How can children avoid the bad problem of eating hands ?

Hello, it is very normal for the baby to love to eat hands at this stage of one year old, parents do not need to stop the baby from eating hands, and the reason why the baby loves to eat hands is that he tries to recognize things and perceive the world by sucking, licking, biting, etc. Forcefully stopping children from eating hands will cause a shadow on the child's psychology, and when they grow up, they are prone to anxiety, tantrums, and lack of basic trust and security in others. View the original post

Let's talk about my child's example. I started eating hands at 3 months, and now I am 2 years old and 8 months old, and I still eat my hands, and there is a possibility that I will continue to eat them.

At 3 months, he eats his hands and eats all his hands, this licking and that sucking. The theory I learned at that time was that children learn to know their hands by eating their hands, and then use their hands to understand the world. So I didn't pay much attention to it.

By the age of 1, he was still eating his hands. And only eat your thumbs, especially when sleeping, you must eat your hands to fall asleep. At this time, some people in the house began to sit still.

I think that eating hands affects the appearance and has health hazards, and I hope to change this habit for children. After consulting the Internet information, I found that there are various tools abroad to help quit eating hands, from picture books, to gloves, and even devices that limit the bending of elbows, so that children cannot eat hands.

There is a lot of variety, and the number of purchases is staggering. I didn't buy these things because it made me realize that many children are still eating at this point in time. And it must be that it is not so easy to quit, so there are these innovative and diverse products.

By the time he was more than 2 years old, the baby was still eating his hands. He mainly eats the thumb of his right hand, not only eating, but also pouting, puffing out a cocoon on the joint part of the thumb. Not only did the elderly in the family mind, but even the teachers in the nursery tried their best to quit.

I have consulted a lot of psychological counselors, especially experts who do child psychological research, although our theoretical factions are different, but there is a similarity in understanding: in addition to the younger babies through eating hands to understand the world, older children eat hands There is a reason behind it, rather than thinking about how to quit children from eating hands, it is better to solve the reasons behind it.

For example, my children comfort themselves by eating their hands, soothing and relieving their inner anxiety. On the one hand, of course, it is necessary to find the cause of his inner anxiety; On the other hand, from another point of view, he is also the kind of child who is very good at comforting himself. Therefore, I will look for his inner anxiety **, and try to alleviate his possible anxiety by strengthening parent-child communication and stabilizing the parent-child relationship.

Perhaps, as his independence develops, as his adaptability grows, he will naturally not need to eat his hands to meet his psychological requirements. On the contrary, if you keep trying to solve the superficial phenomenon, it will not only get half the result, but also exacerbate the child's inferiority complex and anxiety. It is not conducive to the development of children.

Finally, I consoled myself with this: Have we ever seen adults eating their hands all day long? No.

So, believe in the power of growth.

Baby eating hands is a manifestation of development, some people think that do not disturb when eating hands, but this is easy to cause hand, foot and mouth disease, you can divert his attention when the baby gnaws his hands, play with him.

You can smear vinegar and the like between your baby's fingers, and when your baby raises his hand and smells the smell, he will unconsciously stay away from it and will not contain his fingers.

The baby eats fingers, parents must not scold, otherwise it will have the opposite effect, teach her with companionship and soft words, and the baby will slowly correct it.

You can divert your baby's attention and put his or her hands on somewhere else, such as a toy.

Babies love to eat their hands, and many babies like to put their fingers or small fists in their mouths and suck with relish.

It is a way for babies to self-soothe. For young babies, the mouth is the most important way to explore and perceive the world. Eating hands satisfies their curiosity about the world.

If the baby only sucks his finger occasionally, parents need not worry at all.

Although it is understandable for babies to eat their hands, it is unhygienic to eat them regularly, so for babies at a young age, alternatives such as pacifiers can be sought.

When parents are taking care of their children, if they find that their children have frequent hand eating problems, parents must first correct their children's bad problems. Parents should be aware that it is not a good thing for children to eat their hands often, because children may be drooling for a long time when they are young, or when the child grows to the lactation stage, the child will habitually put his hands in his mouth and bite. And when the child grows older, it will be difficult for the child to change such a problem, so parents need to correct the child as soon as possible when the child is young.

For some parents today, when they accompany their children, if they see their children frequently putting their hands in their mouths, they need to inform their children that there are a lot of bacteria on their hands at the first time. Parents should not let children always get used to putting their hands in their mouths, such a bad habit is for parents to inform their children. Because the child is relatively young, the child has no idea how dirty the bacteria on the hands are.

Therefore, when parents see their children put their hands in their mouths, they should tell their children to take them out as soon as possible.

If parents see their children often putting their hands in their mouths, parents first need to understand the reason why their children eat their hands, which may be because children are prone to a nervous mood. Children will always like to put their hands in their mouths and bite, especially when parents take their children out to play, the children's movements are completely different from other children. Parents need to relieve their children's nervous emotions and tell them how to deal with their emotions correctly.

If parents do not help their children to correct such similar problems in time, when the children grow older, the children will often eat their hands and will take it as a habit. Whether your child is faced with something or a boring situation, your child will love to put his hand in his mouth. Because some children don't know that their hands should be placed in ** when they are faced with boredom, children will put their hands in their mouths and bite slowly.

Whether or not to stop babies and young children from eating their hands needs to be treated separately according to the age of the baby. Small babies up to one year old, especially.

For babies over three or four months old, the child is in the oral desire period at this time. But if the child exceeds.

If you still like to eat your hands at the age of three or four, you need to correct it in time.

This problem of the child should be corrected, because it is not conducive to the baby's physical health at all, nor is it conducive to the baby's physical development, so parents must pay attention to this problem.

What are the disadvantages of baby eating hands? How can I stop my baby from eating his hands? It may cause peeling, swelling, infection, and even deformation of the fingers, which can be corrected by diverting attention.

It is recommended that parents help children to quit bad habits in time to avoid developmental abnormalities caused by finger sucking behavior after the age of 3. Finger-eating behaviors that occur before the age of 3 often belong to finger-burning behaviors in search of psychological comfort, and there is no obvious harm; If it is not corrected in time.

The best measures for babies to eat hands are as follows:

Clause. 1. It is normal for babies to eat hands, don't blindly stop babies from eating hands. Pay attention to hand hygiene, and give your baby more comfort and companionship.

If the spirit remains happy, relaxed and rolling, the baby will slowly feel that eating hands is not interesting, and the behavior of eating hands will disappear.

Clause. Second, you can usually use the toys in the baby travel hall to divert the baby's attention, so that the baby can have something to do, and there is no empty hand to stuff the mouth into.

Clause. Third, the mother should also pay attention to the baby's education, which is also very important, do not overly control all the baby's behavior, so that the baby feels excessively nervous. Once the baby is overly nervous, fearful, and insecure, he will eat his hands.

So in life, the baby sometimes can't speak, but the mother feeds the hidden milk, and the baby should play with him more when he is happy, communicate with the language, communicate, and the baby will relax, and as he grows older, there will naturally be no action of eating hands.

If the child has such a problem, the parents should immediately restrain it, and should immediately tell the child the address, which is particularly incorrect, and there will be a lot of bacteria, and finally the hospital may be admitted to the hospital, and the infusion may also be given.

Parents must divert their children's attention, let their children play with toys, and make their children aware of the disadvantages of eating hands, and they can give their children calcium and vitamins. It is necessary to pay attention to this issue.

You can smear some bitter food on your child's hands, or stop your child's habit of eating your hands in time, and reason with your child.

Every parent hopes that their children can grow up healthy and happy, but in the growth of children, we will also find that children will have some bad behaviors. When we find some wrong behaviors in our children, as parents, we should correct our children in time.

During children's growth and development, there are actually many bad habits in them. Common behaviors such as picky eating, finger biting, bedwetting, etc., and many children are addicted to TV and mobile phones. Some children are more selfish, and no matter what they do, they will be self-centered and do not consider the feelings of others.

There are also some children who are lazy and do not like to work, and even among elementary school students, there is a comparison behavior. There are also some children who don't like to study and don't want to use their brains when they encounter problems. Some children also have a very unstable schedule, do not like to go to bed at night, wake up early and are reluctant to get up.

Sometimes you will find that there are many children who like to lie to their families, and these are some of the bad habits of children.

Your child may like to eat his hands simply because he is bored and wants to bite his fingers when he has nothing to do. Sometimes a child likes to eat his hands because his body lacks nutrients, and it may be that the child likes to eat his fingers because of his bad spleen and stomach. Sometimes children like to bite their fingers to relieve their suppressed emotions because of nervousness and anxiety.

If the child bites his finger because of discomfort, parents should take the child to the hospital in time.

If the child likes to eat fingers for psychological reasons, parents should do a good job in guiding the child, and can accompany the child more to create a good family atmosphere. When you find that your child is eating hands, you can divert your child's attention and take your child to walk around outdoors more. Sometimes children like to eat their hands because of the lack of trace elements in the body, if this is the case, it is necessary to supplement the child's nutrition in time so that the child can eat more fruits and vegetables.

You can also play more games with your children to increase the relationship between parents and children. In daily life, parents should not only have material satisfaction for their children, but also pay attention to their children's spiritual world.

If the baby is old to eat hands, you can use the following measures to deal with: first, reduce the psychological tension of children, because some children always eat hands, is caused by psychological tension, such children are often more introverted, parents or teachers to comfort the child, take care of the child appropriately, let the child relieve the uneasy mood, the child's total eating hand symptoms will naturally be reduced. Secondly, to give children appropriate attention to divert attention, when children eat hands, parents should timely apply the way to divert attention to alleviate, such as the use of children's favorite toys, or more interested games.

The child is always eating his hands, and it is likely that he is going to grow teeth. If this is the reason, then using pacifiers and the like as a substitute can also make the child eat teething biscuits.

Children always eat their hands, and this phenomenon should be dealt with like this:1Appropriate methods to correct the child, play games with the baby, watch cartoons, etc.; 2.

Divert the child's attention and make his mind think of another interesting thing; 3.Carry out routine blood examination and trace element determination, and if there is a deficiency of trace elements, it should be corrected in time, and zinc and iron supplementation can be supplemented symptomatically**.

Buy your child more toys. In addition, the child can hit it when he eats his hands. In this way, he will have a memory.

Parents must actively communicate with their children, tell him that the habit of eating hands has many harms, and let him accept it from the heart and change it.

We can choose to put some mustard on the child's fingers, although it may be very cruel for the child, but it can also make the child remember it at a time.