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In fact, judging whether a person's character is good or not may not be able to see for a while. But with the accumulation of time, you will be better able to see how he behaves. There is an old saying that is good and will be popular over time.
In psychology, people with poor character are generally very selfish and like to do some indiscriminate things behind their backs. Although he will not show it, with the passage of time, everything he has will be revealed someday in the future.
I found that people with poor character generally have these three manifestations. If you have such a person around you, it is advisable for you to stay away from him.
1. Being selfish.
In relationships, selfish people are not welcome in the crowd, and people with this personality are more egoistic, narrow-minded and paranoid.
Especially when doing things touches their own interests, this kind of person can do whatever it takes for the sake of profit. If he causes harm to others, he will not think about them.
A selfish person is also prone to conflict with others, quarrel, and have a big temper in life. If it's serious, it will hurt you.
You know, the greatest quality of a person is not to do things that affect others. If you don't want to be affected, please avoid this happening.
Second, he likes to use others to achieve himself.
A selfish person is self-centered in everything he does, he does not care about others, and even sacrifices the interests of others to fulfill himself.
This kind of person usually speaks very harshly, and he is not used to those who are better than him, and he will be jealous in his heart, and then he will talk about people's strengths and weaknesses behind his back, tarnishing the reputation of others.
In essence, a selfish person has extreme inferiority complex and too much vanity, so he wants to desperately slander others to make himself happy.
Frankly, the life of such a person is full of misfortunes, and a selfish person will not give or even share good things to others. He will only take by force, so others will reject him, and it will be difficult for him to have true happiness.
Third, the pattern is small.
People with poor character generally have a small pattern, little knowledge, and no certain ability. As a result, his status in society is also low.
This kind of person has no knowledge, and at the same time, he habitually does not know how to pretend to understand, and is selfish and stingy.
He is easy to quarrel with others over some small things, and he is careful about everything, although he doesn't say it, but he will hold a grudge.
often puts himself in a painful role, complaining all day long, he has a small pattern, and he can't fit much, but there are a lot of bad moods.
He habitually looks at problems from his own point of view, without a bit of tolerance. Therefore, in the course of dealing with others, he is also prone to do things that harm the interests of others.
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1. Being unkind and greedy for small things.
To be a person in advance, you must first have a good character, and a person with a bad character is often unkind and likes to be greedy; Always proceed from their own interests and use means that violate their moral conscience to behave and do things. This kind of person is narrow-minded, and he has to distinguish the winner from the loser in everything, and even more so in terms of interests, everything is self-centered, and he cares everywhere.
2. I don't know how to be grateful.
Never care about others, only take care of their own interests, ask for help to say all the good things, once soaring, arrogant, other people's financial kindness is forgotten.
This kind of person who doesn't know how to be grateful is really terrible, has no character, has no conscience, you help him, he will only think about himself, you trust him, he is just using you, there are such people around, you must stay away.
3. People who are not honest and don't count.
A person with a bad character is often a person who does not speak of integrity and has no credit. If a person does not have credit, he will lose the trust of others, and often he will not be able to do anything well. The key to interpersonal interactions is to be trustworthy.
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The performance of poor character is mainly reflected in the world, selfishness, mercenary, and calculating.
Selfishness and self-interest
One of the main manifestations of a person with poor character is that he is very selfish, no matter what he will only consider himself first, he will not care about what others think, most of them are based on their own interests, for such a friend, if one day you accidentally infringe on some of his rights and interests, even if it is a friend for more than ten years, he will break with you, because in their eyes.
Insidious villains love to take advantage of others
People with poor character never consider feelings or moral issues, and in order to achieve their own goals, they can do whatever it takes, or even directly use the true feelings of others in exchange for their own interests. For this kind of friends with poor character, you must know how to stop loss when you find out, and don't go over stupidly, otherwise you won't know if you are sold.
Not only is he stingy, but he also likes to be calculating
It is inevitable that some conflicts between friends occur, maybe they will soon forget, but the other party has been holding on to it or even calculating, this is the manifestation of poor character, for this kind of person, he may not remember the good things you do to him, but he will always be haunted by the bad things he will not let go.
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