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At first, there were only a few people in the group, but then one pulled one, one pulled one, and now there are more than thirty.
I rarely talk in the group, that is, I occasionally look at their chat history and learn about the recent situation of some of my classmates.
The girl who used to be the best in our class has now been working outside for many years.
I remember when she was in the second or third grade, she was the president of our class. Later, when I started the fourth grade, I mixed up with people outside. People on our side are generally precocious, so there's nothing surprising about it. At that time, she was really wrong, with long thick bangs, black **, and a thin figure.
Later, when she was in junior high school, she went back to her hometown to study, but she stopped studying in the second year of junior high school and came out to work. I've been working for about six years.
Looking at the messages she sent in the group, that tone seems to have faded away from the ruffian atmosphere of the year. Now she is more gentle and calm.
The other girl, on the other hand, had a similar experience to her. When she was in the fourth grade, her grades were very good, and her parents were extremely strict with her.
But after the fifth grade, she also went to mix. She was very beautiful, and with more and more suitors, she began to fall in love. Later, she was taken back to her hometown by her parents. I didn't have any contact with her after that.
It seems that the years when she went out to hang out were just a small episode in her life, and now everything is on track again.
And the bunch of boys in our class, they were also very famous back then. Looking at their conversation now, they are also quite mature. No longer like before, exploding foul language at every turn. It's no longer the same as before, when you can't make jokes and fight at every turn.
Now they have become very talkative and more civilized. Of course, they have already entered society. Perhaps it is the reality of this society that has smoothed out their edges and corners, or perhaps time has made them gradually mature.
They are engaged in different professions, but none of them seem to be too hard. Maybe I've been working for a long time, and I've made a little achievement.
But one thing that strikes me is that the friendship between them is still there. When everyone mixes together, after each has its own life, they will still help each other and take care of each other.
In short, those little gangsters back then, although they are not mixed well now, they are not too bad. Everything is as it should be, and fate is always determined by character.
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It reminds me of a classmate of mine in elementary school, who is a gangster, and you probably can't imagine that such a small grade can do so many things. I remember that he went to the teacher's office to steal something and was discovered. What he stole was not any valuables, but a small notebook that our teacher usually gave us, and a notebook looked like about five dimes for takeaway at school.
The teacher didn't notice it at first, but happened to see him buying a lot of books on the street. He was selling triangular money at the time, and the business was also very hot. Let's not talk about him stealing things for the time being, but he's really business-minded, so you can see how he is now.
Like all the thugs, he probably dropped out of school by the time he was in junior high school. Then I heard that he went to Guangzhou to work alone, and at that time there was no WeChat, so he opened a small shop on **. Because Guangzhou is very close to Hong Kong, people often ask him to **.
Now he has become a very famous micro-businessman, and he makes a lot of money, but he didn't participate in the elementary school party or something, and it is estimated that he wants to forget that "glorious years". Although he was often criticized by the school for fighting and brawling when he was a child, and his grades were not good, he still relied on his own skills for so many years to fight for a world.
In fact, there are 360 lines, and the line is the champion. We can't judge a person's life from a person's moment, maybe the gangsters in our class are just an example, but I have to say that he is still a very hard-working person, and he has a business acumen since he was a child, but I still hope that no matter what, the gangsters must do less bad things.
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I believe that when I was a student, there would be a few people in each class who didn't study.
People who are naughty and mischievous every day, these people are called "little gangsters" by the teachers, so what do these little gangsters dare to do after graduation?
What kind of life are they living now?
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Nowadays, at the door of many primary and secondary schools, we often find some students who smoke and fight, for these students, not only parents feel very headaches, but also teachers. There are a lot of people who think, do teachers really care about these bastard students?
In fact, for some gangster students, the teacher wants to manage them, but the teacher can't control these students, especially those who are in junior high school. If the teacher were to manage it, the students would probably get angry and beat up the teacher. Some parents may feel very shocked, will the student still hit the teacher?
It's true, and I encountered it when I was in school. Therefore, many teachers have repeatedly reminded that if the students do not make changes, the teachers will not care about these students. And I also feel that the management of students is not the responsibility of the teacher alone, and the parents also have a great responsibility, and if the parents do not cooperate with the teacher, the child may be more rebellious.
There are many parents who feel that their work is very busy, and they spend money to send their children to school every day, and it should be the responsibility of the teacher to educate the students. But if parents think so, then your child will definitely learn a lot of bad habits. As parents, we should also pay more attention to our children and comfort our children, so that children can feel the warmth of their parents and will not be so rebellious.
We need to know that the student is never the teacher's child, so the teacher has absolutely no way to devote himself wholeheartedly. In the case of students, if we don't want our children to regret it in the future, then the management of children is absolutely indispensable. If everyone blindly blames all the blame on the teacher, then your child will definitely hate you in the future.
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Teachers must be in charge, teachers must communicate with students, communicate with parents, and stop students' behavior in a timely manner.
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The teacher doesn't care if it's bad, because if the teacher doesn't care, the child's growth will be very bad, and there is no good three views.
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I think this is not good, it will affect the future development of children, and it is the responsibility of teachers to manage students.
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It's not good, it may make the child more arrogant, and some of the things the child does are very unreasonable.
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When I was in junior high school, when I had a weekly court meeting, I would always hear the leader criticize a few classmates by name on stage, and you would always find that it was often a few classmates. Naughty and mischievous, fighting and causing trouble are not all possible. Actually, I never knew what their lives were like.
Isn't it okay to study hard and keep to yourself? You have to do things all day long.
Now I have very little contact, and I don't know what happened to me. I guess it's either getting married, having children, becoming a father or mother, or still crawling around in society. In fact, the people who were chaotic at that time have now changed their ways and are working well.
After all, I was ignorant at that time, besides, who didn't have a rebellious period of youth?
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In fact, the so-called gangsters at that time did not seem to be particularly serious now, but for our simple students, it still looked relatively bad.
But after graduation, people are living very well, and they have returned to normal life, relatively speaking, they are still more righteous, and sometimes they will lend a helping hand when they encounter difficulties.
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My high school dormitory classmates often formed a small group with some friends around me, and if necessary, they would often pull out the steel pipe from under the bed and run outside the school to fight in groups.
Because he was more socially good at school, now after graduating from college, he can still eat well when he returns to our small county, and he has opened a small company with a few friends from the past, and his life is also very nourishing. At least I think it's better than me.
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Those who have money inherit the family property, and those who have no money go to work on the construction site, those people are young and ignorant, and they have harmed their lives, and they can only succeed in studying, this is the truest words!
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I don't know why, no matter those "gangster" classmates in elementary and middle school, I have a good relationship with me, both men and women, and they are very polite to me, although I often hear that they go to fight or something haha, I'm just ordinary and transparent. Later, I heard that some of them went to vocational school after graduating from high school, and after graduation, they went to work, and some of them got married, no matter what they did before, now it is best to live their own lives.
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The real situation!! Li in our class took the physical education exam, and I was also in the same class in junior high school, and the high school class was assigned to a class, a physical education student. Now I am a physical education teacher.
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All live an ordinary life. People who are unruly in school will eventually be taught by society and become ordinary.
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It turned out that the good classmates took the lead in forming a "fairy club" to bully weak students, and later the teacher found out.
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It is said that the "gangsters" in the school at the beginning, those who have money go home to inherit the family business, those who study well are still studying, and those who study poorly either go to work (the family background is generally not possible), or go to prison (I have no ability and want to make a fortune), and I, as a school gang leader in the middle of the academic performance, was later admitted to the university after hard work, and now I have become an office worker who works in a listed company and gets a normal salary.
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Now I regret dying, when I was in junior high school, there was a male classmate in my class, who thought he was strong in martial arts all day long, invincible in the world, and caused trouble everywhere, and took pleasure in bullying us boys who were honest and didn't dare to cause trouble. More than ten years later, I became a police officer, once when dealing with a crowd brawl case, I accidentally found that my classmate was the main participant in this case, he was sentenced to three years in prison for assault, after the release of the sentence, because of this stain, until now in his 30s has not found a job, the employer saw that he was a bad offender, directly canceled him to participate in the interview, and now he can only occasionally go to some small places that do not need to issue a certificate of no criminal record to do odd jobs, I earn less than 2,000 yuan a month. Because he likes to beat people is famous, there are not even many people who introduce him to a girlfriend, and he is still single, he has told me more than once, I knew that it was the end now, it was better to be an honest student in school, even if I didn't study well, at least I could have the opportunity to find a decent job, but now it's good, as soon as others heard that he was a person released from prison, they immediately cast a strange look at him, and he is really remorseful now.
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There was a particularly crazy guy in junior high school who is now screwing in an electronics factory.
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Later, they couldn't even pass the junior high school exam, and either went to an electronics factory or mixed with the elders in the family.
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But many people will definitely have a polarization phenomenon when they go to school, one is that they are very passionate about learning and their grades are very good, but there are some students who they hate to study and often mess around in the class. But from the point of view of the student days, this kind of person who loves learning should have a very good future, but people who mess around in the class generally do not have much way out, but this statement is not absolute, becauseThe success or failure of a person is not determined by grades, and many other factors are related, such as a person's family background, social opportunities and people's ability to do things, will have a great impact on a person's future, so it is not rigorous to say that grades alone determine their future prospects. However, I can tell you very responsibly that most of those who often messed around in their student days did not have a particularly good future, and only a few of them could start another period of their lives through other opportunities, and here are some of my views.
1. Success is related to many factors, a person's future success is related to many factors, the simplest example is that after a person graduates from college, if his family has the conditions, he will find a very good job, but some students who study well do not have such resources, then most of them are not as good as these students who do not study well. Therefore, students who often mess around during their student days may not necessarily be eliminated by society.
Second, some people don't go to school for grades, when I was in school, there was such a classmate who often messed around in the class, but what he said so I said was that his parents asked him to come here just to get a degree and make some friends. He didn't really pay special attention to his study, because his family had already arranged everything.
Third, most of the students who leave school early and often mix in the class when they are students, most of them will drop out of school when they are admitted to college, because their academic performance can not make them enter a university, so they often go to work in the society after graduating from high school, if there are no other opportunities in his life, then this life is basically fixed.
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