The report shows that more than sixty percent of girls will mention breaking up first, why are girls

I don't think it's that girls are decisive in killing, but that boys are used to using cold violence to force girls to take the initiative to break up. In other words, men like to raise fish, and if they don't say it's suitable, they will alienate and don't care, forcing girls to give up, in fact, many women are willing to give boys a chance, but men don't cherish it.

I think I'm beautiful and attractive, and there will be a lot of boys who will pursue me, and I'm too narcissistic!

The report shows that more than sixty percent of girls will be the first to propose to break up, in the face of love, boys do not seem to be as decisive as girls, girls are more determined and resolute than boys, girls know what kind of person they should choose at a very young age, and with the popularization of education, girls' ability is also getting stronger and stronger in the process of being educated. Girls who can stand up to the chaos and change of the sky almost don't need to rely on some of the power of men to get something, so when they are facing love, this kind of virtual and unreal things, they are also more rational, and when they meet someone who can stay with them for a lifetime, they will also strive to move forward with all their might, but if the boy is incapable and has no family background, in this case, the girl will quickly say that they will break up.

After all, for girls, who wants to waste their youth on useless people? Therefore, in the face of such an imaginary thing as love, the most they can do is to save themselves.

Boys are relatively naïve in their 20s, and have more longing for love, although the society puts a lot of pressure on them, but girls are relatively rational in the face of love, they will feel that love is love, marriage is marriage, marriage is marriage, only when the material conditions reach a certain basic level, it is possible to cross love and enter marriage.

The first thing that will definitely come to our mind is that girls have their own standards and requirements in the idea of choosing a mate than boys, and they also have high material pursuits.

One. So girls are more direct, their ideas are simpler, that is, what kind of life I want to pursue, what kind of life I want to achieve, so they will take some things very seriously, and when they choose the opposite sex, they will put these standards in front of them, if you are suitable for yourself, he will give you a chance, if you can't meet his requirements, he will give up decisively.

Two. He didn't want to let his future life be without a certain amount of stable support and a stable income because of his indecisiveness. So he also wants to give up now, so that he can choose a better one in the future. So girls are more decisive than men.

Three. Probably this is the so-called ancients. It was once said that the most poisonous woman's heart.

If a woman is ruthless, she is even more ruthless than a man. Therefore, when facing love, women are more intuitive than men, they are more realistic than men, and they see the material conditions more realistically than men. So there are a lot of boys who say that girls are very realistic, but it's actually very simple.

If you have your own sister and sister, and they choose one with very poor conditions, you will also feel unworthy for him. Who wants their family to have a better life? You also don't want the people you love to live with you and live a very poor life.

The house is rented. No matter how many years of struggle, I can't buy a house. Who wants to?

I saw that my sisters of the same age were doing well, with a house and a car. Who willingly? A woman's heart is the heaviest.

Same as I thought, so be it!

According to the survey, more than sixty percent of couples and girls will mention breaking up first, so why is this? Is it because girls are more decisive and ruthless than boys? The answer is no. There are several reasons why more girls are breaking up.

The disappointment was extreme.

As the saying goes: once a guy says to break up, then it is a real breakup; And the girl said that the breakup was largely to get the attention of the other party. Girls belong to more emotional animals, if it weren't for the extreme disappointment, she would be reluctant to really break up with the other party.

Some girls talk about breaking up just to get the attention of the other party.

I saw a report on the Internet before that a girl broke up because she fell on the road, and the boy couldn't hold her in time, so she decisively broke up. The boy didn't understand why he broke up with such a trivial matter. Later, the girl said that she just fell, and she suddenly thought of the ice water handed by her boyfriend every time she was aunt, her boyfriend playing games when she was sick, and she said countless times that she didn't like to eat coriander, and her boyfriend never remembered it, and her ex-boyfriend's WeChat would be secretly added back if she deleted it.......

She suddenly didn't know what she was holding onto. All the departures are traceable, life is full of clues that you don't love me, and you still ask me why I left you?

Boys are not naturally good at talking about breakups.

I have discussed with many classmates and friends of the opposite sex about whether boys will take the initiative to break up. Among them, 80% of them told me that in a relationship, they never take the initiative to break up, and even if they want to break up, they will use their behavior to force the other party to say it. Of course, this is not to say that all boys are like this.

In the minds of these boys, it is particularly difficult to break up, and they will also feel that it is a great harm to the girl, so they are more inclined to use the ...... of indifference, inactivity, and hot and coldLet the girls feel their emotions and then take the initiative to leave, they will even feel that this way can minimize the damage. This is also why girls say that they break up more. But it is also their so-called self-righteous protection that constitutes the real harm.

The matter of feelings itself is difficult to explain, and there is no right or wrong. Therefore, the one who leaves first is not necessarily not sad, and the person who leaves later does not necessarily deserve sympathy. If you don't know the whole picture of a relationship, don't judge and question it easily.

1. Influenced by the outside world.

Imagine if you are a woman in a long-distance relationship, and your friend or colleague is also in a relationship. It's just that if they don't belong to a long-distance relationship, then you will definitely feel something after often seeing men buying things for women, sending flowers, and shopping with them. And when you think that your boyfriend is thousands of miles away and doesn't have much time to spend with you, then you may feel that such a long-distance relationship is better to break up.

Second, its own factors.

Some women may want to try the feeling of a long-distance relationship before, and after feeling it, they feel that they are not suitable for this kind of long-distance relationship, then she may propose to break up. Women have always been strange creatures, no matter what the circumstances.

3. Can't persevere.

A long-distance relationship requires both men and women to insist on it, and without unremitting efforts, then the long-distance relationship is just a glimpse, and in the end, it will not be over. Among both men and women, women are generally very "fragile", when they feel that the long-distance relationship is difficult to persevere, some will feel that this is a waste of their youth, so that they no longer insist hard, and give up directly, and the long-distance relationship will be directly declared over!

Fourth, I just want to have fun.

Some women, in the face of long-distance relationships, just want to have a good time, these women are the most hateful. Men give their hearts to women, but what about women? But it's just for fun, and it's not good to think about it to anyone.

This can also be said to be one of the reasons why women propose to break up in long-distance relationships, which is also one of the situations that men hate the most.

Therefore, it is generally women who propose the breakup of long-distance relationships, which is not without reason. The above factors may be just some of them, because there are really too many reasons for women to propose to break up!

The report shows that more than 6 percent of girls will first mention why they are breaking up in the face of love, and girls are more decisive than boys, because girls' thinking ability is much stronger than that of boys when they fall in love, so they have made a lot of decisive decisions.

The first thing we will think of is that girls have their own standards and requirements in the idea of choosing a mate than boys, and they are also very high in material pursuits, so girls are more direct, their ideas are simpler, that is, what kind of life I want to pursue, what kind of life I want to achieve, so they will see some things very important, when choosing the opposite sex, they will put these standards in front of them, if you are suitable for yourself, he will give you a chance, if you can't meet the requirements he wants, he will give up decisively, He doesn't want to make his future life unstable and dependent because of his indecisiveness, and he doesn't have a stable income, so he wants to give up now so that he can choose a better one in the future, so girls should be more decisive than men, maybe this is the so-called ancients once said that the most poisonous woman's heart, if women are more ruthless than men, so in the face of love, women are more intuitive than men, they are more realistic than men, and they see material conditions more real than men, So there are a lot of men and children who say that girls are very realistic, in fact, it is very simple, if you have sisters and sisters, they choose a very poor one, you will feel worthless for him, everyone wants their family to live well, you don't want the person you love to live with you to live a very poor life, rent a house, eat instant noodles, and then look at your sisters of the same age are doing well, have a car and a house, who will be willing, women will be more important than the heart,

The first is determined by the different ways of thinking of men and women. In order to avoid guilt and guilt, even if a man doesn't love him and wants to break up, he will not simply bring it up, but adopt a way of avoidance, cold, avoidant, and picky, ......Let the woman bear it, and let the woman break up. So the report we see is that 6 of the components of the hand were made by women.

On the other hand, this is also a manifestation of the concept of equality between men and women in modern society, women have more say and decision power in the relationship, so if you don't love, you will be brave enough to break up, women, should pursue better feelings, have a happier life.

1. Some girls like to be tempted. It's just that if you have something to do, come to the sentence "You don't love me anymore... And then break up, this kind of recurrent breakup, the influence is almost 0, commonplace. (But if the man really agreed, it would be serious).

2. Lack of paternal love and cognitive bias in the relationship between the sexes. This kind of girl has more early love and a lack of security, especially the low sense of security given by the father. Then replace everything with a boyfriend and use breakup threats to get more attention.

3. Material women, some green tea women worship gold. Where there is contrast, there is harm. Who told Kunio not to work hard. 4. The boyfriend is really bad. Needless to say, this kind of thing is not worthy.

First of all, girls are more duplicitous, and first mention that breaking up is just a means to occupy a dominant position in love, rather than really wanting to break up.

And then there are some who really want to break up, and that's just because girls are really hopeless about love.

That's because in love, most girls are in a weak position, the reason why he proposed to break up is because of the boy's cold violence, or all kinds of behaviors, so that he is exhausted and disheartened, the boy in order not to fall into the reputation of the beginning and end, always want the girl to break up first, the reason why the girl is so decisive is because there is really no love.

1.Girls are more emotional, and boys are more rational. Most girls are because they really like this boy, will accept the boy's pursuit, once a boy is recognized, he will pay great attention to the sense of boundaries, wholeheartedly to this boy, take the initiative to clear his circle of friends, and is also happy to introduce his boyfriend to relatives and friends.

On the contrary, most boys don't know how to reject girls, so they will give other girls the wrong feeling, and it is easier to attract a third party. At this time, the girl is very painful, but I still hope that the boy can understand his feelings, and the boy will feel that the girl is unreasonable. If she is hurt too much, the girl will be completely disappointed and will break up decisively.

2.Boys are more likely to regret or cherish their reputation. Girls generally believe that a person can give everything for this person, but boys will think about it a lot, and there are always various reasons and excuses, girls are easy to betray their relatives for a boyfriend, without the support of relatives, and no good friends to maintain, there is only one boyfriend left.

Boys won't, boys' social circle is very large, and they won't accompany their girlfriends all day long. When there is a problem with the relationship between two people, I hope that the girl will propose to break up, so that she can reduce her guilt and will not affect her reputation.

3.Boys are more obsessed with the feeling of hugging left and right, and younger sisters like to be adored by others. The boy enjoys it more, someone to take care of at home, and someone to worship outside, even if one day, he doesn't like his girlfriend anymore, but his girlfriend takes care of his food, clothing, housing and transportation at home, he also feels that he has no face to propose to break up, and he doesn't want to break up, and he may also think nobly, he doesn't want to make the other party sad, but he doesn't know that not loving a woman but not breaking up with him is the biggest insult to him.

A glamorous man who is dressed up by a woman, enjoys the worship of other women outside, and may be picky about women when he comes back, and when a woman realizes that she is really wrong, she will break up decisively. It's the boy who is reluctant, because he wants to have both fish and bear's paws.