My parents dislike my boyfriend s family background and let me break up, what should I do if I am re

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hang on. If it's just a bad family situation and it's good for you, then I think if you insist a little longer, the parents will agree, because parents want their children to live well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Try to help your boyfriend meet the requirements of his parents, be strict with him, and let his parents see your boyfriend's efforts so that parents will understand you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This can only communicate with the parents, on the one hand, let the boyfriend come to the parents to behave well, as long as they make some achievements, the parents will agree in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the boy is self-motivated, you must insist and discuss it with your parents. If the boy has no responsibility, it is still recommended to break up, and to understand whether it is worth it or not.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then discuss it with my parents, although my boyfriend's family background is not good, but he is very good to me, and I believe that we can live a good life through our efforts.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Give the boy a chance to see if he is self-motivated, if he can give you a good life, if you can't do it, get together and disperse, and don't delay anyone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Think rationally and suggest a breakup. For a marriage to last, you still have to have a certain economic foundation, otherwise it is equivalent to becoming a senior nanny as soon as you get married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After all, the future life is to live by yourself, if this boy is unreliable, it is recommended to break up. Of course, if the boy is more self-motivated, he can continue to deal with it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    With a boyfriend, the boyfriend chooses to break up with the girl because of the opposition of his parents, as a girl, you must know that this is because the boyfriend does not love the girl enough at all. That's why I listened to my parents' words and broke up with each other directly, girls should know that if a boy really cares about himself, no matter what kind of objection his parents say, the boy will try his best to reply to his parents. There are even some boys who will get the blessing of their parents because they think that as long as they show determination and want to be with their girlfriends.

    When most couples in life choose to be together, many couples will also be influenced by their parents. When parents are against young people being together, the boyfriend directly proposes to break up with the girl, as a girl, you must know that there is obviously no future with such a boy. Because boys only care about listening to their parents, boys who have never considered how to listen to their parents in the relationship with their girlfriends are just like a mom boy, and being with such a mom boy will only waste their time.

    There are many reasons why every couple breaks up, but as a couple, know that if a guy doesn't want to be with his girlfriend just because he listens to his parents. I can also feel that there is no affection between the two people at all, and they continue to get along together. It's just a waste of two people's time, and it's better to let go and make life easier for two people than to make this choice.

    Girls should realize that if the girlfriend is far less important in the boy's mind than the parents, the parents will say anything to the boy. Boys will listen to their parents, and they don't care much about their girlfriends from the bottom of their hearts, and even some boys will consider each other's family conditions. Because I think that if the girl's family conditions are better, then the two people will live happily together, so that the boy will be able to struggle for a few years less.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, it means that the other party does not love himself at all, and the other party's feelings for him are not particularly deep, so the other party will take the initiative to break up with him. Such a man should be far away, or the other party is a mom boy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No. Love is not selfish, falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, and we can't break the hearts of our parents for ourselves.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes. Because if your boyfriend loves you enough, he won't break up easily, so I don't think it's enough love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We all hope that our marriage relationship can be blessed by others, if your boyfriend's mother looks down on you, then we can choose to break up at this time, because your relationship is not blessed by the other party, so you will also feel very painful. We all want our other half to be on our side, but we feel that we must also cherish ourselves.

    1. Can I only choose to break up?

    Of course, you can choose not to break up, because this is also your freedom, but it is recommended that everyone break up, because the man's parents do not like you, so your relationship is not blessed. If you really want to marry your boyfriend, then you must get the other person's approval, and you must get the other person's parents to approve of you, but the other person's parents hate you very much, so they feel that there is no need to continue the relationship. We must also learn to cherish ourselves in life, if you don't even love yourself, how can you ask others to love you.

    Second, what problems do we need to pay attention to?

    We must also pay attention to related problems in our daily life, but we don't need to feel very nervous, so we don't have to feel very worried, but there are many problems that we need to pay attention to, so that you can become better. Because you yourself will feel very painful, and your boyfriend's parents don't like you at all, and you yourself won't feel very happy, so it is recommended that everyone break up with each other immediately. You don't need to feel very anxious to solve this problem better.

    III. Conclusion. In daily life, we must also pay attention to related issues, so you really don't need to feel very nervous. If the other party's parents really don't like you, then we can choose to break up with each other at this time, so we don't have to feel very anxious, and there are a lot of good men in the world, so we can also find another boyfriend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think you can only choose to break up, because a marriage without the blessing of your parents will not be happy, and this is not conducive to the development of feelings, so I think you can only choose to break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, you should choose to break up, since the other party's parents don't like you very much and look down on yourself, it means that you and the other party's family are not a good match.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't think so, you can make yourself better and make them look up to you.

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