I have a crush on a boy, but I m not ready to fall in love, is it because I don t love enough!

You're not ready to fall in love, and it's not because you don't love enough.

It's just that you don't know if the other party will accept you, and when the other party accepts you, you will feel very much in love with him.

In a relationship, you're still inexperienced, so you're unprepared and a little overwhelmed.

Since you are not ready to fall in love, you should keep this relationship in your heart for a while and talk about it later.

The ininitiative of a crush does not necessarily mean that you don't like the other person enough, and some people may be naturally more introverted and not very good at expressing their emotions.

When I was in middle school, there was a boy in our class, and he liked another girl in our class very much, but he never plucked up the courage to confess, so that girl never knew that this boy liked her. It wasn't until later that the girl agreed to another boy's confession, and the boy was particularly sullen during that time, at that time we knew from the boy's mouth that he actually had a good impression of the girl, but he never mustered up the courage to confess, and the two of them unfortunately missed it, if he was the first to bravely confess at that time, maybe the girl would slowly find out his goodness. But now all this is "if", because of the boy's lack of courage and initiative, there are only regrets left between them.

Therefore, the ininitiative of the crush can sometimes mean that he does not like the other person enough, and sometimes, the ininitiative of the crush may also be due to the silence and timidity of that person.

At the class reunion many years later, my high school crush laughed and said that he liked me too, and then I laughed and said, "Why didn't you say it earlier, I missed it." ”

Adolescent crushes are generally because they are not brave. Our campus life is really not as rebellious as the current idol dramas, and everyone is still quite obedient. My adolescence is generally in a state of "early love is fiercer than a tiger", parents and schools say every day that "early love" is wrong, "early love" will seriously affect grades, and it is irresponsible to themselves and each other, so everyone hides their crush as their own little secret.

The crush touched me. My crush is not as thrilling as there is, it is not so important to make myself unable to extricate myself, it is a small episode of my boring study life every day, every day after class to say a word to him, I can have a happy class, the topics he told me in class, I think it is easier to understand, I like to check each other's homework in self-study class, I feel 12 hours a day of study, and I am not so sad as I imagined.

Crush is actually just an emotional expression directed and acted by himself, and that person finally becomes the person you imagine, and the real one may not necessarily be the one you like.

If a crush on someone he doesn't like like the one he likes, he shows his enthusiasm and positive attitude, it doesn't mean that he doesn't like the other person enough. It's a lack of courage.

Crush is a painful thing, he is not a fair and honest person, he can hold each other's hands in the sun, hug each other, and feel that happiness and joy. She only loves and guards silently in her heart, even if she fantasizes more than once in her heart that the two of them can walk together. But he didn't have the courage, he didn't have the self-confidence.

We've all experienced that crush and wanted to confess to him, but if we did, would he accept it? Maybe we can't even be friends, so more often we choose to endure companionship and silent protection.

Hello friend, crushes are mostly because they are not brave enough to express themselves, and they mostly happen to shy young people.

Some young people who are not deeply involved in the world are inexperienced and will not seize the opportunity, so they can only bury this feeling in their hearts.

It's not that I don't like each other enough, but the actual lack is the opposite, I like each other very much.

Having a crush doesn't mean you don't like it enough, although there are some reasons why you don't feel like each other well enough. And there are also some reasons because of their own personality, such as a very shy person, and some may be because of a kind of reason that feels that they are not good enough to bring happiness to each other.

The crush is not active, it does not mean that he does not like each other enough, but because of his personality, he will not take the initiative, after all, some people are too introverted, so they are embarrassed to confess to each other.

Crush on someone else, but not take the initiative, it doesn't mean that you don't like each other enough, it may be that some people are introverted and shy, embarrassed, not active, and can't speak.

Just because you don't have a crush doesn't mean you don't like each other. It's because I'm more introverted. Don't dare to take the initiative to confess to the other party. In fact, I like you very much in my heart.

The lack of initiative in the crush does not necessarily mean that you don't like the other person enough, you may think too much, lack confidence, and dare not confess. It's also possible that the time is not ripe, wait and see. It is also possible that their economic conditions are poor and not as good as others. In short, there are many reasons.

The crush does not take the initiative, it does not mean that he does not like the other party, but because he wants to bury this emotion deep in his heart, or he feels that it is not the time to say it now, in fact, the crush does not take the initiative, but he also likes the other party.

Shy, the crush doesn't take the initiative to confess doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't like the other party enough, it may be that he likes it too much, for fear of piercing that layer of paper, if the other party refuses, then even the qualification to protect in the name of a friend is lost.

Crushes don't take the initiative to confess not necessarily because they don't like each other enough, it may be that they like each other too much, and they are afraid of piercing that layer of paper, if the other party refuses, then even the qualification to guard in the name of friends is lost.

Not taking the initiative in a relationship does not mean that you don't like each other, but there are many reasons.

First of all, the personality is also more introverted. Some people are more introverted, more shy, not proactive, and not good at expressing themselves emotionally.

Secondly, lack of sufficient self-confidence in yourself. I obviously like each other, but I don't have enough confidence in myself, I think I'm not good enough, and in terms of emotion, I always hide my true feelings in my heart.

Finally, the financial aspects of their own families. Some people obviously like each other, but there is a big gap between the economic conditions of their own family and the other party, and they may not be able to meet the other party's financial requirements. Even liking each other doesn't end well.

Crush. The instructions are just quietly liked. The conditions and timing are not ripe, and there is no way to confess. There's no way, it's too proactive. It's not that I don't like each other, but I don't know how sure I am. can only secretly have a crush.

The crush is not active. It doesn't necessarily mean that you don't like each other enough. It's because of the crush. So everything will look cautious. If you don't take the initiative, it may just be a shy character. Fear of rejection. So hide it in the bottom of my heart.

The crush is not active, it doesn't mean that you don't like each other, it may be due to a certain mental condition that has a very bad feeling about the other party, which leads to this situation, I hope to adopt, thank you.

It doesn't mean that he doesn't like each other enough, it may be that he feels that he is not worthy of the other party, so the lack of initiative in his crush does not completely mean that he does not like each other enough, and sometimes he feels that he is not worthy.

Crush does not take the initiative to confess does not necessarily mean that he does not like the other person enough, it may be that he likes it too much, if the other party does not like you. I'm afraid of piercing that layer of paper, and if the other party refuses, then even the qualification to guard in the name of a friend will be lost.

What's this!! I'm in a similar situation to you, but I think it's just that I haven't met anyone who can make my heart flutter!! It doesn't matter that he is only 19 now, and he met the best at the best time.

You may not have met a boy you like, but since you had a crush in junior high school, it can't be a physical problem! Make more male friends

Fate has not arrived! You are only 19, there are not enough people in contact, it means that these people have not been able to touch your heart, can not enter your eyes, with the growth of age and experience, your standards will continue to change and update, there will always be people you like and your heart you appear!

You have another one, I'm in college now, and I'm still single, not to pick others, but I really haven't seen anything particularly exciting.

This is normal, I haven't met someone who likes it yet, there will be one in the future, don't worry.

I'm just like you! I'm also 19, and I like a guy in high school, and I know that now, I haven't met anyone I like in college.

19……How can you make the leftover women of the post-25 generation ......

It's normal, he didn't show up!

It's really fake, our experience is almost the same, I'm 18 years old, boy.

With contrast, there is a preconceived notion.

It's just that I haven't met anyone I like until now.

It's just that I haven't met anyone better than him, so don't worry.

You're still young, and your fate hasn't arrived.

Man! It's always going to evolve! Are you moving towards the rhythm of boy?

It's hard to say, maybe I haven't met the object of my heart?

Answer: When you see him, you will immediately feel uncomfortable, or your face will be very red all of a sudden, when he talks and laughs with other girls, you will be jealous, and may also find another boy to talk and laugh, when others say how you are with him, you will not admit it, and when you are alone, you can't figure out whether you love him or not, you will always find reasons for yourself not to love him, but you are not angry but you are in love with him! You don't even know about it. When I lost it, I realized that the person I loved was the person I had always had a crush.

My suggestion is.

Wait and see what happens.

I don't know if it's the right thing to do, but my friend had the same experience, and she chose to confess, but in the end the boy didn't give her any answer.

I think that when you go to junior high school, you think about more things, you meet more people, and the same goes for him, so the future is unpredictable. Who can guarantee that you will not meet someone better than him, or that he will meet someone who is more suitable for him than you.

Although a bit realistic, crushes are sometimes just a one-person thing. That feeling can last for a long time, or it can go away suddenly. And the first year of junior high school is indeed too early.

So I still recommend that you wait and see what happens, and then get along with him to see if he really feels the same way about you, or if that feeling has changed.

But the most important thing is to follow your feelings.

If you can't let it go, don't let it go, if you like it, chase it, even if you can't chase it, at least you have worked hard, and you won't regret it in the future, but pay attention to protecting yourself in the relationship. "Go your own way and let others say go! ”

First of all, you have to figure out what you really feel about him in your own heart, but you don't need to be too quick to attribute this feeling to love.

In my opinion, the reason why girly feelings are beautiful is because.

The feeling of a crush secretly admiring someone in your heart also feels very happy, because it's too early for everything to start, and it's right to control yourself.

But I still want to be good friends with him.

Take your time

Don't be in a hurry!

If you're in a hurry, !

You may be tricked by the other party!

That's it for my girlfriend.!

I've been chasing her for more than 4 months

Confessed 4 times、!After the first confession、

She said hello friends

I didn't mention it

The second time, she said that she didn't know anyone anymore after she broke up, and it wasn't the third time she wanted, and she said to hold on again!

The fourth time finally touched her...

They are in a good relationship, !

Test each other more、!

You can't be blind. If you are blind, you will easily lose confidence in the future

Hehe, are all the current students like this? Me too, it doesn't matter, leave him alone, when you get to junior high school, you'll meet someone else, and it might make you forget, hehe, I just forgot about it, and it's not bad now. Schoolboy.

Hehe, take the initiative to hint or confess.

It's better to make a mistake than to miss it.

It's only the first year of junior high school, 12 years old, and early love will only bear bitter fruits, so concentrate on reading!

I guess that boy is very handsome, right? The love of little children is judged by their appearance.

You can list 10 points of each of his advantages and disadvantages for us to see.

Please distinguish the difference between liking and loving in your heart.

You can wait for him to like you and you will take the initiative to contact you, generally women chase men, men don't pay too much attention, too easy to get things no one will cherish, can you understand this?

Men chase women, across heavy mountains, women chase men, interlayer yarn, take the initiative.

Don't worry, maybe you have something to prepare to surprise you?

It can't be, if you forget, you don't really care.

If you like it, you will confess, only if you take the initiative will there be a story, don't work hard because you are timid, what if he also likes you?

Opportunities are for those who are prepared, so you must do a good job in the early stage and confess when the time is right, in case someone else takes advantage of the loophole. Even if he fails, it's okay, at least he knows his place in his heart, and he doesn't have to waste his time anymore, right? is still the same sentence, when you meet someone you like, you should be bold to chase it, and you will not leave regrets for your youth.

I don't think it's easy to confess, although I like it very much, but if you confess, the boy's feelings for you may drop instantly, and if the best case is that the boy also has a good impression of you, but you still have to observe the boy's emotions through some things.