Parents brag about their children, what should children do?

Your dad is a good face, and he brags about it partly for his own vanity and partly for you. If he is a little older, and your generation gap can no longer be canceled, you can let him go, and treat it according to his heart, after all, with your strength, you can't change him in a few years, because it is difficult for you to even change yourself, let alone change them. Cherish the rest of your life with your father.

Your father was proud of you, and although it was an ordinary job, it was a great job in his eyes. In fact, there is no need to be too serious with your parents after independence, they are getting older and slowly detached from society, they don't know more and more about you, and they will have more and more unrealistic illusions, they try to use their own experience and cognition to depict your life as you go farther and farther, and naturally you look at things from a different angle. Think about it from another angle, Dad does not have any real impact on you, it is his own life, you don't like him to influence you, he doesn't like you to guide him, you are already two independent individuals, take care of yourself, let him go.

Let me talk about my dad, who loves to brag and show off, earning 500,000 can blow 5 million, my dad graduated from elementary school, his friends are very bloody, all kinds of blowing to the sky, there is really something, no one can be found alive or dead, when borrowing money, the brothers are long and the brothers are short, and the dog will be turned off for 10,000 years after borrowing money. Dad himself is very hard, but he especially likes to listen to sycophants, don't be pitted, but there are pits to continue to jump, the key is at home, the family does not listen, in recent years, the family is not very good, he took out a loan to **, and lost money every year. There are constant quarrels in the family.

To sum up, it is to be dead to himself, to others to be generous, to dislike the poor and love the rich, and the worst thing is that he believes others to brag.

Talk about your parents and tell them what your parents had wrong.

I also have a father who loves face very much, and he often can't hang up. And it is also patriarchal. In the eyes of others, he was a very generous person, and as long as he had money in his pocket at that time, he would definitely use it.

Helping other people's affairs is more active than their own affairs, and they love to guarantee everything. I don't have much affection for him. What kind of character a person has will dominate what kind of destiny.

I feel sorry for him, he can't feel sorry, and he really doesn't need me to do anything. I can do my filial piety, everyone has their own way of life, don't think that I can change a person, even my parents. I used to be tired of doing this, but I wasn't a human being outside my mother's house.

Hehe, women are like this, when you marry your parents, you are an outsider!

As an authentic filial son, when my father drank two cups and blew them up, not only would I not expose him, but I would cater to him, as long as he was happy. I'm going to fulfill the bull he boasted about for my father! Once when we were drunk, my father proudly said to me, "Son, I will serve you alone in this life, because your father is better than my father, and your son will be better than my son in the future, and you won!"

If you don't brag, how can you stop the child when there is nothing more to do? It's useless and you want to point fingers at the child, why don't you rely on bragging to increase your strength? Of course, when you ask him to pay, your father is useless, he can't help you, you have to rely on yourself to think that the child is rich, then you can blow hard, and after blowing, you don't forget to stab the knife in the back and communicate carefully.

I once told my dad that I was starting to learn Japanese, so I taught myself 50 tones, but when I went out to eat, he bragged to my relatives about how good I was, and I knew both Korean and Japanese. At that time, I could only laugh next to him, which was extremely embarrassing. After this kind of thing for a long time, I didn't dare to tell my parents anything, and as a result, they still bragged about me in various ways.

The child is especially fond of lying and bragging, how should he be educated? Children love to lie and brag, and parents get upset. We want our children to be honest.

Parents must understand that children are not born with a moral code. As children grow, they come to understand what it means to lie and brag, and the need to be honest.

Children under the age of 3 are in a highly chaotic world. The angry tone of an adult's question can make them afraid. They lie to protect themselves and appease adults.

Children between the ages of 3 and 7 are still figuring out the difference between fantasy and reality. They create imaginary worlds, for example, children may, prepare seats for imaginary friends. From the age of 5 to 10, children gradually understand what it means to lie.

They want to be recognized by adults. As children grow, they lie, and there may be other reasons. For example, in order to gain approval from their peers, they may lie.

Or, they want to get rid of things they don't want to do, like homework. In addition, children may also lie if their parents' restrictions are too strict. If a child brags, this may indicate low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, or lack of maturity.

Sometimes, children brag in the hope that they will be accepted. In addition, children lack social skills, and they may want to, by bragging, finding and building friendships.

When a child lies and brags, don't label the child as **, which will hit the child's confidence. Help your child understand that other people don't like to lie and brag and that they don't like to be friends with such people. In addition, children will imitate the behavior of adults, and parents should not lie and brag in front of children.

Parents can also help their children develop better social skills. At the same time, make sure that children know that their parents love them and are proud of them.

You should educate him in a scientific and effective way, tell him that such a practice will not be liked, but also cultivate the correct virtues of the child, and tell the child the importance of honesty and trustworthiness.

I think you can only educate through communication, try to be as gentle as possible, and be sure to tell your children that this is wrong, and I believe they will correct it slowly.

Children should be taught that this kind of behavior is particularly bad, and children should be told to be realistic at all times.

In this case, parents should actively guide their children, and at the same time need to tell their children that this behavior is incorrect, such behavior will be complained by others, and this behavior will also affect their own popularity, so that children can make changes.

1 Don't be intimidated by the children's boasts, because whether they are talking about how great they are or how much resources they can get, it is mostly just a language made up of a series of meaningless symbols. Since there is no substantive referential significance, there is no need to talk about the discoloration of "cattle". 2 The process of bragging is worth paying attention to, and what we should pay attention to and guide is the children's words about bragging, that is, bragging as a communicative process to analyze, including who to bragged, why to blow, and what the result of bragging.

For example, whether bragging satisfies their narcissism and produces a sense of pleasure; Bragging inspires a sense of humor and develops imagination; Does bragging about it improve their pleasantness and make them more popular. If this verbal process and result are not good, or even cause them some harm, including the possibility of bragging excessively being questioned by peers and causing inferiority, or always getting used to being high and being rejected by peers, etc., it means that the behavior of blowing imitation ears and lifting cattle has reached the level that needs our attention. We may need to reflect:

Whether there are some restrictions or scarcity in daily parenting, so that children experience relatively low self-esteem and emptiness; Whether there is a situation of "praising the result but not the process" in the daily motivation, such as affirming the child "you are great", but not affirming the child "you really work hard"; Whether parents often exaggerate facts and fail to fulfill promises in their daily words and deeds, and in their interactions with their children, etc. 4.Adult "kids" who brag about it are actually more adults than children, and bragging sometimes happens just before those quiet breakdowns.

It tends to blow high and fall miserably. To our parents, we boast about our achievements and the hardships we have suffered.

Children love to brag, parents should first praise their children for showing themselves well in front of others, and after praising them, they should tell their children to seek truth from facts in everything, and tell their children that if others find out that you are bragging, they will feel that you are not real.

If the child is more fond of bragging, it means that at his age his vanity is relatively large, and he may know that he is inferior to others in a certain aspect, so he always likes to guide others to think that he also has it by talking to himself, so at this time, parents should talk to their children to see what the child lacks, and then ask the child to correct it.

Parents should correct their children to have good values. If the child loves to brag, parents should have a serious talk with the child to avoid the child being conceited and arrogant, which is not good for the child's future development.

First of all, as a parent, you should lead by example, and then communicate and communicate with your child to let your child know that he should be honest and not exaggerate.

First of all, parents should let their children understand the harm of lying, and at the same time, they should also strengthen their supervision of their children, so as to avoid children from being arrogant.

You should patiently tell her that this is a bad behavior, and correct him in time so that he can grow up healthy and happy.

Children learn to brag to show that their vanity is more serious, and they should be allowed to experience the hardships of life, know how to be down-to-earth, and seek truth from facts.

In fact, learning to brag in a certain sense is also a manifestation of vanity, first of all, to see whether his behavior is very different from reality, if it is very different from reality, you need to correct the baby, tell him that this behavior is not good, it is lying in a certain sense, but if it is not much different from reality, it is still acceptable.

Then parents should guide their children correctly and let them know that this is wrong when they brag about it.

Hello. In the face of children who talk big, parents don't have to be anxious to see if they belong to the following situations?

1.Young children's "bragging" is mostly due to their limited ability to understand words, and they will often "take the words out of context" from their parents, and only listen to the few sentences they are interested in. In this way, when they repeat and paraphrase their parents' words, there will be situations that do not conform to the facts and look like bragging.

When the child is older, the situation will get better.

2.Children before the age of five still live in the world of imagination. It is easy to think according to one's own desires, to substitute imagination for reality, and to say things that are impossible in reality. As the child gets older, this will gradually decrease.

3.There is also a situation where children love to talk big in order to attract the attention of their parents, and this situation needs to be paid attention to by parents.