Why don t the people you love love you? Can you elaborate on that?

Instead of loving ourselves first, we all hope that in love, we can get each other's love, so we do our best to give. We hope to exchange our goodness for each other's sincerity. But some girls don't learn to love themselves before they love others.

In general, it is easier for them to adapt to each other, and even compromise with each other unconditionally and without a bottom line.

They love humbly and are sometimes willing to kneel down and lick them. Because they felt that doing so was a sign of her love for the boy, and the boy would be moved by her actions. In fact, when you can't love yourself, despise yourself everywhere, and put others first, others won't take you seriously and won't respect you, so you won't get the approval of the people you like.

You always choose the wrong person to love, and the person you love always doesn't love you, another reason is that the object you choose is the wrong target. Obviously, his situation is ordinary, even a little pitiful, and he just longs for those fair-skinned and beautiful long-legged beauties. For the average person, this is not his food at all.

Or, meet the kind of boy who is good to everyone. As long as people show a little kindness, you can go to the trouble for him and pay the price for the whole world. Of course, in this case, you will only end up getting hurt.

If you don't fall into either of the above two situations, you don't know how to love yourself or how to screen for objects. You must be for this reason: you are sensitive, kind, and can detect subtle emotional changes.

In the eyes of others, your emotional life is quite healthy. But only you can understand all kinds of sad feelings.

Maybe you've been in love a few times and feel calm, but you're already feeling exhausted. I don't know why, you can't reach the finish line every time. If you feel this way, relax.

As long as you act right, I believe that at the right time your destiny will be a part. All we can do is not give up hope, keep growing, love ourselves well, and hope that your love is in the best state.

It may be that he becomes fearless after receiving love, and he thinks that you will not leave him, so he will not care about his attitude towards you. There are also some who may love you too, but he doesn't show it, and you don't notice it.

This is because the two of you have different views, and you can't effectively meet his inner needs; Because two people have different personalities, and the way they get along will make each other particularly disgusted, you will always make each other tired in your love life.

Because the person you love is more ruthless, or he already has someone he likes, or he is not interested in you at all.

01. You can't keep the people who want to leave, you can't wake up the people who pretend to be asleep, and you can't move the people who don't love you.

02. The world does not belong to you in the first place, so you don't need to abandon it, what you have to abandon is all attachment. All things are for my use, but not for me.

03, don't put it down if you can't put it down, remember it first if you can't forget it, one day you will find that you have forgotten it in your mind.

04. When others say that we are not good, there is no need to be angry and sad. We don't have to be happy to say that we are good, there is good in this bad, and there is bad in good, it depends on whether you can use it?

05. The younger a person is, the more reasons there are to break up. Sometimes it's just because of a word, a rumor, a little arrogance, or just because your complicated little mind thinks too much.

06. Boys who don't work hard now will only have two results in the future: endless rotten tobacco and endless physical work.

1. If you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you, then let yourself go, because no matter what you do, he won't look at it.

2. If you do all kinds of things for someone who doesn't love you and try to impress him, then forget it, after all, you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep.

3. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is like a star in the sky, and if you want to get her, it's a luxury.

4. The affection you think you have only touched you alone, and others treat your affection as a joke.

5. Don't think about things that don't belong to you, because others won't allow you to think about them.

6. Friends, based on my own experience, I would like to give you a piece of advice: if you are unfortunate enough to fall in love with someone who does not love you, please abandon him as if he were a shoe, because he will be like a bodhisattva in the temple, no matter how hard you plead, he will not respond to you.

You try to take care of everyone's feelings, you don't want the people around you to be unhappy, you can always find subtle changes in their emotions, but in the end, it will always be you who are left behind.

Some people, some things, should be forgotten, people have never reassured you, why should you be amorous.

Don't overestimate your place in other people's hearts, you must understand that the person who wants to leave can't stay, the person who pretends to be asleep can't wake up, and the person who doesn't like you can't be moved.

No matter how uncomfortable I feel in my heart, when others ask, I blurt out the sentence "It's okay". Some things don't have to be said, some people don't have to wait, some things don't have to be done, some tears don't have to flow, some feelings don't have to be forced.

You must understand: you can't keep the people who want to leave, you can't wake up the people who pretend to be asleep, and you can't move the people who don't love you.

You can love someone to the dust, what hurts you is not the other party's desperation, but your insistence on illusions, and your infatuation can't move someone who doesn't love you.

I once thought that I could change a person, but I found that the only thing to change is myself, the person who really loves you will love you very much, and the person who doesn't love you will not love you after all.

First, don't try to wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep.

Second, you can see pinpoint-sized wounds all over the world, but you don't care about the pain of my scaly wounds.

Because the two people are too far away, they often can't see each other, and the two people often have no topic, they are busy with work, and the other party is too good to think that they are inconspicuous.

I think it's probably because my personality isn't the type he likes, and I'm a little more introverted and not good at expressing my inner feelings, while he likes more extroverted girls. Hu Mo.

Because we don't know each other very well now, and the type he likes is not my type, and the two of us have less topics in common.

Summary. The person who doesn't love you will always say it better than the person who loves you, this is because the person who doesn't love you stands outside the relationship and is more rational, so he can organize his thoughts very well, and say all the things you want to hear and love to hear, but the person who loves you will inevitably have a disturbed heart when he is affectionate to you, so what he doesn't necessarily say is what you love <>to hear

The one who doesn't love you will always say more than the one you love. What is the meaning.

People who don't love you will always say more than people who love you, Bo Lu This is because people who don't love you stand outside of their feelings and are more rational, so he can organize his thoughts very well, and say all the words you want to listen to and love to hear, but the people who love you will inevitably have turmoil when they are affectionate to you, so what the messenger may not say is what you love <>to hear

What is the specific situation you are experiencing now? Can you tell us about that? So that I can better help you <>

My girlfriend wasn't good enough for him. Not really for him. I want to give up, but I can't give up.

Okay, I understand, I want to give up, but I can't bear to <> for what reason

Since you are not sincere to him, why are you reluctant to give up? Is there any psychological need that has not been met [Little Red Flower]?