What are my character flaws and what do character flaws mean

This reaction is not good, but it is normal, but it is put on a lot of people to react this way.

Because Cinderella's background is too low, she feels that she is not worthy of the prince, and this happiness comes suddenly, she is not psychologically prepared, she dare not believe and accept, and dare not guarantee herself"Deserved"This happiness. In fairy tales is ideal, real reality"Cinderella"How many of us can have this kind of honor?

In reality, we want to get a lot of things, but our own abilities and conditions are insufficient. But fairy tales are to make us understand that no matter what status and conditions you are in now, people have the right to pursue beautiful things and the opportunity to get them

If you are still young, then many aspects of your psychology are not yet mature, and your life experience is not rich, and it is normal for confusion and contradictions to occur. Just keep a positive and optimistic mindsetCinderella's ending is very happy, this is a kind of hope, I hope that people in our real world can always maintain the beautiful state of mind like fairy tales

I guess it's not confident

Such timidity is afraid of taking responsibility, and in life it is mostly manifested as not daring to come forward As the old saying goes, "the gun shoots the first bird" Maybe you agree with it

Dare to speak up and consciously exercise yourself

It will help

You are too introverted and always afraid of being hurt by something, in fact, you should try to communicate with friends more, socialize with new friends more, exercise yourself, and make yourself cheerful and outgoing. I've been a lot like you before, I'm trying to adjust myself, let's work together! You'll be able to do it!!

The embodiment of the passive psychology of man.

The manifestations of character defects are: pride does not know how to be modest, impatience does not know how to prevent risks, rigidity and self-use, pay attention to face, etc.

1. Pride does not know how to be humble

The reason why pride has become the first Achilles' heel in human nature is because pride often despises others and despises difficulties, which is enough to often be unguardable, so on the road of self-growth, it will also fail unexpectedly.

Pride can be said to be a weakness in many people, and there is a false unique effect in psychology, which is that there are pride characteristics in the body, and people usually think that they are better than others, and they are always used to looking up to their own words, so as to meet the psychological needs of pure self-image. This mental awareness of the first characteristic of self-existence makes it illusory, and it also leads to a refusal to learn from others, and a lack of clear understanding of the truth of things, so it will make rash decisions.

2. Impatience does not know how to prevent risks

Many people think that those who achieve success are adventurous, but in fact, according to psychological research, successful entrepreneurs who are quick prefer to prevent risks rather than take risks, and they are patient and know that many things will not be achieved overnight, but have a slow growth process, and they will conduct periodic risk assessments of projects and goals.

3. Be rigid and pay attention to face

Rigid self-use is to think that they are right, like to go their own way, put their self-esteem in the first place, self-esteem is often said to be face, rigid and self-serving people are easy to Duan Zhou habitual defense, as long as others refute themselves, whether it is right or not, their first reaction is to maintain self-esteem. But for truly accomplished people, self-esteem can actually be reduced to secondary, and the pursuit of truth is the most important thing, and it is also the key to a person's sustainable growth.

Types of character defects

1. Weak character

This kind of character defect is that the body always feels blind and weak, often has pathological doubts, often is emotionally in an unhappy state, often withdraws when encountering difficulties, lacks the spirit of overcoming, and is more likely to be overly sensitive and prone to mental illness.

2. Not adapting to the character

The defect of this personality is that the number of people does not adapt to the social environment, and the ability to discern and judge is very poor, and if you are in a bad social environment, bad behavior often occurs.

3. Paranoid personality

Particularly opinionated, easily suspicious, and especially jealous of others, always self-centered in thinking about problems, with paranoid psychosis.

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