than enthusiasm, but not enough stability.

It is easy to accept hints and express oneself. People with this personality are prone to develop hysteria. Outgoing and aggressive.

Highly emotionally unstable, easily excited, impulsive. They tend to be hostile and aggressive towards people and society.

According to your description, there are flaws in his personality, which means that he says that his personality is not very good, such as short-tempered, or easy to have conflicts with others, or is more introverted, does not like to talk, and is not good at communication, these can be regarded as some personality flaws!

Is introversion a character flaw?

No one is perfect, and since you have recognized the shortcomings of your own character, you must consciously adjust it. In addition, the formation of personality is influenced by genes and the environment in which it was raised. Once formed, it is difficult to change it.

Therefore, you should also play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses. Try to bring out the best aspects of your personality. So that you can become a person who is loved by everyone.

It is possible to change your personality, provided that you have a strong desire to change and long-term persistence, and you need to constantly strive to break through yourself. Psychologists' research shows that about 50% of personality is genetically determined, and the rest can be shaped and perfected as oneself grows under the influence of the environment.

If this "disease" does not even have any organic manifestations, that is, it cannot be seen by our anatomical and physiological index tests, and there is no heredity or genetic defect, then this "disease" is "judged" in our mainstream values. It's because he's very different from us ordinary people.

This difference is usually guided by our mainstream values, for example, people are social animals, and we think that prosociality is a virtue, or a human trait. Then the personality defect may be less prosocial, and he may understand and express the real world in such a different way that he forms a significant communication barrier with other people, and others will think that he is "abnormal".

In addition, generally speaking, we talk about sound people, who are usually able to handle their emotions better, have similar understanding and expression as everyone else, and establish intimate relationships with others that everyone can understand. The person who "sets things differently" may be described by us as "indifferent" or "excessive".

I just want you to think deeply. Nowadays, a kind of political correctness is very popular, and the quality of a person's ability to behave in the world is extremely important, or the "normal" is extremely important, and sometimes it is difficult to understand some differences, maybe they are the type of survival difficulties, and the attitude of others will also squeeze their living space. I hope everyone will be more tolerant of "different" people.

The most intuitive manifestation of a person with a defective personality in life is that his actions and words go beyond a common sense, beyond a necessary degree, and will make people feel uncomfortable.

When someone makes you feel uncomfortable, the other party will generally have certain character flaws, and of course, it is not excluded that you have some compound social rules in some aspects.

Character flaws are big and small, we must tolerate the imperfections of others, we must dare to accept our own imperfections, it is difficult to change others, it is also difficult to change ourselves, so it is good to face it with a calm attitude.

It turns out that I have so many character flaws.