My girlfriend wants me to cut ties with my ex wife s child, what should I do?

I am divorced, the child is only 3 years old to bring to my ex-wife, she is far away in other provinces, I pay child support and tuition on time every month.

My girlfriend is very concerned about my children with my ex-wife, although she is also divorced and has a girl, and she needs me to take care of her children together in the future, but she is very disgusted that I contact her son.

She even asked me to cut off the relationship with this child, so that the two of them could go on in harmony, and I usually miss not seeing my son very much.

But my girlfriend here restricts the number of times I can see my son, and I have to take my girlfriend to see it when I want to go over to see it, and I can only watch it three times a year, which is very tangled.

I don't know how to deal with this relationship, because the girlfriend I'm talking about now is usually very good to me, and the two of us have no problem getting along.

She also wants to give me a child, but even if I have a child, it is a knot that two people can't solve, and I don't want to be a negative father, and I don't want to lose a second hard-won relationship.

Is it because my girlfriend has a problem with her mentality, or is my thinking too conservative, is it that I have another child with my current girlfriend, so I won't think too much about my previous children? What am I going to do?

The above is a netizen's own statement. Gu Feng suggested: Your girlfriend is too selfish, why should she ask you to cut off the relationship with your son, she has a problem with her character, I think you had better be cautious about women who can't accept your children.

Not every woman is so selfish, she is too selfish, she is still a mother, and she has a child herself, your child's parents are divorced, and she doesn't let you see it, it's a bit too much, you can't take this too much, and you can't control her in the future.

In order to raise other people's children, don't want your own son, only fools can do things, when you are old, the child grows up, and other people's children sweep you out of the house, you will remember that you are ashamed of your son, but it is too late, and the son no longer needs a father.

So if she insists on letting you cut off contact with your previous children, you quickly break up and find a woman with good character, a kind woman can be reasonable and live a stable life, selfish and vicious people will always find all kinds of things to harm others and take advantage of themselves, except for herself, she is not sincere to anyone, marrying such a woman, the family will have no peace, either her parents and relatives will be a waste together, or she will have to leave sooner or later.

I don't think I can agree to my girlfriend's request, after all, it's my own child, and I can reason more with my girlfriend, and because of this, I'm a very affectionate and righteous person.

I think you should communicate with your own girlfriend, how can you cut ties with your own children? She's just being vexatious.

You should find a girlfriend, and if you want to be with you, you must first accept the child.

Wrong, of course. Because you can't take away a mother's rights.

Wrong, because they are mother and son, even if you cut off the contact, you can't stop the family relationship between them, and you are very selfish in doing so.

This kind of thinking is wrong, people have feelings, and it is normal for your wife to look at her previous children, and she should have more understanding, and the marriage relationship will be better.

In fact, there is something wrong, because the child is innocent and the child should often meet with his parents, which is also of great help to the child's growth, and we should not affect the child's growth because of some of our own bad thoughts.