Why the more spoiled a woman is, the easier it is to break up

Because the other person thinks you are humble. There must be no humility in the relationship, and you need to give to each other so that you can live for a long time.

It may be because she doesn't love you so much in her heart, or she may break up just to win your care and test how serious you are about this relationship, which is why everyone often says: "Women want to break up with men, often can't do it".

Love is a matter between two parties, it must be developed in the interaction between the two parties, if one party gets too much love, more than common sense, will be honestly afraid, do not know how to respond!

Recently, I often receive submissions from male friends, saying, "I've always been good to my girlfriend, why did she leave me?" "I believe that many boys will encounter such confusion.

Amorous is always hurt by ruthlessness, this is not false at all. In the world of feelings, those who are favored are always fearless, and people who often think that they are sincere will never get love, but "scumbags" are more favored. This is exactly the fulfillment of a saying:

Since ancient times, affection cannot be retained, only routines can win people's hearts.

So, why is it that the better you are for a woman, the easier it is to be broken up?

Your so-called kindness to her may just be self-moving.

Many times, the so-called "good to you" of boys is just their own thoughts, considered with their own straight male thinking.

For example, after work today, I bought my girlfriend the ice cream she liked, but I didn't get the response I deserved. In fact, it is very likely that my girlfriend has a period that day or cannot eat for other reasons.

To truly love someone, you should start from the details and care about all aspects of her life, rather than "impressing" her in your own way when you are free, which is very likely to backfire.

It's human nature to get an inch.

When they first got together, they felt happy in his arms. Slowly, she became more and more demanding, she lost her temper when she didn't kiss her when she went out, made a lot of noise when she came back from a business trip without bringing a gift, chattered when she drove to pick up 5 minutes late, and all kinds of trivial things were infinitely magnified by her, and the root cause was his favorite.

Feelings are such a thing, women go further, and men take a step back. I always felt that taking a step back and opening up the sky may not be applicable in love.

Think differently.

Everyone is an individual and has a different perspective on things. For example, if a girl wants cigarettes and you give her a piece of chocolate, you think it's good for her health, but she thinks you don't spoil her enough. In fact, what some girls need is not a person who cares about her, but a man who can conquer her and make herself admire.

The author's message: The best love is not to do my best to give you the best. Rather, what I gave, you, just need. I can make you laugh, you won't make me cry. I'm leaving, you're staying, I'm going back. Look, how fit we are!

Because women are always not satisfied, if they are better to her, the higher the requirements in her heart, and once they can't be satisfied, they will easily break up.

This is because this kind of good will make girls feel very unreal, and it will also cause girls to feel that such feelings are very easy to get and will not be cherished.

It's because the current men are very excessive, and they don't cherish these good women, so women should be appropriately good.

Because if you are always very good to someone, he will take it for granted, and he will not value your goodness, so he will abandon you.

And if a man's contribution is to meet a woman who also loves you, then it is worth it, but if you meet a woman who doesn't love you enough or even doesn't like you, then even if you pay more, in fact, the other party doesn't feel the need.

So, in love, why do you look like the more you "pamper" the girl, but the more she will break up, in fact, you ignore these points.

Actually, she doesn't love you that much in her heart.

When I was playing with a friend yesterday, I talked about another male friend of ours, Wang Lin, and the friend said that Wang Lin had just fallen out of love recently. I didn't even know when he had a partner, but I heard that he fell out of love. I asked, "What's going on?" ”

The friend said: "Wang Lin was chasing the little master of your department before, you don't know." ”

Then I remembered that there seemed to be such a thing. For a period of time before, I often heard Wang Lin talk about his relationship with Xiaobai, either to help her find a summer job when she hadn't graduated yet, or to help her find a job with a professional counterpart after graduation, or to travel together when the two of them were on vacation.

The friend said: "It was during the trip, as soon as they came back, Wang Lin dumped that little white." ”

I asked: "From beginning to end, how good is Wang Lin to others, Xiaobai actually dumped others!" ”

A friend said: "I heard Wang Lin say that in fact, Xiaobai didn't like him very much at the beginning, maybe he found that the two were really inappropriate after traveling, and Xiaobai broke up with others." ”

Sometimes, you love someone very much and desperately want to be nice to her, and there is nothing wrong with her, and she still doesn't like you in the end, and she is not wrong. What's wrong is that you use all the good on the wrong person.

Breaking up just wants to win your attention.

Of course, excluding the case that a woman doesn't actually love you that much, there is another possibility that she actually makes a fuss just to make you care more about her.

I remembered that when I watched Rao Xueman's ** "Secret Fruit" before, Lao Duan, the father of the male protagonist Duan Baiwen in the book, married a young wife Dong Jialei after the death of the original partner. Dong Jialei doesn't know how to cook at home, she only dresses herself up beautifully every day, and often loses her temper with Lao Duan at home. Lao Duan has a good temper and often lets her.

Once, Lao Duan and his son went to the house of his old friend Sun Ping for dinner, Dong Jialei was very angry when she found out, and she said that Lao Duan had an improper relationship with Sun Ping. In the end, he dragged his suitcase and said that he was going to leave divorced.

But the next day, she came back again, and while making a fuss about finding Lao Duan, she also used Duan Baiwen's mobile phone to send a message to Lao Duan, but in fact, Lao Duan just went on a business trip.

Women are always duplicitous, and sometimes they like to make trouble, but it's not all because she really wants to leave you, she just wants to be tsundere and make you care about her more. After all, in the process of falling in love, what a woman enjoys most is when her boyfriend coaxes herself.

Test how serious you really are about the relationship.

In fact, in a relationship, the more tempted, the less beneficial it is to the relationship. But sometimes when a woman is unsure of a man's intentions or is not confident in herself, she will want to test your attitude by breaking up with you.

There are no surprises in life, you will be satisfied with everything about him, and without this surprise, the feelings will become weaker and weaker, which will lead to a breakup.

Because the more you dote on her, the more she thinks it should be, and the more she will care about your feelings and not manage them well.