I want to ask everybody if you re going to be okay if you re married to someone you don t love

There is no doubt that this will be unhappy, but it can be very dull.

The key depends on what kind of life you want.

It also depends on whether you are willing to be willing or not, there are many such examples, and everyone generally does this.

If you can be willing, it is also a good choice to find someone who loves you.

But whether you love her or not, the most important thing is to remember: your responsibility.

Wishing you happiness!

It can't be generalized, everyone has different feelings, maybe some people will be good, some people will be bad, and some people can't say good or bad, and in these three situations there are thousands of differences. I'm afraid it's not easy to cite examples, you can't talk about a friend, because what you see is only the appearance, and the real inside story is only afraid that it won't be clear, if it's a TV series, everyone knows it, so you don't need to cite it.

No way! You should find someone you don't hate and love you very much!

First of all, if he doesn't love you, you don't want to ask for warmth from him, such as being sick and having no one to take care of, being wronged at work, having no one to comfort you, being bullied by your colleagues, and no one fighting for you. This kind of marriage is better than not marrying. Secondly, he doesn't love you, but he is willing to make do with you, give you only enough for the family's living expenses, and then he doesn't discuss anything with you and doesn't let you interfere.

This kind of is more sad.

Yes. It's more important to live a suitable life than to like it. Firewood, rice, oil and salt will dilute the vigorous orange slow love. Suitable means that the other party has a lot of merits that are suitable for marriage.

When you have experienced many relationships and have rich emotional experiences, you will find that in fact, getting married is to find a suitable person to live with.

Marrying to life can cultivate love, and marrying love will die in life.

It's like if you go east and west, it's a choice, and then there will be different experiences. In my experience, people who have experienced marriage will choose yes, the reason is that you love now, it does not mean that you will love when you are old in the future, and you will not love now, and you will live with someone who is suitable for you, and in the end it is not love but also used to life, like relatives.

The most important thing is whether the person you choose is "suitable", which is the core. There is no standard for this, only you can experience it yourself.

Of course it will, you must know that love cannot be eaten, and love is not necessarily appropriate. It doesn't matter if there is love or not, the most important thing is to be suitable.

Yes. I will choose to marry a person I don't like, but the right person, and a person I don't like to marry has the following characteristics: first, the division of labor is clear, there are not many contradictions, it is precisely because there is no use of feelings between two people, so women will have no expectations for their husbands, in fact, many contradictions in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women blindly ask to be loved, she will have a lot of strange requirements. So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.

Second, the self-satisfaction of emotional value Women are often always thinking about whether the other half loves them or not, and she will feel happy when she feels loved, and she will feel sad on the contrary. In fact, emotional value is the most useless thing, the sun will not rise because you are depressed, and the night will not come a little later because you are happy today. So what's the difference between being happy and unhappy?

Perhaps the most important thing is to achieve a marriage relationship where 1 plus 1 is greater than 2, when you pin your happiness on yourself, you will get it. For example, for the wife, the husband's flowers on Valentine's Day are nothing to look forward to, she thinks that the flowers she bought cost 100 yuan, and the husband bought them is also worth 100 yuan, so there is no difference between what she buys and what her husband buys, and at this time her happiness can be self-satisfied, and she will become a stronger person. Third, men are more likely to succeed Men's character should be neither humble nor arrogant.

I'm good to you, you're good to me, and I treat it like a treasure. I'm good to you, you're not good to me, I'm abandoning it and looking for the next one. There will always be women who will appreciate you.

Then, you get married, have children, work hard, and make the family better. You were born to your parents, and you have been poor for decades, but you can't be soft-boned. Soft bones never end well.

When you marry someone you don't like, you don't need to meet his bizarre demands, you can concentrate more on your work, you don't need to have all kinds of messy holidays, you don't have to face your wife's changing emotions. Love is short-lived, hormone secretion is also temporary, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old, so choosing to marry a person you don't like, and choosing a more suitable person to marry can reflect the value of marriage greatly. So I will choose to marry someone I don't like, the best result is that the person you like is also the right person for you, if not, maybe choose a suitable marriage partner is happier.

There must be only one answer to this question, of course, they are willing to choose the person they like to get married.

However, not everyone has such a good choice!

First of all, you have to think about what kind of marriage you want, and then you can think about what kind of person you choose to marry!

Two people in married life must be happy with each other and love each other, so that the marriage will have a good life and last for a long time! Therefore, when you have high standards and high requirements for marriage, you will not casually settle for someone you don't like, and you are unlikely to get married casually! Marriage is not child's play!

However, some people do not have a choice in marriage, and a small number of people still need the arrangement of their parents, or because of some circumstances that have to choose!

If you can marry someone you like, once there is a conflict in your life, it will be resolved quickly, but if you marry someone you don't like, not only is it easy to have contradictions, but once the contradictions arise, it is also difficult to resolve them, which is a great hidden danger for marriage.

3. Marriages are prone to breakdown.

Although it is not said that the marriage with the person you like is necessarily perfect, but in comparison, the marriage with the person you like is indeed more stable and long-lasting than the marriage with the person you don't like.

If you have the conditions to choose independently, have your own views on marriage, and have higher requirements for feelings, then you can work hard to find someone you like and tie the knot. In this way, it is very possible to ensure that your future marriage is happy, even if you are not happy, you have a clear conscience, because it is your original insistence, your own choice is responsible for yourself, and there are no complaints!

Finally, of course, I hope that everyone can find the one they like, and then happily walk into the sacred marriage hall!

I hope you will live this life in vain and choose to love bravely!