Books that are anxious to improve the withdrawn character

It's really hard to say.

Introverts by nature can be said Why is it melancholy by nature? Addressing the root cause of your depression is not a symptomatic or a cure.

The hot and cold may have something to do with your family atmosphere, or your own personality is more prone to tension and sensitivity.

What you need to do about this is to laugh at yourself a lot, to laugh at yourself in the crowd, first, to let go of your overemphasis on your own shortcomings, and second, to allow yourself to slowly blend in with the crowd.

Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, and I don't really recommend that you have to shape the person you want to be, but you have to recognize yourself and become a better version of yourself, and all you need to do is give yourself a piece of paper, and then fold it in half, and one side is the advantage, and the other side is the disadvantage, and for each disadvantage, you must find an advantage, write more than ten, and then analyze for yourself which of the advantages are related, which can show which aspect of you is better.

For example, what kind of game you are good at is your own association, or strategy, or eyesight, and addiction to games shows that your self-control is poor.

There should be a fact-based analysis.

It is impossible for everyone to be liked by everyone.

Then you choose a character that is close to the ideal you want to achieve, close to the realization of your dreams, or that will help you realize your beautiful desires.

Good communication skills and emotional stability are the most important things to enter the society.

You can take a look at "Emotional Intelligence" Cai Kangyong's way of speaking, and you can also listen to Professor Zeng Shiqiang's I Ching in the Hundred Lectures.

It is also important that you have a wide range of interests or hobbies that you are proficient in, so that you can really have something to say and have an independent opinion.

People gather like and have more contact with excellent people, learn and summarize, this should help you, contact with others more, your sensitivity will be reduced, your sensitivity will be reduced, you will not have big ups and downs, look at the strengths and weaknesses of others, you can know what can be tolerated and what can not be accepted, and take appropriate responses.

If you are older, you can travel, broaden your horizons, see more of the many facets of society, and you will have a more peaceful and tolerant heart.

Human Aspects: "The Weakness of Human Nature", "Perfect Communication".

Psychological aspects: "The Feeling of Ascending to the Sky", "Psychology and Life", "Dream Analysis".

The Great Salesman can make your logical thinking stronger, and Dream of Red Mansions is a model of ancient Chinese, and speaking can make you cultural.

After reading "Zizhi Tongjian" can be of great help to China's macroeconomy, Don Quixote "foreign literature" helps you understand what the vanishing chivalry is.

The Divine Comedy has a strong interest in religion and is everyone's yearning.

Shakespeare makes you romantic.

Hans Christian Andersen: You can have a beautiful mind.

A Brief History of Time People with a Physics Mind, others will only feel that they themselves are stressed.

Theory is the only policy for young people to behave and do things.

You have to practice, otherwise it will be difficult, in fact, this kind of introverted personality will improve under a certain environment and a certain amount of time! Introverted and subtle in some aspects is not confident enough in yourself, how old are you, if you are a student, you will participate in more school and class activities, this is very effective, if you work, you can make friends online in your leisure time, and go out to play together. You need to break through yourself, why can't you say it when you want to?

If you find the reason for being introverted and strengthen your personality, you will be able to break through yourself.

The formation of character, at the time of childhood, is already oriented.

Change, it's simply impossible. It can only be said that with the experience of life and the accumulation of wisdom, people will become more decent and perfect.

And introversion and cheerfulness are not in conflict. You can be cheerful. But it's hard to be lively.

Introverts are generally quieter. That's great, as long as you're cheerful. Be optimistic.

Communicate with people more, it's useless to read books, there's really no way, read some inspirational books.