Why is it that the kinder a woman is in love, the easier it is to meet a scumbag?

First of all, because these women are very kind-hearted, and they are also very soft-hearted. So he will always put himself in the other person's shoes, even if the other person is very selfish.

Under normal circumstances, kind-hearted girls, they are relatively simple-minded, and scumbags are generally more accurate about these girls.

Because kind women are often very easy to give their sincerity when they fall in love, so that the other party will feel very cheap.

These little girls are often very simple, and often some scumbags can deceive this girl with a word, and most of the scumbags are very good-looking in appearance, so some beautiful little girls like it very much.

Because scumbags are very humorous people, and they are very good at pleasing girls, so kind and beautiful little girls will fall in love with this kind of person.

Because there are more scumbags among good men, there are more scumbags who can cater to women's requirements, and women sometimes don't like really good men.

There are not too many reasons for this, it can only be said that it is not happy to meet people, it is just uncomfortable to meet people, just keep your eyes open and find more beautiful.

Because you love to listen to good and obedient words, good obedience will kill people, don't you know that the manuscript is stuffy? The key of the flam in front of the flim mask is good, you like straight men, and you don't like it, what is the result? Is it better to flam tongue or straight man?

1. Girls with anxious attachment styles.

2. When choosing a boy to get off the single and enter a relationship, the market value of the marriage partner is high or low.

3. Girls with low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence.

4 is still a baby = giant baby who has not grown up, is too closely entangled with the parents' original family, and is spoiled or lacks love.

5 I don't know how to love myself + I don't have the ability to love, and I have poor and weak emotional intelligence, gender thinking, emotionality, impulsivity, emotional management and conflict management skills.

6. For men and romantic relationships, there is no sense of security and trust.

7. Pessimistic and negative interpretation style + pessimistic and negative emotions + cognition + behavior.

8 do not know how to distinguish between long and short choices, do not know how to distinguish between good men and bad men (scumbags) There is a saying in psychology called "self-fulfilling prophecy".

Psychologist Robert. Morton makes this point, referring to:

A person's experience at a certain stage will unconsciously shape his conscious thinking, which in turn will lead his life to develop towards what he thinks.

Self-realization, on the other hand, can be divided into positive self-realization and negative self-realization.

What kind of girls look good to chase? There are a lot of girls who wonder why I always meet scumbags? In fact, it's just because you look very good to chase this issue** must be finished reading and bumping to accompany there are surprises Oh love and laughter to accompany the stupid problem, remember to consult Lao Bai Mo Da