More than 200 million people in China are single, what do you think are the reasons for these singl

Recently, a wave of single population data has stunned me and my friends. 200 million, yes, you read that right, not 30 million for the gender difference between men and women. This, why are so many excellent compatriots single?

But seeing that you are all single, my wounded heart gets a little comfort, it turns out that 200 million people across the country accompany me for Singles' Day. Hehe, but the reasons behind this mystery of the same single choice are strange. Let's listen to what netizens have to say.

1. Be single with financial resources.

The first few relationships made me very negative and even in debt. Living in debt has made me soberly realize that falling in love hurts money, and I have no money to hurt. So I had an epiphany, I didn't have either talent or wealth. I'm just an ordinary person, single by strength.

2. Love is impotent.

Memories: It's been the 200th day of our relationship, and we've had more than a hundred fights. I... At this time, I don't want to say anything other than to mention the breakup.

So my last relationship ended in a hurry. Later, on Valentine's Day, when I saw my partners snuggling up, I would suddenly yearn for love, but when I recalled those unpleasant pasts, it was better to think about it alone. So single until now, honorably one in 200 million.

3. Being single.

I'm 996 every day, and sometimes I have to go back to work overtime on weekends. My life is nothing but eating and sleeping. Shopping is all done online, and time is a luxury for me. I also look forward to a beautiful love, but I lack time to fall in love.

Fourth, the expectation of love is too idealistic.

I want him to have both an interesting soul and a handsome appearance.

I want her to be a strong woman in her career and a little woman in her family.

It is not difficult to see that these traits are either extremely difficult to gather in one person, or the traits are difficult to compatible.

From the voices of the above netizens, it can be known that 200 million single people are single because they are shy, lack the ability to manage love, work long hours, and are too idealistic about love.

Primarily the quest for freedom. Nowadays, many people's minds have changed and they prefer to live alone, without pressure and at ease. Don't worry about family chores.

The first reason is because I haven't found someone who can walk with me for a lifetime, the second reason is that seeing that the divorce rate is so high now, everyone is afraid to enter into marriage, and the third reason is that life is too stressful now, and it is not as convenient as living alone.

I think it could be the following reasons:

1.Don't want to fall in love.

2.It's still very comfortable to feel single.

3.Get used to living alone.

4.There was no one at home urging marriage.

5.I don't want to suffer from love.

Poor economic conditions or high vision.

Now marriage requires the man to have a car and a house, and some people don't have a car or a house, so they have to be single first;

Some people are very discerning and very picky, so they have never found what they like.

I don't think I dare, after all, it's too expensive to find a partner.

I think most of them don't want to, but now people are becoming more and more independent in mind and economy, and they enjoy the pleasure of living alone, so most of them choose to be single.

I shouldn't dare, because after choosing to fall in love, I will enter marriage and have children, and the expenditure at each stage is very large, especially with the current economic capacity, there is no way to afford such a high consumption.

In ancient times, men had to marry wives and have children when they reached a certain age, and women had to marry when they reached marriageable age. And in today's society, more and more people don't want to fall in love and get married, so that the number of "single" people is increasing. So, what are the reasons for the increasing number of singles?

1.Inclusivity in today's society

In ancient times, men should marry and women should marry; In today's society, people's values are constantly changing with the development of economy and society, and whether to decide to marry should respect personal wishes, rather than "the order of parents and the words of matchmakers". Due to the equality of men and women in today's society, women are becoming more and more independent, some people think that marriage will affect their career development, and many people think that it is good to live alone, so there are fewer and fewer people who want to get married. <>

2.The price of falling in love is too great

Many people are wholeheartedly good to another person and want to be with him, but one day, he suddenly changes, suddenly he doesn't love, he can easily withdraw, leaving another person to be self-sad. It is difficult for people who have experienced such a love to believe in love anymore, because sincerity is rare in today's society. None of us can guarantee how long a person who says they love you will be with you, and in order to avoid not experiencing this kind of love again, many people choose to be alone and choose to love themselves well.

3.The composition of a family requires a lot of material conditions

In today's society, the premise of marriage requires a lot of material conditions, such as a house, a car, bride price, etc. For many young people, this is not easy, and marriage is the union of two families, after marriage, the couple not only have to live on their own, but also need to take care of both parents, as well as future children, and the cost of choosing to raise a child is very high. If young people choose to get married, they will face these problems, and more and more young people are choosing to be single compared to the tedious life.

Whether it is love or marriage, we all have the right to choose ourselves, because life is our own, and others have no right to choose what kind of life you want to live for you. Live your life in the form you like to bring out your best.

Times have changed, the environment has changed, and concepts have changed.

Because it is now a society where there are more men than women, it is becoming more and more difficult for boys to find girlfriends;The cost of falling in love is too high, and many boys will not fall in love because of financial problems.

First, people who struggle want to get married after a successful career, and second, most people pursue a high-quality married life, and then those with poor economic conditions will be single.

More than 200 million people in China are single, and the reason why the number of single people is increasing is because many people feel that marriage is very stressful, and being single is very free, and it can also bring happiness to people.

Because young people nowadays are accustomed to their own free life, and they have also seen many examples of unhappiness after marriage, there will be some fear of marriage in it.

Because many of them lack a sense of security and self-"pride" and think that they deserve better people, they are also afraid that they will not be able to bear the future after being together.

There is a lot of social pressure, and the economic pressure is also very high, and the requirements for boys are getting higher and higher, so many people can't find a partner and are single.

Because most people nowadays can be financially independent, there are more and more things to consider when choosing a love partner or marriage partner, and it is not very happy to be single.

Because people are under a lot of pressure at work nowadays, they don't have time to fall in love, and they don't have enough money to fall in love, so people are now choosing to be single.

Because I have fewer friends, I don't know many friends through friends. Also, I don't like to meet new people and make friends in a new environment. I've gotten used to being alone for a long time, and I don't want to deal with anyone.

I think it's a matter of personal character, now not only myself, too many young people prefer to be alone, don't like to communicate with others, let alone the opposite sex, I personally feel very troublesome and don't want to waste time, I feel that I am good alone, and I live a very nourishing life when I am full of food and the whole family is not hungry.

I believe it is not difficult for everyone to find that the number of single people in our country is increasing, and at the same time, the marriage rate and fertility rate are also declining. <>

And I'm also a member of the army of singles now, but if you want to ask me why I'm still single, I can't actually say why, but I really don't want to fall in love now, and I think I'm really good alone. Of course, I also admit that sometimes when I look at the love of those couples, it is false to say that I don't envy, but envy is also envy, and if I say that I want to fall in love, I may still be more repulsed. Next, I will analyze with you the reasons why so many people remain single.

First, the vision is relatively high. Personally, I feel that a large number of people will remain single now, because they have a higher vision, whether it is for men or women, their vision is constantly improving. So everyone fell into such a situation, that is, they looked up to themselves to be relatively good, and others looked down on themselves; And those who look at themselves, and they don't look down on each other, will feel that they are better suitable, so they have been single.

Second, I didn't meet someone I liked. There are also some people who will pay more attention to feelings, after all, not everyone is willing to settle, some people would rather be single than be with someone they don't like, so they won't fall in love until they meet someone they like. <>

Third, there are fewer people who take the initiative to pursue it. I believe everyone should have this feeling, that is, the number of boys who will take the initiative to pursue girls has decreased. Because in everyone's subconscious, they will feel that the pursuit of this kind of thing should be done by boys, although there are now girls to pursue boys, but in most cases, it is true that boys chase girls, after all, girls are thin-skinned and not very embarrassed to take the initiative.

But now there are fewer active boys, and there are not many active girls, so the number of people in love will decrease.

I think it is due to the development of society and the progress of the times, people's thinking has also changed, and they no longer think that getting married and having children is the only way to go, and many people feel that they can live well alone, and can achieve self-sufficiency and self-entertainment, because there are more and more single people.

The main reason is that many young people pay more attention to enjoying one's life, value the quality of personal life, think that it will be troublesome for two people to be together, and the cost of marriage is also very high now.

In fact, with the development of the times, more and more people do not feel that being single is a bad thing. They enjoy the feeling of freedom that the single belt brings to them more.

Because the current society is good, many people are happy not to get married.

Now marriage requires a car, a house, and a large amount of bride price, and many people are single without money.

Because modern young people are busy with their own work, they don't have time to socialize and contact other members of the opposite sex, so they are single.

There are many men and few girls in China, and there is chaos in the poor families of some men. Most of the beautiful girls are carefully selected. In fact, rich men are too big to make money, and rich women are not rich unless they have some difficulties in the family, and there are other reasons and consequences that have not yet been agreed upon.

Because they find themselves living this high-quality single life alone, happier and freer.

There are many reasons for singleness, such as the different pursuit of self-worth between men and women, the unequal economic foundation, high housing prices, high bride price, different views, busy work, busy study, and so on.

It is because many people now feel that being single is more free, and they can also make their living conditions better, and they don't need to have too many worries.

Because people nowadays are busy with work and life, they don't have time to fall in love, and they also need enough financial strength to fall in love, so more and more people choose to be single.

With the development of society, people's living standards are getting higher and higher, everyone has their own ideas, everyone's opinions are different, and being single is also a choice.

That's a lot of reasons, I'm single too. I think some people value money. Falling in love is demanding. It costs hundreds of thousands to get married.

It's too homely, and the pressure of marriage is high, and the high bride price and housing prices are that many people choose to live on their own, and they are very comfortable and free without bearing the pressure from their families.

The conditions are poor, I can say that I can't afford to buy a car house, I can only rent a house, and I look ordinary, such conditions, it is naturally not good to find a partner, which is very regrettable, but I can only accept the result.

It must be because there is no one, there are no newcomers around me, and I don't want to attack my old classmates and friends, so I have been single for so long.

The reason why I'm single is because I don't have a good economy, I don't have many girls in my own profession, and I don't do well financially, so I haven't been able to find a suitable girlfriend.

I think the reason why many people are single is that they are unwilling to settle, and they wholeheartedly want to find the person who loves them and suits them, but this person has never appeared, so they have been single until now.

The reason I'm single is because the cost of getting married now is very high and it will add to my financial pressure.

I think the main reason why people are single now is the independence of their own thoughts, after all, in modern society, both men and women can earn their own money to survive, unlike the old society, women need to rely on men to live well, independent thoughts, economic independence, so there are more and more single people.