The essentials of the integration of old husbands and wives?

The most important foundation for the integration of old husbands and wives is trust! The old husband and wife have lived together for a long time, and they have a deep understanding of each other, know each other, and should give full trust to each other.

Build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses. Respect each other as guests.

The old husband and wife model can get along very warmly.

For some old couples, hugs are rarely seen in daily life, and if you can give each other a warm hug when they are sick or in a bad mood, I think it will inevitably make the relationship between you warm up quickly. Enhancing the inner distance between two people is better than anything else.

So don't be too embarrassed to congratulate your grandson, don't be stingy with your hugs, if you love each other deeply, just open your generous arms to the fullest. The only constant in the world is change, and the same is true for people, who change all the time, both physically and psychologically. Only by understanding each other's situation more will they be able to handle each other's relationship well.

Make time to go on a date

Appropriately learn about young people, watch a movie together, make a date, etc. Especially for those whose children are not around and only the husband and wife get along, you can go out to eat together on holidays and choose a more romantic place. Or go to a movie to add some mood, which will keep each other's cautious chain of emotional temperature hot, and will also make each other physically and mentally comfortable.

Old husbands and wives can better regulate each other's emotional temperature by doing this, cooking together, doing housework together, sharing dividends and cooperating, and experiencing the ordinary happiness of daily life. In fact, the best happiness is to get along with each other, you can feel at ease and happy, and it is also a process of communication and communication with each other in the process of doing housework and cooking with each other.

The main thing is that two people can understand each other and understand each other. This is very important. Husbands and wives need to be sincere in order to grow old.

It is because these couples are very honest with each other in normal times and will leave a lot of space for each other, so they will get along until they are old.

That is, although they are occasionally noisy with each other, they will not hold grudges, know how to care about each other, understand each other and tolerate each other, and they can get along with each other until they grow old.

After so many years, what's the quarrel, in fact, the child is no longer around, the big thing is gone, but the small thing keeps causing disputes, if no one wants to tolerate, then it's a bad dish! Alas, think about it carefully, in this life, there are not long easy days, when you are old, who is the dearest? Children?

Parents? Siblings? Friends?

No, only my wife is the closest, because she or he is in front of you and the model every day, instead of arguing all day long, it is better to be more tolerant, care more about each other, and live comfortably every day. Anger is temporary, and in the past, there was no anger. When you encounter a problem, you don't have to say a word.

Be considerate of each other, usually go shopping, eat, watch movies, travel or something together.

In fact, I feel that the relationship between the old husband and wife has cooled down not because of time, but because of the mentality, if the two of you can keep the mentality in the time of love, then no matter how many years you have been together, it will still be as sweet as it was at the beginning, don't wear out the blazing heart because of the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life. A happy marriage requires not only the exchange of ideas, but also the exchange of feelings, and keeping feelings in one's own heart will push the other person out of one's own life. A common mistake that older couples make when it comes to emotional development is:

Overly realistic, but lacking imagination, overwhelmed by trivial things such as firewood, rice, oil and salt every day, too simple and lacking in taste, often suffocated by dullness and dullness.

You should always insist on the continuous cultivation of feelings. The highest happiness in life is to feel loved. Affection is the soul of marriage, and a marriage without emotion is like a grave.

Feelings are very delicate, hot can be like fire, cold can be like ice, can raise people or hurt people. Anyone in a marriage needs to maintain a good relationship. The relationship between husband and wife in old age is more important than the relationship between husband and wife when they are young.

As we get older, there are fewer and fewer feelings to enjoy. Maybe the parents have passed away, the children have their own families, and only the wife is dependent on each other, and a harmonious relationship between husband and wife is indispensable.

You should maintain a sense of ritual, and you can't give up the sense of ritual because of the old husband and wife, because only a sense of ritual can see that there is love between two people.

If you want to maintain a sweet relationship, old husbands and wives can try to go on dates and watch movies, which can bring two people closer.

Two people should do more new things, should travel more, and have to play every day.

There are many details of the feelings of the older generation, such as a glance at the other party to know what he wants to do. You don't need to say a word to know what the other person wants to eat. This detail can only be felt by the older generation in this state, in fact, it is a tacit sense of understanding that has been together for a long time.

At this time, if you can give him some praise and encouragement, let him feel your companionship and support, and get courage from your disadvantages, then he will definitely love you more.

often communicate together, if two people are only playing with their mobile phones together, do not communicate with each other, and ignore each other, then the relationship will soon decline. Create activities that you can work with each other to work with, such as cooking together, doing crafts together, playing truth or dare together, listening to each other, and giving each other a chance to learn more about themselves.

When giving a gift to a wife, many people think that giving a cheap gift will lose face, but giving a gift that is too expensive is not allowed financially, so they feel very burdened to give a gift. But in fact, giving gifts has little to do with price, the most important thing is to be attentive, so that the other party can feel your attention and love for him, even if it is just that you buy a cake that the other party loves to eat on the road will be a great gift.

Express love with practical actions, what the other party does for you must be more important than sweet words, and can express your heart But if you blindly dedicate without understanding the needs of the other party, it can only be in vain and you will be busy in vain. Get to know the other person well enough and show your love by giving him the right help.

Usually interacting together, such as hugging and kissing, can build or break a relationship, and can also convey hate or love. If your other half has a certain emotional foundation with you and always wants to stick to you, it means that he must like you very much, and you must learn to use physical contact to express love, such as giving him a big hug when the other party is hurting his heart and when he is happy, which will make the hurt feelings become deeper.

First of all, for two couples, the relationship is not achieved overnight, and it takes a certain amount of time for the relationship between two people to reach a certain level, so that the other party can truly recognize that he has truly felt that he has found a lover who is worthy of his own cherishment and worthy of his own efforts. In the stage of two people getting along, we have to have enough patience and enough confidence for this feeling, but in the stage when two people just get along, each other should not have too high expectations for each other, many times the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment, because the real relationship is a gradual process, if the relationship between two people is vigorous at the beginning, it is particularly romantic, but after a long time, this feeling will gradually disappear with the passage of time. will make each other gradually lack of freshness, and even eventually get tired of this royal banquet relationship. Therefore, for two couples, first of all, they need to learn to adjust their mentality, have enough rational and objective understanding of this relationship, and let themselves and their lovers have enough time to understand and run-in, so as to ensure the longevity of the relationship, and to be able to truly understand and recognize each other, this process often requires at least two people to get along for more than half a year.

A love is always a little warm in the green, and there is sweetness in the warmth. Love is a medium that brings two strangers of the opposite sex from not knowing each other together; Falling in love is a way to release the hormones that two people match each other to the optimal ratio; Love is a kind of emotional release that can always accompany you even if you are incompetent. Compared with the flirting of couples or newlyweds, the flirting between old husbands and wives is not the same.

So much so that the heavy taste of flirting has developed to the level of pranks, even if the husband and wife can't cry or laugh, they won't get angry, let alone annoy Zhenyin. The most common prank is that the husband and wife have the intention to fart, and the two parties have tried to let each other smell it, which will not only increase the mood of life, but also increase the interest of life.