How are the poor students in the class doing now?

Seeing this, I can't help but think of my elementary school classmates, I believe that everyone has this experience, every class has those students who are the worst in the teacher's opinion. In fact, I didn't agree with the teacher's statement at that time, probably because I had a good relationship with them in private, I could play with them, and I knew them better, and I didn't think that they had bad grades and were the worst students. So far, it turns out that I'm right, they're not the worst.

Student A's grades have always been at the bottom of the class, and if it weren't for the nine-year compulsory education, he would definitely not even be able to pass the junior high school exam. Not surprisingly, he had to go to the junior high school in the area where we were going. In junior high school, he was also the demon king of the mixed world, one of the students who always gave the teacher the most headache, smoking and drinking, sometimes going over the wall to go out to surf the Internet, all night, I even thought he wouldn't even finish junior high school.

But I didn't expect him to finish junior high school after a rough ride, and what I didn't expect was that when I heard from him later, he was already in the army. I also had a complex when I was a child, enlisting in the army, but it was impossible to achieve it for various reasons, so when I heard that he was in the army, I was so surprised, and I admired him very much. When I saw him again many years later, he had already retired from the army, and his body no longer looked like a ruffian, but was full of the perseverance of a soldier.

Later, in my circle of friends, I can always see him running from south to north, flying in the northwest of the motherland for a while, and traveling in the bustling east for a while. Recently, I also heard that she has a girlfriend and is about to get married. Listening to my mom talk about him, she was always full of praise and said:

Which of your classmates has the ability now, what kind of job has you found, and you're ready to get married (classmate A is from our village). <

Classmate B, I kept in touch with him, and he also came to my house to play during the Chinese New Year, and we talked about our life and experiences in the past few days. What I hear him talk about the most is that I really envy you people who are still studying. He also told me to study hard and find a good job in the future, so that I don't have to work as hard as him.

He used to be one of the problem students, lazy and lazy, and he didn't have any goals after graduating from junior high school. According to his account, in the first year or two, he was still asking for money from his parents, and he didn't have a stable job. One day he realized that he couldn't do this anymore, so he offered to learn a skill, he was more interested in cooking, and then he went to learn to cook.

Needless to say, there were hardships, and when I saw his hands, I knew that he had endured a lot of hardships. Fortunately, after his hard work, his salary is not low now, and his life is slowly getting better and better.

Who says you can't live well if you're a poor student? What we usually call a bad student. It is because of their poor academic performance, however, a person's poor academic performance does not negate the ability of his whole person.

I should be a good student in the teacher's heart, I have always been obedient and have good grades, and the poor students in our class were not liked by the teacher, but they seem to be different from the lucky penultimate in your class, and their lives are obviously much harder

Let's talk about girls first, the girls in our class with poor grades basically haven't even gone to junior college now, most of them have graduated from junior high school, and their studies have come to an end. Those girls in our class now only have two types of fate, the first type, already have children, every day in their teens began to be ignorant with children, I sometimes watch them show their cute babies, although you will comment below You are really blessed, but I still feel in my heart that her life has been ruined, shouldn't women now work hard until they are thirty years old and then consider the problem of children? <>

The second category, who don't have children and are still working, but those jobs feel bad. I often see them wearing off-the-shoulder clothes in the bar, and the ** exposed in the space is dim lighting and heavy makeup, and I know that their lives are very rotten at a glance, and I even suspect that they are young ladies who are alive. Of course, this is also a bit of a posture, the long ones are generally doing the same work as mechanical movement in the factory, and the factory is so polluted, I sweat for them.

And the boys in our class who have poor grades used to have a passion and wanted to run south and north. There are a lot of places to go, but there is still no serious work, some are doing the promotion of an obstetrics and gynecology hospital in Qingdao, and some are extras in Guangdong, and their enthusiasm is still defeated by the reality that they can't officially join the company with low education. Therefore, looking at their situation, I am especially glad that I have been studying hard and being admitted to university, so I don't have to be trampled on at the bottom of society.

When we are studying, we often use grades to divide grades, people with good grades will often become good children of teachers, and students with poor grades will become students hated by teachers, in fact, it is an unfair thing to divide grades by learning, when we are studying, good grades can only mean that your IQ is very high, but it does not mean that your grades are very good after your life will be very successful, we often find such a situation, People with good grades don't mix well as those with poor grades in society in the future.

At that time, the teacher in our class made such a joke, now you have good academic performance maybe after graduation will work for people with poor grades, at that time we all laughed, if good grades people want to work for people with poor grades, then we study not to be able to get ahead in the future, then learning will lose its own meaning. However, the reality is really like a joke, when I was still in college, my junior high school friend had very poor grades at that time, so that he went to a vocational high school and graduated from work after 2 years, and such a person only had a vocational high school diploma, but he became a boss when I was in college.

In fact, when I was still enjoying the comfortable life of the university, he walked in the society, and indeed he suffered a lot more than me, in front of him, we college students were just a group of so-called senior students who took the money of the family to study in the university, and he experienced great difficulties, and he tried his best in the process of starting a business many things that we have not experienced.

In fact, reading well does not necessarily mean that you will be good, a person can only be able to endure hardships, even if it is a person who reads poorly, there will be a day when the salted fish turns over.

Learning is not the only way out, it seems that some people no matter how hard they work, after decades, they are not as good as the rich second generation. Anyway, I don't dare to look down on the poor students in the class easily since junior high school, really, it is possible that you will have to work for these people after graduation, so don't look at his classmates who are not good at studying with a discriminatory eye, because they may really develop better than you in the future.

It turns out that it was really the bad students in the class that year, and many of them were doing well, although not all of them, but there were some individual examples that were really well developed. Take junior high school classmates as an example, his grades in the class were not very good, and the teacher did not like him very much, although he did not commit any discipline problems, but the teacher just looked at him unpleasantly, always embarrassed him, the nose is not the nose, the eyes are not the eyes.

Later, in the second semester of the second year of junior high school, he chose to drop out because he felt very annoyed and couldn't stand the teacher's behavior. After dropping out of school, we didn't hear from him for a long time, thinking that he went to work or something, and slowly stopped contacting. Later, when we were in high school, it seems that we were sophomores in high school, and we received a notice from him that he had opened a hot pot city in our local area, and invited us to dinner on the opening day.

In fact, it was really shocking to be serious, because we didn't think that he would choose to start his own business, because starting a business in us is not an easy thing, and he does not rely on the ability of his parents, but he works by himself, and then takes out a loan, and does it himself from scratch.

In fact, I really admire him, because a person has no academic qualifications, and it is really not easy to work outside. Therefore, don't look down on poor students easily, making a fortune is not just based on grades.

Introduction: Students' academic performance has always been concerned by parents, if the child does not study well, the pressure on parents will be relatively large, and they want to improve their academic performance in various ways, but you must know that there are poor students and excellent students in a class. The teachers have the same learning environment, but the grades are not the same, and parents are also very confused.

Everyone's receptivity is different, especially for students, if the learning ability is better, then his grades are better. Parents should not care too much, of course, they also need to have a certain amount of guidance, it cannot be said that the gap between children and others is too big, you must know that each child's development speed is different, so parents should use different methods to treat.

And you must know that some differences exist in the ancestors, and genetic factors are also an important factor in non-bridge shooting, it is inevitable that there are poor students and art students in a class, and the teacher's task is to make the poor students become fewer and make more excellent students, in fact, the teachers are the same teaching, and they do not say who to open a small stove, but for the kind of students whose academic performance is weaker, they will take more care, but the students' receptivity is different, and there is no way to force too much.

Some students will review carefully when they come home, but some students will play when they come home, and parents do not ask too much, and he does not have a good environment, resulting in no way to improve their academic performance, of course, it is very important to find a good way to learn, not a method is applicable, all parents must change according to the child's situation.

There are children's problems, and there are also teachers' reasons, a teacher's attitude towards children's mu Tudan is not the same, which will affect the child's grades, and the child's willingness to learn and unwilling to learn, which will also affect the academic performance.

This is because everyone's learning ability is completely different, and children's ability to accept knowledge is completely different, so the academic performance is good and bad, and the lack of imitation is also related to the teacher's teaching quality and teaching ability.

That's the slippery potato cherry because each child's growth and IQ have a big difference in the letter plexus, it should be the child's reason, and the hand is always because the teacher teaches the child is the same, so many times it is because the child does not work hard to learn.

I have a good life, I know one, he came out early to work, and now he runs his own factory, probably his ability is not in the study area, so his academic performance is not very good.

Many of the poor students around me did not go to college, so they went to the technical school of our factory children and were assigned to work as operators in the factory. Later, the national policy was to convert all of them to regular employees at one time, and the salary and bonus were much better than mine, and I also enjoyed various benefits. Like me, who didn't have particularly top grades, went to a not very famous university, worked as a clerk in a private company, and couldn't make ends meet.

I knew that this was the case, and it was better to go to a technical school and become a worker like them. The children of workers can only be workers, without connections, and no matter how much knowledge they have, they will not be able to find a good unit.

Some work for others, and some start their own businesses, and they are not bad, and their lives are considered rich.

Many of them didn't go to high school, so they went directly into the society to work, and they got married, but they had a hard time.

I'm serious about telling you not to be afraid.

I've experienced your anxiety right now. emmm。。Tell me about me.

From elementary school to my first year of high school, I never went to any key classes. In the past, the grades were still said, and the teachers and parents didn't worry much. I was very happy to live and learn very happily.

I don't know if it was a coincidence or a coincidence, I went to the key class when I was in the second year of high school.

To be honest, I'm not happy.

I've never experienced the atmosphere of a key class. The atmosphere in the lab class was even more viscous than I had imagined. I found that everybody is working hard, and it's the kind of person who works hard all the time.

I think I'm working hard, but it turns out that the people who have been in the key classes are a little bit more talented than me.

My sophomore and junior years of high school were miserable. In the past, it was basically the top three in the ordinary class, and after arriving at the experimental class, I basically had to add a countdown. Hehe..

It's true that I'm mentally stressed, but I think I'm really lucky and lucky that my teachers and classmates have been helping me. I was worse than my classmates, but they never laughed at me, I went to the questions, and sometimes I didn't understand them, and they would sort out the most basic knowledge points for me. Now that I think about it, I'm really grateful to them.

And my teacher, my homeroom teacher will talk to me very gently, comfort me, and tell me that everyone will help me together, and my other teachers will patiently answer my every question and encourage me to ask questions actively next time I have a problem.

I told my story in general terms, I was not a successful person in the college entrance examination. But I met a warm group of people. What I want to tell the subject is that sometimes don't deny yourself and don't fall into the cycle of anxiety.

The three years of high school are very short, and you can't afford to delay your time. It's true. High school mentality is too important, don't think about one step to the sky, don't think about what others think of you, since you have good resources around you, boldly use them, I think you go to the first middle school instead of the second middle school key class is also for this reason.

Don't be afraid. There is no shame in asking questions boldly, and those who shy away for the sake of face are fools. Take 10,000 steps back, they laughed at you for a while, but they couldn't laugh at you for a lifetime.

Countdown is nothing, really. Don't waste time on anxiety and self-indulgence, just study your homework, don't think about it overnight, success is not an illusion, it is a down-to-earth step by step.

Well.. My junior high school homeroom teacher once told me a sentence that I have remembered for many years, and now I give it to you: "Learning is to study deeply".

Another sentence was given to me by my high school homeroom teacher: "You must know that there is a word in this world called late bloomer." ”