How should I deal with such a boy?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Little sister, remember to always be sober. I hope you don't touch such a boy, and from your narrative I feel the frivolity and immaturity of this boy. You only met at a summer school.

    How can two people be familiar enough to call each other baby in such a short period of time? At most, it's just a good feeling between you. If you think about it, sometimes, we feel that the people we have been with for so many years are all strangers to us.

    You are still a high school student, I have graduated from college for many years, and I want to say this: true love is when two people start from friends step by step, so that is the best.

    You don't have to worry about such things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Emotional matters are intelligible to others, so let it be. It's your fate that can't run away.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's up to you, first determine your feelings for him, on this basis, you can get along with him alone, and then make a little move beyond the feelings of brother and sister, look at his reaction, if it is very happy and acquiescing, that is to accept you, you can go further, and you can %$& If not, then let it go, he didn't treat you as a girlfriend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hehe, I'm afraid it's hard for you to forget about him, but I think it's very unlikely that you'll be together, and high school studies are really important, do you say? Don't take those things seriously, you'll be glad for you to give up when you get into a good university...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course, I don't think of you as a sister, and if you like him too, don't hesitate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do not communicate with each other, do not associate with each other, do not accept all gifts from each other, and try to avoid any occasion where the other person is present.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Accept it if you feel it, and give up if you don't feel it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This one is probably the most tangled.

    You don't like it, but he does.

    It's also the easiest. If you don't like it, no matter how much you like it, it's hot. After a long time, it fades.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let it be, the world is destined

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't worry, because of the attachment you have to your ex-boyfriend in your heart, you can't stand the pain of missing, so his concern has such a big influence in your eyes. You will think why I am such a good person again, I am still alone, I will break up, the emptiness in my heart magnifies the influence of others on you, put your vision elsewhere, read more psychological magazines, go out and do more things about yourself, others affect you, it is your own reason.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After all, the ex-boyfriend is in the past, and now there is someone who is good to you, it should be a comfort, try to accept him slowly, don't try to love someone anymore, and slowly accept the person who loves you, it may make you happier.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What you do to other colleagues, what you do to him. He likes you, and it's her business to be nice to you. You've told him you don't like him, and you two can't.

    So there's no such thing as you deceiving his feelings. In this case, then just like ordinary friends, how to get along with each other. It doesn't have to be turned away, it's the solution to be clear.

    Human feelings are very delicate. Perhaps, you get along like friends, and slowly you really become friends. Anyway, if you make it clear to him, it won't affect your boyfriend in the future.

    You should have one more friend, and the more you take it seriously, the more pressure you will have. Just let it be. Have fun.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Tomorrow is the Lantern Festival, and he said he wants me to go by myself, should I go? What should I do? Ask for help and be arrogant because of low self-esteem! Proud of not knowing it! Hurt people because they don't check themselves! This man of yours has a deep tendency like this! He's right,

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He has been good to you for more than a year, and you still have no feelings for him, you don't know how to refuse people, and he really didn't say anything directly, since that's the case, you just pretend to be stupid and continue to live your life, find a boyfriend, go on a blind date, and fall in love. It doesn't hurt his face, but also lets him know how you feel about him. Maybe that's better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You need time now to adjust your mood and at the same time tell the man what you really feel in your heart so that he understands you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can slowly get rid of him! You've decided that if someone has someone in mind, you'll have less contact with them, and you'll come out to play with your colleagues, and you'll come at them, and you'll let them know where to go, and they'll be able to get out of the way. And if you have someone in your heart who also knows that it's your ex-boyfriend, then you treat this man as your friend and tell him at the right time that you treat him as a friend and have no other thoughts of anything else, and you can ignore all of his own behavior, and if it's too much, you can make your thoughts clear, and you don't even have to talk about your friends, because your heart is not yet empty, and whether you accept him or not is a disservice to each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Envy the landlord, since you broke up with your ex-boyfriend, you might as well try to accept it, if it's really not suitable, put it bluntly, pick it up. There are not many good men, don't let them go subjectively.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you really don't like it, you have to refuse, you don't want to hurt him, but you know that the result will be even more hurt.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then you tell him that I can accept you, but I don't love you. If you don't love him, refuse him directly, otherwise it will be difficult to refuse after a long time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You're lucky to have met a man who's liked you for so long. If you don't really like it, a man can't last so long. You should try to get along, and the next time he's looking for you, ask him out for dinner. I hope you can be happy. Bless you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A tendon dies next to your ex-boyfriend.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Well, your choice is the most important! Say no

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you really don't have feelings for him, it's good to ignore him all the time, after all, you pay attention to it and give him hope, in fact, the girl who is brave enough to say "no" is very beautiful, he will understand it later, it is good for him to you. He won't blame you, but you'll be friends. I think so, I used to be like you, I always thought that determination would only destroy the relationship, and now, we are still friends, just friends.

    It is a true friend who can care and talk to each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't like it, you can refuse. Better a finger off than always aching.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Send your ladies to tell him, make it clear what you mean, and don't let yourself fall into a situation of being loved.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The past is gone, and the ex-boyfriend is just a shadow now, so accept it slowly! [My autobiography, please do not plagiarize!] Pick me.

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