When do you feel powerless?

The time when I feel powerless the most is when a loved one falls ill and I have no money or ability, and everyone who has experienced it knows how desperate it is. I am a rural person, is a real poor middle peasant, when I was a child, my father was in a car accident, and the life of the family was even worse, because the conditions were not good, although the study has been good, but I didn't read much to come out to work. At that time, the development of the Internet entered the era of rapid development, and I, like many post-90s and post-80s, was addicted to online games.

Until one day, my mother was unwell and went to the hospital for examination, and found out that she had a serious heart attack, and she had to undergo heart surgery immediately, but the operation cost alone was more than 100,000 yuan, and the follow-up costs were countless. With my conditions at the time, let alone more than 100,000 yuan, I couldn't take out a few thousand yuan, so I had to beg people everywhere to borrow money. It's really a response:

Poor in the downtown no one asks", even if he knelt on the ground like a dog, he couldn't kneel for a few dollars, and he was abused and driven away by his usually good relatives and relatives. Really, don't try people's hearts, no matter how good your relatives are, you borrow money to try? At that time, I really felt useless, hopeless and powerless, why didn't I work hard to make money, why did I indulge in games?

If you are willing to work hard to learn some skills, you will not be able to make money desperately. In desperation, I thought about selling the property in my hometown but no one took over, and there was not so much crowdfunding at that time, so it dragged on for a few months, and my mother died of illness. Until now, every time I think of her painful expression when she was sick, and the line of tears in front of her eyes, I blame myself in my heart except for self-blame.

If you are still young, please don't waste any time and opportunities, and work hard to make money.

Whenever I encounter difficulties or feel very depressed, I will think that no matter what I have lost, I still have my family by my side, as long as they are healthy and healthy, everything else is not important. Yes, the green mountains left are not afraid of no firewood, as long as people are still healthy and healthy, everything is not difficult, and it is not a problem. So, what if a family member is sick and doesn't get medical treatment?

This is the most helpless and helpless moment. I clearly remember when my father was diagnosed with terminal cancer, I felt that the sky of the whole person suddenly darkened, from the hospital on the way to the diagnosis, I saw the vehicles shuttling around me, one after another traffic lights, I felt that I encountered a red light and stopped at a green light, if I drove like this forever, I didn't have to go home, I didn't have to face the inquiries and worries of my family. When you find out that your family member is sick and still has an incurable disease, you will find that everything in life is meaningless, because in the face of a terminal illness, everything is futile and helpless.

I used to fantasize that this could be done, and when I saw that my father was getting better and eating more, I excitedly went to the doctor's office to ask the doctor, is cancer okay? The doctor just smiled. I heard that boiling walnut skin and soaking eggs can be **, so I asked my aunt in the northeast to send walnut skin, watching my father's painful swallowing is really unbearable, but there is still a lot of hope in my heart, I hope to extend my father's life as much as possible.

When you have tried all the methods and found that they are ultimately in vain, you are the most helpless.

When you are sick. Because when you are sick, you are most vulnerable and need the company of your parents and loved ones. And when you're sick, you can't do whatever you want, even if you want to, your body doesn't allow it, so don't be sick if you have anything, and don't die if you don't have anything.

So I feel that I have experienced the pain and suffering of my life, and I admire the person who has cancer, who has no chemotherapy and no drugs. Their willpower is really strong, they can even face life and death so calmly, what difficulties can stump them in the future, they are already great.

That year, my parents in their eighties were hospitalized due to illness, five brothers and sisters, the eldest brother and sister retired but did not want to go to the hospital to take care of them, the younger brother was out of town and could not come back often, and the second sister did not want to stay in the hospital under the pretext of not sleeping well in another place, and all the responsibility fell on me. I rushed to the hospital after work every day, came out of the hospital at 11 or 2 o'clock in the evening, and got up at 5 o'clock in the morning to rush to the hospital. Not only that, but the eldest brother and sister saw that I tried my best to take care of my parents in order to get my father's property, and suspected that my parents gave me money, so they went to the hospital and injured me.

Newspaper 110, because of internal conflicts in the family, is just an understatement. I have been divorced for many years, I have no man or son, and only one daughter is going to college in another place. At that moment, I felt so helpless, I thought, if I had a husband, or if I had a son, they wouldn't dare to be so rampant.

Even the eldest brother and sister went to the intensive care unit to persecute the critically ill father, the father was very pitiful, and in order to protect my father, I could only say: I just got married, I will not let them go! Listening devices have been installed in the hospital to detect whether they are at the hospital at any time.

But in the end, my father left because he was angry. During that time, I felt very powerless and helpless.

Everyone has to go through a lot of ups and downs and tribulations in their lives, and not every time there is a way to solve it, especially death, I have an uncle, the army was demobilized to serve at the deputy county level, the person is very good, the personality is bold, friends must drink enough, on January 10 last year, the family is not around, the daughter went to Beijing, the aunt accompanied the study, that day others beat him ** he didn't answer, didn't care, the next day there was a unit looking for him to sign and couldn't find anyone, the driver contacted me downstairs, because we are usually together, The driver and I know very well, but that day he was afraid to go to his uncle's house, said that he was inexplicably afraid, so he contacted me, the two of us went to my uncle's house together, knocked on the door and no one said, the driver had the key, opened the door, I saw two feet at the bedroom door, I felt that the sky was falling, I ran in and saw my uncle lying on the ground and it was cold, when I informed my aunt at that moment, I felt helpless and helpless, my uncle was only 47 years old.

It's really sad to see your loved ones leave you, and we have known this ending for a long time, but we don't have the power to redeem it.

The most powerless time is now, I am unemployed, I have two children, the younger one is only two years old, and there is a bank loan, my mother suddenly got a disease that can not be maintained at this time, I have to take care of the family, but also find a way to earn money.

I felt powerless when I saw time go by and my homework was not finished.

It was every time I passed by the door of the RT-Mart supermarket in the county seat, when the man who had lost both lower limbs was lying on the ground, begging from the world with a teacup in his hand, I really wanted and wanted to adopt him, however, in real life, I was roughly the same mood, thoughts and situation as the author Russell poured out in the article "Why I Live"! The reason why I am so sympathetic and want to help them relieve these pains is because I am deeply involved in them.

I want to change the status quo, but I feel powerless. After floating outside for so many years, although the salary is good, there is still something missing, and there is a job and a life of one's own. This time, I finally made up my mind to leave my job and go home next year!

When the relatives around you are in trouble, you want to help but don't have the ability!

Seeing my relatives get sick, I have no money or technology, and I really want to help them, but I can't help anything, I really can't do anything.

When you don't have money and can't go home, you really can't help but experience this feeling again.

In front of feelings, I did everything I could, but I still couldn't get that feeling back.

Powerlessness means not using strength; Can't help; You can't exert your power. It means that you are unable to complete or be unable to accomplish something; It can also mean that you can't help something and can't do some practical help.

Powerlessness is a Chinese idiom, from the Qing Dynasty writer, ** Ji Yun's "Reading Wei Caotang Notes": "This sin is so serious that it is difficult to get rid of the micro-self, even Sakyamuni is powerless." The meaning of this sentence is that this sin is very serious, and it is very difficult for me to get rid of it, or even not at all, even Shakyamuni has no way to solve it.

Powerlessness is a neutral idiom, a linkage idiom; It can be used as a predicate, object, and definite; Used for prevarication.

Synonyms of powerlessness are: beyond our power, helpless, helpless, looking up to the sky and sighing, powerless, looking at the ocean and sighing, etc. The antonym of powerlessness is handy.

Example sentences of powerlessness:

1. I'm very sad about this, but there's really nothing I can do.

2. How fragile life is, fleeting like a butterfly in the wind, we can't do anything but cherish the people we can cherish in front of us.

3. What he is afraid of is not difficulties, but his powerlessness in the face of difficulties. He resented this powerlessness, this futile struggle that he knew was irresistible but could not obey, and it was most devastating.

4, Lao Wang is terminally ill, even if Hua Tuo is reincarnated, I am afraid there is nothing he can do.

5. No one can do anything about this, so don't waste your efforts.

You and I are mortal. If the luck is not particularly good, then everyone may have that feeling of powerlessness when facing feelings. This feeling of powerlessness is often due to the fact that one's own ability is not enough to change the left and right, and the other person's mind cannot redeem the other person's heart.

Two people have different dreams in the same bed together. Or maybe it has to be separated in the end. However, he couldn't let go of the other party's sense of pain.

It will make you feel that the sky is dark.

When some people are talking about marriage, the other party suddenly makes unreasonable demands, beyond their ability to buy a house, buy a car, and talk about some material and monetary things. And if your financial ability cannot meet the other party's requirements, you will feel that your married life is particularly tiring. When two people get along or live together, there are contradictions, different views on life and behavior patterns, and these contradictions cannot be settled through simple communication.

You will feel very powerless. The quarrel is uncomfortable. Because man is on the verge of weary collapse.

When I mustered up the courage to choose to compromise and communicate with the other party, the other party rejected me.

We should all know that it takes time for people's minds to mature, and as they grow older, they no longer have the same impulses as when they were young, because impulsiveness is not able to solve any problems, and mutual communication can solve the contradictions encountered and make the lives of two people happier. However, when they understand all this, maybe the two people have separated, just like the lyrics sing, some people will not be at this time once they miss it, and they will feel particularly powerless in the face of feelings.

Feeling: I knew the result, I tried my best to change it, I tried a lot to deviate from the trajectory, but I couldn't help it, watching the result come to fruition step by step, this is my despair. The feeling is that I'd rather not know anything, I want to be a stupid, I want to be insensitive, I want to be blind, I want to be deaf, I want to be unconscious, I want to hide.

It's something I've had before, and then I'm in a better mood, so just let it be.

You can do as much as you can, don't think so much, do it. Maybe you'll find that you can do it as you go, and that's it. The point is that you need to act and be less unnecessarily fantasizing.

Look at the time, I think it's because the family can't help when they need money, and they are powerless.

When I wrote this title, my mind was full of those powerless moments, those images that came to mind.

The feeling of powerlessness was painful, helpless, helpless, tormenting, and overwhelming. Powerlessness is when you really want to do something, but you don't have the ability to do it and bear the consequences. I don't know how you guys feel like powerlessness?

What do you guys think about this? Let me start with a few analogies.

For example, someone close to you is sick, but you are not able to help others. For example, if you want to leave this place, but you can't leave this place due to the pressure of money, you need to stay in this place, so you can't leave this place. For example, if you want something and you have the money to buy it, but you can't buy it, the money needs to be used somewhere else, not to buy it.

For example, if you don't have the money to learn something, you have to ask your family for permission to learn, and if your family doesn't agree, there is no way to do it. In the end, you can only learn by earning your own money.

In these cases, you can find that even if you want to do it again, there will be times when you can't do it, and there is a process to do it later, and there is no such simple thing. I also talked about my feelings earlier, what do you think about this feeling?