What do you think about the problem of some people bragging as soon as they speak?

Too much vanity. What is lacking to brag about, in fact, I don't have this strength, and I want to rely on bragging to boost my scenery in front of outsiders, instead of pinning my hopes on down-to-earth struggle. In fact, it is like a clown jumping off the beam, and others know exactly what is going on with him.

Seek the recognition of others and the sense of one's own existence. This type of person usually has a deep inferiority complex because of his growth background and experience. When there is a small achievement, he will also show it off, and when he meets people, he will say that he wants everyone to know that he has made this small achievement, but in fact, this is seeking the recognition of others, in order to fill his inner inferiority complex.

As the saying goes, some people show off what they lack. That is to say, people who love to brag have a certain lack of material life and spiritual life, which causes psychological bias, so they balance their psychology by bragging and showing off.

It's a colleague.,Because of the way, I go home together after work every day.,It's really super braggart and the comparison is very heavy.。 The opening is what kind of car my friend drives, what house my friend lives in, I have been to ** travel, how good-looking my friend is, which star my friend knows, how rich my friend is, what gifts my friend gave me, etc. But in fact, her salary is very low, she eats and rides in the car to buy cosmetics all from her parents, and her parents are just ordinary office workers, she will be very proud and say loudly every time she asks her mother for money in the company, to be honest, I really don't understand these people, why are so many people looking for money to show off outside, not ashamed but proud.

It is also a culture to be able to brag and brag, but some people brag well, and some brag in general, and bragging is also a way of expression and communication in life. Suppose a person does not have a certain ability to express themselves. What do you say he will brag about, in real life, everyone has bragged at one time or another, but the way it is performed is different.

I once met a friend, and the relationship was just an acquaintance. He has always been extremely confident in himself, saying that arrogance is more appropriate, he feels that he is handsome and stylish, every time he chats about something, he can't escape what many girls chase him, who praises him for being handsome and so on. Although I never thought he was as charming and charming and humorous as his own narrative, I never refuted him, after all, the feelings are not in place, it is not easy to judge at will, and I just smile politely and not embarrassedly every time to listen to him but do not agree, anyway, because he commented on my circle of friends for a long time and said something to me that I thought was humorous and joking, but in fact it was very impolite, I deleted my friend and then I haven't been in touch with it.

A kind of stress psychology of self-preservation. In some situations, a person can only avoid being bullied if he or she grows stronger. Such as being looked down upon and so on.

Then, when he has a little achievement, he can naturally take it out and prove that he is also a strong person: want to bully me? Let's see who I am.

Bragging is addictive, this is my perception over the years, those who often go out of the bull have lived a very average life over the years, but they have been talking big, self-absorbed in the clouds, and some people who were once young and vigorous and love to brag have gradually converged their edge, because they have no time to do anything retreating, but they have done a prosperous career.

Psychology says that the more people are deficient, the more they will care about which aspect, people who love to talk big are generally weak-minded, afraid that others will not see that they have the ability, and the real strength of people are relatively low-key.

Just don't worry about it. There's no need to deliberately argue with him or raise the bar. After all, people who like to brag are like this because they have low self-esteem and are afraid that others will look down on them. Actually, it's also very pitiful.

They are just too vain, some good faces, and worry that others will look down on him.

The more something is lacking, the more it will show off. Just listen to it as a joke.