I would like to ask you a question about getting married, thank you

Blind dates are generally like this. There is no absolute perfection, are you still picking a few others while you are on a blind date with him?

The conditions are almost the same, and if you don't think about it clearly, it's a lie, but you still want something better.

Blind date, if you think about it for half a year, you have to pay attention, you have to tie the knot early, don't end it early, this world is the same without anyone, what kind of run-in words to get mixed and grind, do you not find out until you are 30 years old, Oh not suitable, so what should you do.

Let's be honest! That's up to you! Is it worth the wait!

And sometimes marriage does require some hardware conditions! It's not that you can tie the knot, that's what you can! After all, it's a lifelong thing, and there will be a lot more things to think about after getting married!

Isn't it! If you say that your hardware conditions are up to marriage, I feel that as long as both parties are sincere, then there is nothing to consider! I'm not too young to be as old as you said!

He should think more about you, too! Hope it can make you seem like a point!

Give yourself a little time, get to know him better, see his sincerity, and then give him a time limit to think about this issue, you must tell him very seriously, ask him to think carefully, and be serious about you.

Haha, I'm a man, and I've been on several blind dates, from my point of view. The first point is that I have a few girls talking at the same time. But it's not to the point of getting married, and I don't know which one to choose, because you may both have the same conditions.

The second point. If you really want to get married, put pressure on him, don't let him pick and choose, all the men are the same, always want to find the perfect woman in their hearts, but they know that they can't find it, and they don't face the reality. Actually, when I went on a blind date for the second time, the woman was very good, but I still wanted to find a better one, so I gave up after two months of chatting, and now I regret it.

Let him give you a time frame to consider. A woman's youth cannot be delayed. Since the blind date is to go with the attitude of getting married, I have a general understanding of what I should know about getting along for half a year.

I think he's just a pretext. If, when the deadline is up, there is no excuse for refusing to get married, it is time to give up.

Could it be that his family conditions are very ordinary, if he mentions marriage in many places and can't meet your requirements, he is worried. If you don't ask for anything, as long as you're with this person, nothing else matters, and hesitant to take the attitude, if it's me, I'll give up. If it weren't for that, you have a lot of demands, and he is afraid to mention marriage for fear of losing it, which is another matter.

If you want to marry him, you must talk to him well, talk to him well, be more accommodating to your partner, listen to him more, and respect others!

A woman's mental age is 5 years older than a man, you know, the average man doesn't force him, he won't want to get married, and a man will never want to get married as much as a woman.

He can procrastinate, but the age of a woman can't, it's time to make it clear to your face!

I have a colleague with whom I have a good relationship, and I'm ready to get my certificate.

Recently, because my boyfriend was uncomfortable with an elderly person at home, I postponed the time for obtaining the certificate.

My colleague is very beautiful, very thin, very white, looks weak, has long black hair, and speaks very gently.

The previous boyfriend also came to the step of talking about marriage, and then found out that his boyfriend had split his legs, and he was sad for a long time after breaking up.

Now this boyfriend has been talking for less than a year, his family is good, and he has a background in his family.

But listening to her description, I feel that her boyfriend is very unreliable.

It's a good bet, and often comes back at night, even if the two of them are trembling.

When I was single, I often went to improper places for massages.

In the beginning, my colleague came to talk to me after an argument with her boyfriend.

said that her boyfriend dislikes her for not cooking, what will she do when she gets married in the future? Who's going to cook it?

But my colleague is also a delicate girl who doesn't touch the spring water with ten fingers, how can she do this job?

In the end, she compromised, she learned to cook, but her boyfriend wanted to help and couldn't play games on the side.

My colleague has already moved in with him, and their new house is beautifully renovated, with a big oven in the kitchen, and they live a sweet life for two.

The two occasionally study food in the luxurious kitchen, and show their affection in the circle of friends.

Everyone's choice is different, after all, no one is perfect.

If you want to marry a man with superior material conditions and 100% dependence on you, it is difficult to find a lantern.

Ordinary men who are good to you, capable, and have no bad habits may not look down on you.

After all, it costs a lot of money to raise a beautiful wife.

There were two boys chasing her at the same time, one was more mature and considerate, but had bad habits, and the other was a naïve and willful boy.

Both families are good and very rich.

In the end, she chose the mature one, hoping that she could be stupid and happy, and don't meet scumbags again.

Don't miss these types of people.

It must be the third kind, the first is that you are not short of money anyway, it is good to raise her, the second longest can also kill the second kind, and the third gentle personality can kill the first kind, a bit of a pity is that the education is low, this you have to cultivate slowly.

The second or third can be, depending on your own choice of appearance can only be third, if you choose the right family, choose the second, but the family conditions are not good, it will be very troublesome in the future, think about it yourself, see what you want.

I think you have to make a good choice, because a person's life is very long.

As for how to choose a marriage partner, this depends on your own personality.

If you are a man, then you can choose a girl who is gentle and understands you as your mate selection criteria.

According to your description, I think you are very rational and not suitable for marriage and love at this point.

You are such a rational person, then of course you will know which one you want. You don't need advice anymore.

The most important thing is to see what kind of life you want to live in the future, and this is a good choice.

I think it's more important to be satisfied. In fact, as long as they are satisfied, most parents will support them, because after all, children's happiness is the most important thing.

Children are the ones who live with their partners for the rest of their lives, not their parents.

Of course, the opinion of your parents is very important, because your parents will definitely not harm you, and your parents must have traveled a lot, so their opinions are absolutely important when it comes to seeing people.

For me, if I find a partner, it is of course best if my parents are satisfied, if my partner is something I really recognize, but my parents are not satisfied. First of all, I will definitely let my parents know more about my partner and let them know why I identify him.

If the object is really good, the parents will see that he is good sooner or later, but if the object still does not satisfy the parents, then I think I will reflect more on my own problems, see why the parents are not satisfied, and then find the reason.

In fact, if your parents are really dissatisfied in the end, you still insist on being with this person, then I feel that I must not regret the decision I made, no matter what difficulties I will face in the future, or what kind of pain I will experience in the future. Because of the path I chose, I cried and had to finish it.

In fact, all in all, the opinions of parents are still very important.

The person to marry was satisfied before marriage, but after time and life, it changed after marriage.

Half of the people who are married to someone they don't want to marry, and when they reach a certain age, there is no way to get married for the sake of getting married.

Nowadays, many people are married to their own satisfaction, and now they are advocating free marriage, and some people are forced to marry helplessly, but feelings can be cultivated.

Our marriage is relatively happy, because it has been agreed before marriage, I am in charge of big things, and she is in charge of small things. So it's more peaceful.

On the other hand, I was busy with work at that time, and I couldn't take care of my family, basically she was in charge of the big and small things, and there was basically no contradiction in the marriage.

At least I'm happy with the person I'm marrying right now. I also hope that you will be able to find a satisfactory marriage partner in the future.

If you are looking for a marriage partner, you must find someone you like in order to marry him. If you don't like it, it's better not to marry her.

I like my husband very much, he is very good to me and lets me do everything. We had a son and a daughter, and we were very happy.

Yes! The marriage partner must be satisfied! But there are times when you are not satisfied with him, because no one is perfect, and he will definitely have such and such shortcomings!

Of course, if you are not satisfied, how can you enter the marriage hall? Because marriage is a lifelong thing, it cannot be a momentary happiness in front of you, and you need to make a serious choice.

As a marriage partner, the vast majority of them are satisfied with themselves, but this satisfaction is not absolute, because everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and it is impossible to be perfect, just look at the aspects you are pursuing.

Of course, our marriage partner is satisfied with ourselves, how can we marry him if we are not satisfied? This is a lifelong thing, and you can't play with it, only if you look at it right, look comfortable, and feel that it is okay to get married.

Many people say that marriage is two people living together. Some couples are two people who love each other, some couples are two people who are partners, some are about to settle down, and some are married to people they don't want to marry.

The marriage partner must be satisfied with herself, only if you love her, you will marry her, and those who don't like it will definitely not marry her.

If one party disagrees, then the marriage will not be very happy and will not be very successful, so we should be satisfied before getting married.

The object of marriage must be satisfied, if you are not satisfied, you will not get married, since you decide to get married, you must be responsible for the marriage, so you must find a suitable wife.

This should be very satisfying, otherwise it would be impossible to come together, so since you are married, you have to live well.

Of course, your choice is the most satisfying. If you are not satisfied with your own choice, can you find a satisfactory one? There is no such thing as a perfect person. Recognize what you have now is the best.

I'm not married, but I'm very satisfied with my current partner, he is very considerate and can take care of me, I think he is the object of marriage, and I will be good to her in the future.

Most of the marriage partners should be satisfied with themselves, and some are not very satisfied with the arrangements arranged by the parents.

Mine yes, but not everyone is as lucky as me, and if you don't have such luck, then you try to make the other person you are satisfied with after marriage.

I'm not afraid of your jokes, but what prompted me to marry my partner was a meal. I've been in love countless times, I've been in love countless times, I've met countless people, everyone feels different to me, and my psychological experience is different when I'm loved, none of these people give me the idea that I particularly want to marry him, or "this is him in this life". Until I met my current husband.

We worked in the same unit and didn't know each other before. Over the years, he has been constantly changing objects, adhering to the principle of "universal netting, focusing on salvage" everywhere to let others introduce objects, and I am the kind of person who has been cast a net. He first asked for my **, in the dead of night he flipped through the phone and accidentally dialed it out, I happened to be playing with the phone and immediately picked it up**, he didn't dare to come out, and I was at the end of the ** stupid "Hey, hey, hey".

Later, he texted me and said he wanted to be friends with me, but I didn't reply to him. Later, colleagues in the unit introduced each other again, and we were together.

One time we ate in the cafeteria, and everyone ate the food in the cafeteria, and that's it, it's impossible to think about how good you are. He took the initiative to pick out his favorite meat to me, and it was the kind that was very natural, definitely not intended to move me, I was hot in my heart at the time, I let him eat it, he said: "You eat a little more, see how thin you are".

I thought to myself, "This is the only one for this life."

Another time I said to him, "You always pay for dinner, that's not okay, next time I'll pay for it", and he said, "Do you think I'm a good person?" I was stunned for a moment and said, "Okay", and he said very coolly: "Okay, you don't have to pay for it", and then put my hand in his pocket.

Do you think I can refuse such a man?

I feel that the time is ripe, both parties are not young, and they have been together long enough, and they believe that each other is the most suitable person for each other.

Feelings have reached that point, and marriage is a matter of course. The main thing is that the boy should take the initiative to propose to the girl and express his willingness to start a family with the girl.

My words are that it is best when you feel that you are suitable for each other, and then your parents on both sides approve of it, and both of you are ready.