What is the difference between a girl with a firstborn child and a boy with a firstborn child?

The birth of a son from the first birth and the birth of a daughter from the firstborn are not important for those who think that both men and women are the same, it is okay to have a boy or a girl.

But for a patriarchal family, having a boy is more ideal. Because the cost of raising a child is relatively high, they are reluctant to have more children, and it doesn't matter if the first child gives birth to a boy, what the second child has, or whether to give birth or not. If the first child gives birth to a girl, the psychology is not steady, and I am afraid that the second child will still be a girl, and I can't afford to raise more children.

Whether the first child gives birth to a son or a daughter will affect people's willingness to choose whether to have a second child to a certain extent.

If the first child is a son, they will be very careful about whether to have a second child.

Because in case the second child is also a boy, parents will feel pressured.

If the first child is a daughter, the desire to have a second child is relatively stronger.

If the second child gives birth to a daughter, the burden in the later period is not so great, and the two intimate little padded jackets are very warm;

If the second child gives birth to a son, it just makes a good word.

Today's young people have diluted the concept of inheritance, the old people are becoming more and more open-minded, and the phenomenon of preference for sons over daughters is gradually decreasing. Young people are more likely to think about having an extra child, which can lead to a lower quality of life.

One time I went to get a haircut, and it was a young guy who cut my hair.

There are more people who urge the birth of a second child, according to their words, raising one is also raising, and one more is just a matter of more pairs of chopsticks.

The old man around me who gave birth to a second child has the will to generate the word "good", but it is acceptable if it can't be realized.

But they don't think about multiple siblings as much as they do about education.

Many people take a wait-and-see attitude and consider the mode. I'm in this state now, and I'm envious of seeing other people's two children, but I can't make up my mind.

There are several reasons for this:

If you get pregnant again, you may be an advanced maternal age, and you may be affected by watching the news, and you are worried about your physical condition and the quality of your child.

Although the city is not a first-tier city, the cost of education is relatively high.

Having two children will definitely affect the child's education.

Although the old man also said that he would help take care of it, but: first, my husband and I both think that it is better for the child's parents to take it; Second, let them take care of it all day, for fear that the body will not be able to bear it.

The economic pressure is too great, and the quality of life will be severely reduced.

After two people fall in love and get married normally, they will basically consider the issue of having children, so on the question of giving birth to a boy or a girl in the first child, everyone will hold a different point of view, and all of them will call out these four trends, the first is that it is okay to have a boy or a girl, this kind of person does not have economic pressure and gender discrimination, and it hurts to have his own child. The second is that it is best to give birth to a boy for the first time, this kind of person will have the concept of patriarchy in his heart, and he really likes boys, but if he gives birth to a girl, it is also acceptable, which is a little different from the previous situation.

The third is that the last firstborn is a daughter, for this kind of people, the economic situation is okay, and it is more like girls, there may be a phenomenon of preference for women over men, but it is much happier than the first-born boys, and the fourth is to give birth to boys and girls together.

In fact, in the final analysis, the difference between the first-born "giving birth to a boy and giving birth to a girl" is nothing more than two kinds, one is economic pressure, and the other is ideology. If you consider economic issues, then if the firstborn is a son, then you have to plan to leave property for the child in the future, but if the boy is raised well, it must not be a loss of money, if it is not well raised, the firstborn is better to have a daughter, the daughter is more filial piety, and more sensible. If you have a first-born daughter, the financial pressure will be relatively less.

What about the ideology, the firstborn boy, don't worry about no one passing on the ancestry, now many older generations will have this kind of old thinking, if there is no boy, then continue to give birth until a boy is born, so what if one is still a girl? I have to accept the mental pressure from my family every day, and the pressure of being a woman is still not small. This distinction can be seen in the treatment of women.

It's good to have a son, the mother has a high status, and if she gives birth to a daughter, the treatment is almost bad.

There is no difference between giving birth to a boy and a girl, the mode of production is the same, and the degree of damage to the body is the same.

There is no difference between having a boy and a girl at first, having a boy and having a girl is also uncontrollable, and children are raised in the same way when they are young.

There is no difference between the firstborn boy and the born girl, and there is no way to tell.

In the face of childbirth, whether it is a girl or a boy, it is the same, so in a general sense, it is the same whether Di Jichang gives birth to a boy or a girl, and there is no difference. However, from the perspective of ordinary families and family affection, there is a difference between giving birth to a boy or a girl in the first child. If the first child is a girl, and at this time, because the opening of the second child is still like having another child, then the second child is a boy or a girl, because the first child is a girl, the gender of the second child is not important, whether the second child is a girl or a boy, the pressure on parents will be less.

Now there is no such thing as having only one baby, so it doesn't matter whether the first child is male or female, the important thing is the second child, the first-born man wants a woman, and the first-born woman wants a man. Of course, for those who want to have a child, first-born men are better.

It's good to have a boy or a girl, and it's not up to you. Giving birth to a boy and a girl is your fate with your children, you will be born if you have fate, and you can't ask for it without fate, so the children you give birth to must be cherished, and the same treatment is the proper attitude of parents.

It may be that most of them belong to the average family conditions, so the first child is hoped to be a daughter, and the second child is a son. The shirt is like this, and the children are both complete, and the family is happy. If you have the first son, you don't dare to have another child, although you want to have another daughter, you don't have the courage.

The mother has a very bad attitude towards her daughter, and she really feels sorry for the little girl. Maybe her mother just thinks that her sister is older, so she should let her younger brother say that your mother may like her brother or something, and the damage to the child's soul can be imagined. Moreover, children's minds are more sensitive and fragile.

Many people want to have a boy, and if they want a boy very much, the pressure of having a boy for the first child will not be so great. Around me, there are several mothers who said that the first child gave birth to a boy, and they are not afraid of being urged by the elders, because the first child is a girl, and the elders may be anxious to urge another boy, so the pressure will be greater, after all, no one can guarantee that the second child will be able to give birth to a boy.

If you give birth to a boy, you generally will not have a second child, because everyone knows that the pressure on boys is very high, and if the first child gives birth to a girl or a Changlu child, the second child will generally be born.

If a firstborn boy is born, the average family will prefer it, because the phenomenon of preference for sons over daughters still exists, and they feel that having a boy with false fortune is considered to have completed the task. If the first child is a girl, the general family will be a little lost, feel that it is not a boy, and feel a little bit of pressure difference, so they will hope that the next child can give birth to a boy.

There is no difference between giving birth to a boy and giving birth to a girl, and the sex of a boy and girl is determined by the chromosomes. Everyone's pregnancy will be different, so it is not possible to generalize.

For a family, it is a very happy thing to bring a baby in, and both the father and the mother-to-be will be ready for everything. Whether the first child is born a boy or a girl, parents will love them the same, many people are more curious about the difference between the first child "giving birth to a boy or a girl"? Let's take a look.

Although everyone now verbally says that boys and girls are equal to men and women, many families now, especially those with elderly people in the family, will still maintain the traditional idea of preference for sons, thinking that boys can inherit the incense of the family, but girls cannot, because sooner or later girls will marry and become members of other people's families, so if the first child is born to a girl, then soon after giving birth, the family will be required to have a second child, and the second child is better to be a boy. But everyone knows that the sex of the fetus cannot be artificially controlled, and the second child may be a boy or a girl. Therefore, when pregnant with the second child, the pregnant woman will have some pressure from the family, but if the first child is a boy, then it does not matter if the second child is born or not, because he has completed the task of passing on the lineage.

If the first child is born to a boy, and the second child happens to be a girl, then this combination is very popular with many families. In such a family, the elder brother will generally take care of the younger sister from an early age, which will make the child have a sense of responsibility and be stronger, and the younger sister will feel very happy when she grows up in this kind of family, and she will have an optimistic and strong character when she grows up, but if the first child is a girl, then the girl will be more careful, because the girl usually takes care of the younger brother, but the younger brother is easy to rely on the psychology of the elder sister under the care.

All in all, whether it is a boy or a girl, it is his own flesh and blood, so he must be fair when treating his children, whether it is a boy or a girl, he is a little angel of his parents, and he deserves to be loved for a lifetime.

Conception of fertility and parenting style. Fertility concept, the first child gives birth to a boy, the second child mostly wants to give birth to a girl, the first child gives birth to a girl, and the second child mostly wants to give birth to a boy; The parenting method is mostly "poor" for first-born boys, and rich for first-born girls.

If you give birth to a boy, because the child boy is more active and eats more than the girl, it requires parents to invest more energy, while the girl needs more emotional attention from the parents because of her delicate personality, and under the influence of traditional Chinese culture, if the firstborn boy is born, the fertility pressure will be relatively small.

There is not much difference between having a boy and having a girl, but there will be some differences in the way the child is educated, the parents' thoughts, the parents' mentality, whether to have a second child, and the child's growth.

Generally, parents will care about gender in the first child, some will want to give birth to a boy in the first child, can take care of younger brothers and sisters, and some, just want to give birth to a daughter in the first child, girls are more sensible, and they are very good at taking care of people, if they have to give birth to a child later, the child can be taken care of, and the mother can also save a lot of heart, so, is it better to give birth to a boy or a girl in the first child?

This is not necessarily, the first child gives birth to a girl, the second child may give birth to a boy and it is also possible to have a girl, this is generally uncontrollable, in fact, boys and girls don't matter, as long as the baby is healthy and healthy. Now most of the rural areas are more patriarchal, but they all understand a truth, boys are famous, girls are blessed, and they are very happy to have a boy, in fact, think carefully about how blessed the parents of the future are to give birth to a girl, because girls are more docile and obedient in comparison. Actually, it's all the same.

It mainly depends on how you cultivate, people's character can be shaped, if your daughter you treat her as a so-called boy who passes on incense, then she will inevitably be filial to her parents when she grows up, as for incense, depending on personal understanding, some people think that having offspring is incense, and some people feel that they must have a surname with themselves. As for boys, if you don't educate well, you will have a lot of money when you grow up. Moreover, marriage is now a union collision of three families, the original family of the husband and wife, and the newly established family.

Men and women are truly equal, and both parties enjoy the same rights and obligations. In the marriage of men and women, not only the man contributes money and efforts, but the woman cannot only contribute to herself, and this is not sold into the man's house. After marriage, the man and woman share the responsibility for the family economy and the education of the children, and be filial to both parents.

If everyone had this idea, maybe you wouldn't ask this question, after all, it's the same for boys and girls, and no one is better.

Since ancient times, there has been a saying of "male left and female right", and this tradition has always been respected by people, many people believe that because everyone has the habit of "male left and female right", many things are also like this, so it is inferred that the fetus will also like to move on a certain side of the uterus, if the pregnant woman is pregnant, she feels that the fetal movement is mostly on the left, then she is pregnant with a boy, and if she is mostly on the right, she is pregnant with a girl. Another theory is that because in everyone's concept, boys are more lively and active, and have more strength, while girls are more quiet and have less strength. So, if the fetus is punching and kicking when the fetus is moving, it is a boy, and if it is rolling around, it is a girl.

There is also a saying that if the fetus moves early, it is a boy, and if it is late, it is a girl, and in some places it is the other way around. In addition to the above statements, in fact, there are many theories about boys and girls that can be seen from fetal movements, but these statements are more believed by the older generation.