People who love each other, can t they be together, just because their father thinks he is poor

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Poverty can change a person. You don't know what you know.

    He will even do illegal things in order to make some money, causing your family to be unhappy.

    Most fathers think like this, in fact, fathers love their daughters the most, as daughters, you have to understand your father's thoughts...

    Daughters can talk to their fathers more, let their boyfriends contact their fathers more, let the father understand this person, many times girls have to believe in their father's vision, and most fathers will think that their daughter is innocent and will worry that she will not care about anything for that feeling. In fact, today's women are already very discerning, and even vicious to surpass the vast majority of men. If you think that you are the kind of woman with vision, then even if the father is still unwilling in the end, you have to insist, if so, you have to live happily in the future, don't let the father see the heartache...

    Believe me, the father really loves his daughter very much... Because I also like my daughter very much, hehe, although I don't have it yet, but there will definitely be in the future. ~!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Not necessarily! In fact, the father is for the good of his daughter, but he is afraid that his daughter will be unhappy and suffer! Being poor or rich is an acquired achievement, not a priori!

    The key is to let my father see that he is a responsible, self-motivated, and capable person! In this way, the father will feel at ease to hand over his daughter to him!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Marriage is based on money, and if poverty affects your life, then even if you are united, you will not be happy, on the contrary, it will be painful.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The father's idea must have been thinking about his daughter first, but he didn't know that because he couldn't be together because of his two people who loved each other, even though he didn't have any money now, you could let the father know that he had the ability to make money and make his daughter happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Now it's all such a problem, I don't know what to do anymore, from the perspective of boys, I'm afraid that women will say partiality, from the perspective of girls, I'm afraid that boys will be wronged, let's talk about personal opinions, if I'm a girl, my boyfriend's family conditions are not good, but he is very self-motivated, he works hard, and he loves me very much, then I will find a way to make it clear to my parents, parents want their children to be good, if you must be together, how can you be so embarrassed, give each other a chance, No matter how you choose in the end, just be worthy of yourself and your choice.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How old is he this year, you set a time with your father, let him go to work to make money, wait for three years and five years, earn enough money and then come back to marry you, this can also be regarded as a test for him, if he loves you, he will do whatever it takes, if he doesn't love you, you tell him this plan, if he thinks he can't do it, hehe, can't do it It's just an excuse,

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you think it's worth it to be hacked and don't understand by your family, ......... with your boyfriendBut you have to make sure that he doesn't do anything bad.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You already have the answer in your mind before you ask that.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think your father is reality, he loves you, and I'm afraid that you will suffer in the future. If he is capable, you may be happy, but if he can't support you, the outcome for you is not easy to say.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you can think about your future plans, choose a side.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no money to earn, which is also normal, and I don't want you to suffer. If you really love it, you have no choice but to get on the bus first and then pay the ticket.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Have a good talk with your dad and prove it to him, after all, he is your father. Also, the rich second generation or something is not worth saying at all, money, only through their own efforts can they be happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not terrible to be poor, it's terrible to be poor for a lifetime, look at him, if he loves you enough, self-motivated, and you love him, that's enough, you can be happy, and your father can't be very rich when he was young.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Work together to show your dad that he can feed you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's easy to do, as long as you insist that your parents will eventually agree, don't sway.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If it's true love, you shouldn't give up love because your current situation is not rich enough

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Try to change Try to show your dad that he loves you a lot.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Working together to make a difference!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Love is the collision of two hearts to produce the world of two people, the future of two people, a responsibility, a tolerance and so on Whoever has the advice of the third day, most of them do not participate in the construction of your future happiness Only two people sincerely know each other and love each other is the initiator of building family happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is for the two of you, as long as you want, I think your dad should be understandable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you can't buy a house, you live in your parents' house, and your parents can afford to support them.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're going to have to talk to your boyfriend about making him work hard.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Let's think about it first, after all, it's a major life event.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A person doesn't think you're beautiful or ugly, and when you're willing to be with you, will you think he's ugly? When a person doesn't think you're poor and wants to be with you, will you think he's poor? People use different keys to match different locks, some will be fitted, and some will be forcibly opened.

    No matter how loving a couple is, they will find fault with each other's shortcomings at the beginning, but it will be appropriate for a long time. Therefore, the shortcomings when they are unfamiliar are not considered shortcomings, and the shortcomings that are unbearable after familiarity are called shortcomings.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is no greater regret in my life than this. You don't know if you're doing well today? Don't know if you're happy or not? I don't know where you are, I don't know what you're heard from, I'm used to it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1, it's mainly up to you, whether you love your boyfriend or not, and you want to walk with him.

    2. Rationally analyze whether two people have the conditions to be together. (Do you want the economy to be in harmony with the three views of the two)

    3. As the saying goes: "Parents are thinking about their children", "Love that is not blessed must not be happy". If it is true love, convince your parents.

    4. May life be as it first seen, what did you like about your boyfriend at first? It must not be a money ,......Is it a potential stock? What kind of life do you want to live?

    Happiness is given to you by yourself, and I hope it can help you in a few words.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Depending on how you feel, the decision is yours.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This lies in you, and the road ahead is for you to go down with him, not your parents! It depends on whether this man has potential.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Perhaps you can first analyze the reason why he is poor.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Now many girls have such troubles, I want to ask, do you really love him, what do you love him, aside from your parents' opposition, is he worth your life for him? Are you willing to follow him in your own heart?

    If it is for sure, then, even if this man is very poor now, he must be a talented and motivated person, and you are not wronged with such a person. He will always remember that you were kind to him when he was in the desert, loved you for a lifetime, and loved you for a lifetime.

    Now let me ask you again, you are sure that you have done your best in front of your parents, that you have reached the point where you have a choice between him and your parents. I think it's negative, parents just want you to be happy, if happiness is by your side, why give up, you say that you are sometimes very tired with him, I want to say that life is like this, maybe your parents are very resolute, but I want to wait for you to hold your little grandson and go back to kowtow to him to confess your guilt, there is nothing that parents can't forgive, giving up on him forever, giving up on parents is temporary.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Parents do this for your own good, and who doesn't want their children to be happy?

    I don't want to say anything like that there is no condition for 2 people to work together now, it's true that poor couples mourn everything. If the conditions in your home are much better than his, don't be together.

    A woman's youth is only a few years, and you are all fighting for a house and a job in those years, and when you really have the conditions to sit down and dress up, you will find that you are already old.

    It's not my power, it's that women are always more realistic than men. When you live in the basement every day and eat steamed buns, how can you be in any mood to talk about love when you are overwhelmed by survival? People always have to face reality, especially when you don't have superior conditions.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If your parents don't like the rich and the poor, and they forcibly prevent you from falling in love with someone on the grounds of character. Don't try your best to love him just to prove them wrong, and you'll find that you're going to suffer more than you think.

    But if it's because of economic reasons, I think you should follow your heart and let your heart choose.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Depending on your actual situation, if you can buy a house in 10 years, then don't divide it.

    If the economy is really difficult and you are not afraid to live a poor life (including in the future), then you can also be together.

    Life is your own. Mom and Dad, they're just afraid that you're going to suffer. As long as you work hard to make money together, I think your parents will forgive you.

    It's not just money that brings happiness. The process of giving can also bring happiness.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The key question is whether love is really "sacred", you can confirm that your love is "sacred", I think of course you have to choose, of course, life will not favor you because your love is sacred.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then it depends on how much you have feelings for him, if you can't let go, just stay together, as long as you don't regret it later. As for your parents, tell them with happiness that your choice is the right one.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let's see that there is the possibility of development, if there is an opportunity to develop and make money, love If not, be realistic.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Be practical, see what age everyone is, divide it after 27, and give him some time before 27.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Being poor now is not necessarily poor in the future, everyone has gone from poor to rich!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course! A daughter is a parent's baby! If she suffers every day after she gets married, her parents will not cry every day.

    Money is not the only thing, but it is necessary, ability is the only thing, and the peace of mind of the two families is the key. First of all, let your parents feel at ease! in order to get the scriptures that reassure others. Hehe!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    No, I despise Yunnan, just because I don't have money, self-cultivation, Qi family, governing the country, leveling the world, first "self-cultivation" to make money!!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Generally speaking, as long as the quality of life can be guaranteed, the level of life is fine. It is impossible for all girls to marry rich and handsome...

    If the basic economic conditions are still there. Let's look forward to someone who is destined. If it is really not enough to guarantee a basic standard of living. It is advisable to fight first. This is really an embarrassing question...

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's not about money. Maybe the appearance doesn't give a good impression. It has nothing to do with ugliness.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I want to say that since he himself has shown that he doesn't want to be with you in a Zen spirit, tell my brother to give up, it is he who gave up on you, his heart is gone, how can He Jian's loss be recovered, a girl who values love and righteousness will not be liked by no one, waiting for your true destiny.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you really love each other, you won't be separated because you dislike his family's poverty!

    What's more, love is a matter of two people, why must there be money in the middle to measure?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    What can you do if you love or not, everyone has dignity, your parents dislike their family for being poor, what about you, the family can't choose by itself, you can choose by yourself in the future

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Break up sister, he doesn't love you, the man who loves you will fight for you, not let go easily.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Hehe, don't be angry, they are all for your good, they don't want you to live a hard life, and you have to establish a good relationship with both parties, you are the best bridge

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It is not your parents or your children who will accompany you for the rest of your life! It's your husband! So the final choice is yours!

    As long as you truly love each other and your man is self-motivated, it won't be long before his conditions will be good! What he needs is opportunity! Even if your parents and family don't agree, they will always compromise, it's up to you to make up your mind!

    If it's a good man, don't miss it!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Money is earned by people, and being poor now does not mean that you will be poor in the future.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Only lying is the most effective, while telling my family that I didn't have a relationship with him, let your boyfriend make some achievements for the family to see!!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Let your boyfriend work hard, although you can't come up with anything now, at least let your parents see the hope that they will be happy in the future, everyone's starting line after birth is different, but life is to run the same height on different starting lines All life is a process of operating from scratch, and the final enjoyment is to have a house, a car, food and drink, because the parents have come, some have done it and some have not done it, no matter whether they do it or not, they all want their children to enjoy it directly, so they can't blame them! But managing your own life with the person you love and enjoying this process of starting from scratch is no regrets and the happiest in this life

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