The place where I work is very bad, but I don t want to leave because the girl I m chasing is there

Updated on psychology 2024-07-24
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Life is the process of finding love, and everyone has to find four people in their life.

    The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person you spend your life with.

    First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love;

    Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most;

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, it's just the person who appears at the most suitable time.

    How many people will you be in someone else's life?

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

    Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in life, if you really love someone, you must love him as he is—love his good, love his bad: love his strengths, but also love his shortcomings, and never want him to become what you want because you love him, and if you can't change it, you won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't give up, I've been in a similar situation, but I didn't choose to continue. However, after losing it, I felt that it would become a lifelong regret for me. So you must choose to wait, even if you lose in the end, but at least you do your best, and you will not leave regrets.

    I wish you all the best in tying the knot.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can give up everything for love, don't talk about love if you can't do it, then talk about reality

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    She also has me in her heart"

    Since she has you in her heart, she shouldn't give up, what people are most afraid of in this life is regret, not everyone can bear the pain caused by regret, go for it. If you don't want to work there, you can discuss with her and see if she wants to go with you.

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